yarimo:
Nigerians are happy with president TINUBU style of leadership

hmmmm

yarimo:
Nigerians are happy with president TINUBU style of leadership

name the style

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Something MUST be used as achievement for one year in office

Freelancerboy:
Hey! Whatever your mind is telling you is true.
Trust your instinct.

Monitor her WhatsApp messages , read them directly on your phone and see for yourself, don't make a silly mistake unless you will train a kid that isn't yours.

NB: those asking my number is on my signature WhatsApp me so I can teach you how to read anyone WhatsApp messages directly on your phone.

Hold #1500 before we start cos no b free

How is this possible with all the encryption WhatsApp has on it app? Hope it is asking me to scan her code on the web version?

Jajasabali:
Op do what is in your mind..the most diplomatic option

Thank you

MrCork:



Ok so You meet woman online & u fall in love...corrrrrect?
.....did u check if she hav pricccccck first??(no oofencsece)

she get puna

obinna58:

Mr nice shey you know anything wey happen to that lady, the consequences Dey on top your head

Keep making your character the side story and suffer the consequences of another

Thank you

Inflation in Nigeria is 300%

Eg Plastic coke was 150 now it is 450

obinna58:

You’re harboring olosho, as if it’s not shameful enough you’re pitying her on top

I am a nice person naturally. That is why it's hard

Wainey:
i was in a similar situation like u some time ago, the babe lives in my house and broke my heart.
It took sometime but i told her to leave, my happiness returned after she left.
Now i dont regret it.

Way to go

obinna58:
She’s leading you 2-1 and you think equalizing draw is being harsh, a match she has already removed winning possibility and you’re hesitant for a draw

Draw the game at least or are you arsenal

How please?

asapeola:
I no say ur mind don comot but the free lashing u dey get still dey play on ur mind.

You have 2 options: 1. Allow her freedom (but warn her abt the late night stuff cos even u sef dey at risk if anything happens to her) and continue to collect your share until she's done.

2. Cut ur loss n let her know say her staying with u dey block your own paroles. So she gats move out within a reasonable time.

Some of these bannies dey run things during service year hence she don tell you say no be say she get boyfriend. So u suppose don code wetin she mean. I have been in an almost similar situation tho she came for exams n ddnt want to leave after exams finish.

Shalom!

Insightful... Thank you

1Battery:
Bros you de Bleep up ,throw way her bags.

Is this not extreme?

We shared good moments at a point. It is the right thing to send her away but i feel it should be done with sense

1000Capacity:


You are already her uncle from her mother and father side na
She's actually waiting for you to tell her to leave

You may not be wrong ooo

Jomonix:


But most of all don't let the situation derail your purpose in life. Keep your eyes on the ball. What ever distract you from this is not good for you. Be guided.

God bless you!

Double0h7:
Look, it’s your home and you don’t need to feel no guilt about asking anyone to Leave. You tried to have a relationship with her, and your intentions were pure towards her. Now that the relationship has broken down, just end things with her and ask her to find alternative options.

Let her father pay for the new accommodation or she can go and stay with the men who she’s obviously seeing. But, I have a feeling you’re too nice and you won’t set your boundaries firmly. However, in the end you’re going to get your feelings hurt because she is abusing your kindness and playing in your face.

Give her 30 days notice, and a curfew to follow because you need to feel safe in your home. After those 30 days put her stuff outside and change your locks. You have to grow a backbone going forward because nowadays people don’t respect kindness.

Swears bro..

Thank you sooo much

psalmylee:
op , pls forget this type of advice oo..
Fight for who, a battle u have already lost before it started ?
My guy just play along lash am well and when she is through with he service ask her to leave and don't flinch.
For God sake there are over 3 billion women in the world while simping for one who does not even respect and value you ..
My guy, Love and value yourself first coz u cannot hurt what u claim to love..
These girls no worth am o
One bit..
Go in peace brother
God bless u

Thanks Mate

That lashing one dey

Jomonix:
Difficult to advise. If you truly love her, fight for her. No physical fight oh. Be the man she wants

Thank you for at least understanding how difficult it is

At a point I felt I was being a SIMP. At least someone else sees it is a difficult situation

dawnomike:
It is your house... Simoly say no to laye night entry and stand your ground. If she can't cope, she should leave your abode in peace.

Sorry, you've really taken a lot of nonsense

Thanks for the response

This thing is very very real

What is the cause and solution

@harddon

Nairaland Family,

I am in a dilemma. There is a lady I met and we started getting along. We reside in different states. We chat, call and video call. All seems good and rosy!

I was serious with her… pure intentions and all. It got to a point where she has to go for NYSC. I assisted her and got her to serve in the state I reside which was also her choice.

She came and somehow got a PPA in my area so we started staying together. However, the relationship had a major issue with beliefs as her dad wouldn’t allow her marry someone with my belief. So it looked like a dead end but there are emotions from both ends.

The issue now is she answers some calls, comes back late from work and then sleeps out sometimes. Like yesterday, she said they were going for a school reunion stuff and a guy came to carry her in his car. She didn’t come back till today.

My issue is how humane will it be to ask her to leave my house? knowing how involved I was in getting her to serve in the state and all? How harsh could that be?

If I don’t do that, I get caught up in webs of several hurts. The calls, late night returns and all. Of course it’s is very likely na guy she dey get all these stuff with. I have asked he before and she said if she has a guy would he allow her to be staying with another guy, but you know babes na! She could have even told the guy I am her uncle from the mothers side 😃😃

One mind is saying I should forget been humane and ask her to leave. Like that is what is left for me to do as I am unable to keep up with all she has been doing. If I leave her to stay, more issues for me. Like I’m drowning in jealousy. She closes by 9 and sometimes come home by 11pm

What do I do please?

Call me whatever name, I gree but I need genuine advise

aa

Nodogragra4me:



Is it God that spoke to Eve?
Is it God that spoke to Jesus after his fast?
The evil spirit that cried out from the man was delivered , was that Gid word?

Pharaoh that oppressed the children of Israel, was his words not recorded in the bible ?

The word of God as contained in the bible

This girl just dey share her thing up and down...

Shebi na one oyibo guy she been dey date

She don carry am come social media again... This one go knack and go

Normal Normal

henry305:
please I will like to be Aggregator/distributor

I sent a nairaland E-mail message

henry305:
please I will like to be Aggregator/distributor

send me a DM, share an email or share a whataspp number

FxMasterz:


It's because the church uses them. It's a new testament practice. New testament practices are of the church. Old testament practices are of Israel. Israel is not the church:

Handkerchief:

"God gave Paul the power to perform unusual miracles. When handkerchiefs or aprons that had merely touched his skin were placed on sick people, they were healed of their diseases, and evil spirits were expelled." (Acts 19:12)

Oil:
"They drove out many demons and anointed many sick people with oil and healed them." (Mark 6:13)

"Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord.
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And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven." (James 5:14-15)

In short, we use them because they're examples from the church of Christ, not from Judahism. Israel practices Judahism, the church practices Christianity being followers of Christ.

There are chalartans these days in the Pentecostal circles. They sell special anointing oils, holy water, handkerchiefs, etc. They're fake messangers of Christ. They're not true disciples. We do not recognize them as Pentecostals.

Would you now answer my question? What can rivers, incense, candles and all those weird stuffs you use do for you that the name of Jesus cannot do?

In Revelation 1:12–13, the apostle John experiences a vision of Jesus Christ standing amid seven candlesticks: “And I turned to see the voice that spake with me. And being turned, I saw seven golden candlesticks; And in the midst of the seven candlesticks one like unto the Son of man, clothed with a garment down to the foot, and girt about the paps with a golden girdle” (KJV). Most modern translations refer to the “seven candlesticks” as “seven golden lampstands.”

A vision of the things to come even saw Jesus standing amid 7 candle stands.

Revelation 8 1

Another angel, who had a golden censer, came and stood at the altar. He was given much incense to offer, with the prayers of all the saints, on the golden altar before the throne. The smoke of the incense, together with the prayers of the saints, went up before God from the angel's hand.

This is another revelation of heavenly practices. But Nigerian Pentecostal term them occultic. You guys are just too funny I swear

Tomorrow now you will tell me that Jesus Christ and the angels will wear the colored suits, shoes and entertainment regalia the Pentecostal pastors wear. See Rev 1: 12-13 i shared above

Now tell me when it is wrong to desire things that are heavenly. We all sing praises on earth with the hope that we will sing with angels in heaven. So i now pray with candle and incense with the hope that i will get to see the same with angels in heaven, Nigerian Pentecostal members tag it occultic.

Maybe na me write the chapters i shared above.

You keep repeating river river river. Like i go to the river to worship or what?

You guys need deliverance

FxMasterz:


And can you tell me the noise I made in asking a simple question which you've been unable to answer for so many days? What can rivers, candies, incense, etc that you use do for you that the name of Jesus cannot do? If you cannot answer the question, wouldn't it be wise of you to keep quiet?

why do you avoid water, handkerchief and oil in your questions? Is it because Pentecostals use them?