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DON'T SEE WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING, IF YOU MARRY HER JUST BECAUSE IT WILL BE ETHICAL,THEN IT WILL BE A COMPROMISE AND YOUR MARRIED LIFE MAY NOT BE HAPPY ONE ,BOTH FOR YOU AND THE GIRL. but yes, just because of personality of the girl(like if you want an outspoken,frank,bold etc girl)you are SURELY ignoring a DIAMOND, you may realise this after she won't be in your life. why don't you talk to her directly, don't think her heart will be broken, it will be better to get the things clear on the basis of truth rather than to hope on the basis of FALSE EXPECTATIONS. LOVE IS ABOVE ALL PHYSICAL ASPECTS OF A PERSON!!

hellolalit: GO THROUGH THE STORY BELOW AND ASK YOURSELF:

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?
"The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back o pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... but may bethere is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is thebest one you get.... this is marriage."

Doyn1: Hey people come 2 my rescue oo, I have this girl I have been dating for 6years now, she is all what a man wants in a lady. (neat, loyal, caring, faithful, marriage material etc) She loves me so much and I love her so much as she settles situations around me whenever she's around but I dont see myself marrying her. I dont see a future in it. We are still together though but just dont know what to do Please peeps advice me ooo

GO THROUGH THE STORY BELOW AND ASK YOURSELF:

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?
"The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back o pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... but may bethere is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is thebest one you get.... this is marriage."