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I am just being real! If I have to be away from my man for a over 6 months and he cheats on me I will forgive him!
All I am trying to say is that not all cases of cheating should result in a break up, sometimes the circumstance that led to the cheating has to be taken into consideration in our decision.

Ok!
Have a nice day at work.

Why don't you leave her alone and find a girl who is free. That 3 month affair could ruin her relationship.

@Possy faka
Thanks.
Its a traditional belief and I was told stories but I have not witnessed any incidence.
Moreover I am a christian so don't subscribe to such.
I totally agree with you on your reasons for difficult delivery but try telling the traditionalists in my village!
You will be automatically tagged the guilty man involved in the act.
Cheers.

He is free to remarry.

@hackney
Sometimes people cheat coz the partner was not there for them at some point or if they were 'seduced' when they were emotionally unstable for any reason.
For instance someone gets sacked and the partnr does not show enough care but another person is all over the emotionally distraught person. Anything can happen especially if the do-gooder has been dreaming of getting through. Things happen in this world, let's leave theory and talk practicality. Husbands/wives cheat and they still stay married.

I will first unleash my anger on him (ans I do have a temper) then I will calm down to hear exactly why he did it.
Based on his explanation I will take a decision to either break up, revenge, forgive but don't forget or forgive & forget!

It is a taboo and it is believed that the woman will have difficulty during delivery!

Thanks Maxtum!
Keep those broad shoulders of yours handy coz as the rate I am going I may need them soon!
I will holla u later!