Congratulations so happy for u. GOD, who did it for u, will do it for the rest of us cos he is more than FAITHFUL.

i won't really say they are desperate. The first thing one should find out is if they are xtians, born again xtians so to say cos some of them get married that way, it really has nothing to do with desperation. Some may have prayed about it a long time ago, waiting for the right moment, that is when the eventually meet their spouse to be. If she is not sure, if it was not done the xtian way then she should have a rethink, cos marriage is not something u rush into and rush out of.

Forget him of because, what else? Or do u want to crawl back to him? He's not worth it so discard him as Fast as u can.
Have an open mind and SHINE your eye before u go into another relationship. Try to keep your self for the man that will end up being your husband so that u won't end up making the same mistake u made with the last guy who is presently avoiding u.

People from my own side of the country believe that NKIRUKA meaning the one in Front is always better and infact the best.


All the best.

Honestly speaking, i don't think she should give up the game of volley ball because of her boyfriend. The guy is just being selfish. He has his interest to protect which is understandable, but then he should consider his girl friend's interest and love for volleyball before taking any decision, afterall she took up the game because of him.

And for crying out loud, the guy is on IT, industrial attachment i believe, he's still young and what assurance does the girl have that they will get married at the end of the day?

In my own opinion, the girl should go ahead and enjoy her game of volleyball, if she ends up getting married to her boyfriend, fine and if not, she will still not loose anything. On the other hand, if she gives up volleyball for her boyfriend's sake and ends up not marrying him, she will definitely regret her decision to stop volleyball just to please him.

She should weigh her options and take the right decision.