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Procashtips:
I think I clarified this already. The wife is the one currently shouldering all bills and she's showing signs of "cracks" in her relationship with the husband.

For him to mention "restoration of order" means the structure is breaking down.

Yes, thanks for the clarification. That clears it up and renders most things I said irrelevant.

The guy needs to get a grip of his household, even if he's not covering 100% of the financial burden.

Since he freelances, here's my advice. He needs to expand aggressively, this involves learning new, but in demand skills related to what he currently does. He needs to put himself out there in social media.

There's no shame for a family man. I've seen people get freelance gigs because they regularly talk about their skills on Twitter and Instagram.

He needs to be aggressive about upskilling and been seen by potential clients.

Personally I wouldn't advise he liquidates that 20m investment. It's very easy to get into the trap of "I want to do business" only to lose the money.

Procashtips:
She has been, hence the restoring order quote.

So, can you explain how her stopping to contribute any money at any capacity will help you restore order? Is she a disorderly person?

And may I ask, while you're pouring all your financial resources into the family as you should do, what does she do with her own financial resources? Take care of herself independent of the family?

Don't you think on the contrary it will help you reach your savings goals faster?

Please I'll legitimately like to know.

There's a man out there struggling to carter for his family. He takes care of every single thing financially, basically has zero savings as a man. Since 2019 he has been using the same Infinix phone, meanwhile he has changed his wife's IPhone 3 times in that period. While this man is struggling to pay rent, he received information that his wife had secretly bought a piece of land and was already in the process of building a secret house

If he didn't receive this information, in the next 10 years he might still be unable to build his own family house because he can barely save any money, meanwhile his wife would have a secret house where she collects rent.

Procashtips:
Almost 42 years
A freelance/independent consultant
With 2 children (Almost 6 and Almost 4)
Wife working.

Lost it all in bad collaboration, fraudulent investments, bad/wrong investments and also theft.

Got an asset that can give him ₦20m after debts are paid.
How does he bounce back with the above?

Rent is 2m annually
School fees is 300-350k termly.
Feeding ₦150k+ monthly
Others: ₦100k monthly


If you are in his shoes, what are you going to do?

He plans to be responsible for running the house this time around without relying on assistance from the wife to restore sanity/orderliness.

Advice him from the point of financial and career stability,

Why is his wife not contributing anything at all to the home, when she's also an income earner?

She needs to carry the small financial burdens, like cost of cooking and so on.

Na these things dey quick kill African men. You're trying to carry everything on your head. Meanwhile your wife is saving her own income, using it to buy expensive wigs and sending money to her younger siblings.

If you check now, this man is most likely on medication for blood pressure

This whole job gimmick is essentially a humiliation ritual for educated people.

Peller obviously already has camera men but he needs to feel good about his financial success by humiliating the people who would normally think they are better than him because of their educational status

IyaTola:
Yes you can father a child but this time you would have to use drugs to be able to father a child

He needs to visit a hospital, however a man can impregnate a woman with one testicle.

What kind of extreme masturbation are you doing? Even people who are having marathon sex don't tear their testicles. I think you need to see a doctor

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