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I am standing on the fence on this. It is very relative.
Some may have the cash to throw around and buy expensive gifts but when a guy or chic makes personal sacrifices to buy something expensive for his/her partner; should that partner cheat or start misbehaving it will take the grace of God not to ask for those expensive gifts back.
I won't as for them back though but then I am also very cautious about what I dole out.

^^Why should he get rid of her. They fit each other perfectly.
He should enjoy his marriage.

@MRbrownJAY
I get you now.
So if she breaks up with you and moves on, you will allow her take the gift(s) but if she is caught 'cutting shows' you will demand your gift(s) back. Hmmm
I will leave the gifts for him.

Till after marriage is ideal if one can resist the urge

^^Now you are saying one should be tied down to a relationship to show gratitude for a gift. What if she/he falls out of love a year or two after the gift?

^^It will be absolute foolishness to keep paying the bills of your ex except you owe her but collecting the car you bought for her back is childish. But if it was a loan to her because you were dating her you should ask for it back.

It's childish.