₦airaland Forum

motymop:
What I wrote still directly relates to the topic, you just aren't seeing the connection because of your moral bias

You are imagining an ideal world where nobody relies on anyone else for their lifestyle, but that’s not reality. Even in traditional households, many women depend entirely on their husbands for their lifestyle. Is that also leeching or do we only apply that label when we morally disapprove of the dynamic?

The lady in question is not a leech. While her path isn't one to emulate, she is rendering a service. You just can’t see it because your moral uprightness is blocking the view. If she weren't providing value that the politician highly prizes, he wouldn't be paying her rent, medical bills, and lifestyle expenses just to keep seeing her regularly.

It is still a transactional exchange of value, it’s just one that makes you uncomfortable.

motymop:
It is true that I am not smart but I doubt if you even comprehend what I wrote.

You are working for your money right?

But the money is not magically appearing into your pocket

Whatever you are doing,someone has to pay for the service for you to have money.

You leave in a poor country obviously you wouldn't even understand how money moves around

Even if you are not depending on any uncle, aunty or yahoo boy etc, money has to exchange hands when you offer a service and it can come from any source and it will change hand millions of time

That is why I said, you think the world works in your ideal way but it does not work like that

Everyone depends on each other to make money.

If you don't get it, you can never get it

free2ryhme:
You have a problem cos your fabrication has been detected

motymop:
You don't even know how the world works.

We are all depending on others for our survival

You that is "hardworking" who pays your salary

If they stop paying you, na depression you go enter

firearcher:
Hmm. Why not just come out and address the specific allegation directly. That yes, Moses tried out for the club but was not signed due to.....and that was Moses said is untrue.

That's a proper response.

Pillar12:
Moses Simon said what he said, and we can’t pretend to know better than him.
The truth is, he claims he was let go by Enugu Rangers and not given a fair chance because he’s not Igbo.

A couple of years ago, Burna Boy made a similar point about Igbos preferring their own over outsiders.
These aren’t random people saying this.... they’re public figures with firsthand experience.

Many believe Igbos are very tribalistic but tend to downplay it, especially because non-Igbos rarely go to the Southeast.
The perception is that Igbos are not very accommodating and are highly tribalistic.

free2ryhme:
Why is yours not fabricated

motymop:
I am being reasonable

Why do you guys always think you can build your ideal world when in reality you can't

free2ryhme:
at ur age you need someone to tell fabricate stories to tell you this


you think life is nollywood script

motymop:
I don't get this

We all are depending on others for our lifestyle..this is fact

We depend on our employers for salaries
We depend on customers for our business revenue
We depend on families for gift
Women depends on men to live their lifestyle
Men depends on other men to live their lifestyle

The world works in a way that you have to depend on someone to live your lifestyle

I think at the end of the day what matters is that you have to save for the low times

Powerbandooo:
Maybe for you guys in Lagos
Here in osun state, there is a university lecturer who is a family man earning with 200 to 300k, and is still leaving average ok, drives a car with 2 teenager kid, moderately doing fine,
I am saying this because I have seen many
May be Lagos should be excluded

DenreleDave:
EVEN AS A MAN, I CAN NEVER ENTER ANY BUS THAT IS JUST MEN ONLY, PRIVATE CAR IS NOW A NO - NO FOR ME.

NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY LADIES DONT WANT TO ENTER A CAR OR BUS FILLED WITH JUST MEN, I REALLY UNDERSTAND.

Goo0dHardDick:
Igbos don't like speaking their language to themselves at all. They'll rather hide and speak it.

I was at the market months ago and the seller spoke Igbo to the young girl purchasing an item. The girl immediately started forming posh and asked the seller to speak in good English instead. Lol. Ujunwa feeling funky

OriOko88:
We still hv more Yoruba Christians than igbo Christians

Deffi:
stop being a chest beater, it doesn't end well. JUST BE HUMBLE!
every body's blessed. OP also got his facts wrong....check the subsequent post on same first page

Demurray:
The referee was absolutely wrong,that's not the rule, I mean red card rule, we are talking about his team mate not opposition player. Nothing but awful decision on the part of the referee

IgOga:
The title means Head of Fulanis in Lagos. A recognition that they are aliens in Lagos but they have their leader

Lagos is very accommodating and everyone has lived in mutual peace with no party disrespecting the other until ipob showed their hand.

Tinubu appointed several Ibos into his cabinet as governor. Nobody made any noise

Many Tapa families are now indigenous Lagos families

Now you have ipobs aka developers saying Lagos is smelling, Lagos is no man's land, they wanted to burn down Tinubu's investments in Lagos, burnt down BRT bus terminals, burnt down world class forensic Lab at the direction of Nnamdi Kanu. The Ibos destroyed their good will and it will take decades to rebuild that. Ontop of that the Tinubu that had done more for Ibos as a governor was rejected at the presidential ballot. Now that Tinubu became president despite Ibos non support, it makes it more complicated for Ibos. And I think being loud about nonsense is not a wise move for Ibos

Cherrybae:
They are from part Harcourt

Both are ikwerre and not igbos.

Ikwerre meka oooo
Meka ooooo
Meka ooooo

Elerinya nma ooooooo


Ikwerre doesn't bear such name.
They're Igbos that were born and also schooling in portharcourt.

Oyoyooooooo

kernniejay:
You guys are quick to condemn Nigeria, any small thing you will be hearing "Nigeria is gone" or "it can only happen in Nigeria". The typhoon and flood currently happening in developed countries of the world have killed more people than those killed in Nigeria.

Ajokol:
I am an independent and financially stable female, I am positive and I need a positve partner for a serious relationship. An interested person should quote me with his contact.

Warrior99:
YORUBA LAGBA!

Proud Omoluabi.

YORUBA IS NOT A TRIBE, BUT A NATION!

God bless YORUBALAND 👑

AndroBlaze:
Somebody's official surname is Adigun and you claim people are claiming him.... anyway we'll leave that usual skill to una wey de claim Jesus and Obama.