₦airaland Forum

Jesuspistol:
None of the above for me.

It's the high prices of foodstuff, petrol and transport fare that's eating deep into my pockey

Jokerman:
Criminals will not like to align with someone like Obi because he's better than them, and won't join them in destroying Nigeria

TUANKU:
Don't worry, that bad news blogger will report your story here on NL

Dminister:
What do you really want? You haven’t told me
What you want before you started sending me PM. Say what you want here in the public where everyone will see it because replying to your pm means giving you my email. I am very conscious of people I meet on faceless platforms

skywalker240:
What I can say here is that

Respect yourself and your boundaries, a married woman asking for something from another Man is obviously a bruise on her husband ego, clearly she is telling him to his face that he can't meet up to responsibility.

Any Married Woman that is bold enough to be asking you for phone, can be bold enough to start ask you for money for her children's feeding, upkeeps and even school fees and then yes asking for servicing of the kpekus in the oda room, from clap to dance.

Since over a decade we all have seen that the economy has been drastically degraded and yet a Man is obviously still foolish enough to get another wife? Let me guess, he is Muslim?

Two wives and 8 children? A barber in a cool environment like wuse 2 with one wife and 4 children would be doing fine, but it is extremely foolish for him to pick another wife and put more burden upon himself, how the hell will his wives ever respect him when obviously he can't even provide for them? Why won't the said married woman be asking another Man for itel phone?

Some Men are just silly

Op stay away from that woman, like someone said, the wife might even be rubbing it all over the foolish husband's face, women don't reason repercussions of actions taken, be warned.

Dminister:
There is possibility of having a successful family with your short spouse. I noticed it all families and I don’t know why. I wanted to marry a short lady but ended up running for my life. They are so sweet in bed and their koekus dey always make sense. I almost ended up with one. The day I discovered she gave my sweat shirt to her senior sister that is when I broke up with her. Don’t be fooled by their beautiful and nice kpekus. Run for your life

ravensckar:
The OP is either being mischievious or overly naive. Being friends with a married woman (especially without her husband's consent) is the fastest way to a man's grave.

Firstly, gifting your phone to the woman will create a big rift between them. The woman will never stop ridiculing her husband for being poor and may even be praising you in his presence for being caring. That will further fuel the hate.

Secondly, the phone gift will probably set you up for further billing & exploitation. Before you know it, you'll be sending her feeding money or even catering for the children.

Don't say we didn't warn you. Stay away from the woman before you bring problem upon yourself.

teeteepeejay:
Must people come here to ask stupid questions every time?

She is married.
Her husband doesn't like your closeness to his wife.

Stop white washing yourself please. You will find what you seek which is doom.

FUKCING STAY AWAY FROM ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE

Buziness101:
Coming from the gender we fear most.

Xannadu:
All this long story is unnecessary. You can give her the phone as long as there's no strings attached. Life is not all about sex as many nairalanders tend to portray it. Should we all decide to stop helping people simply because they are married?

Xannadu:
Any man will suspect you if you appear too close to his wife. Maybe you should try to be a bit more formal with her when he's around (should even be always, come to think of it). Show the husband more respect than he deserves, that helps also

dustmalik:
Is Arsenal playing like a title contender? The answer is no. Absolute soulless performance from Arsenal.

Xannadu:
All this long story is unnecessary. You can give her the phone as long as there's no strings attached. Life is not all about sex as many nairalanders tend to portray it. Should we all decide to stop helping people simply because they are married?

LeoThaGreat:
OP, it seems you don't love yourself. But please don't break the hearts of your family members that have invested in you and love you.

I see no reason why you would insist on friendship with a married woman who her husband has made it obvious that he doesn't want you around her. It seems you have no grasp of what a man can do out of insecurity.

Tell the woman point blank that her husband obviously doesn't want you associating with her and you can't give her your phone so as to avoid trouble.

But if you are a lover of trouble, go ahead then. I love learning from people that learnt the hard way.

Obviouslyblunt:
No 1. Why is a poor fellow married with 2 wives? Weird.

Secondly, why are you close to someone’s wife when you know her husband isn’t happy with that?

Stop concerning yourself with other people’s issues and focus on your family instead.

Namaster:
Why are you so "friendly" with a married woman to the extent that she feels ENTITLED to your phone.

You know for a FACT that the husband is already unhappy with your closeness to his wife YET you want to add a GIFT into the mix.

Plus, you may have NO ulterior motive but she's a SECOND wife to a poor man who sleeps at WORK. She's likely SEX-STARVED.

She'll use you for sex and BILL you as a bonus.

Keep your phone and STAY AWAY from her.
Otherwise yours may be the next head we see on Nairaland front page.