You have made terrible mistakes already! you have broken the commandment of God. Pre-marrital sex/fornication is a sin. "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies 1Cor6:19-20, 3:16-."Let marriage be kept honorable in every way, and the marriage bed undefiled Heb 13:4" Hence you need to repent, get born again and get sanctified. Eccl 10:8 ...he that breaks the hedge will serpent bite. even if you go on with the marriage plans and later get the desired attention without amending your life style, you are still guilty and will pay. That "attention" is devils device to destroy your life! "The perverse in heart are an abomination to the LORD, But the blameless in their walk are His delight. Assuredly, the evil man will not go unpunished, But the descendants of the righteous will be delivered Prov 11:20-21. what you need to do is to repent sincerely and God will direct you and all will be well again. suspend the marriage plans.

Good news. However, its not over until it is over!