AtoningBlood:
I need your input people.

3 years ago, my dad sold our house without informing anyone of us. Meanwhile, we all had things left at home, including my mum's items. He never told us where some of those things are till date.

He sold that house and went to the village, he immediately started having issues with the village people. Fight today, fight tomorrow. Everyone in the village I heard now disrespect him due to how he reveal his secrets to anyone who cares to listen.

My dad wants to leave the village to go rent an apartment in another state. His financial responsibility has been on me alone. My siblings abandoned him.

He's being nursing the idea of leaving the village and never informed me. Last november I spent almost 2 million naira fixing solar power and inverter for him in his house at the village and immediately after that he started saying he wants to leave the village..

I told my dad never to relocate to the village yet, that he should wait till his is older as he is still agile and all his friends are in the state where we lived or around. He also gets contracts once in a while so I don't bear much financial burden. But no, he failed to listen and sold our house and left.

My dad wants me to cough out another 1M to rent a house, he wants it big, 3 bedroom. I told him to look for a 2 bedroom but he said where would visitors stay.

I am not even comfortable seeing him in a rented apartment, what would my cousins say, they would mock us. I have some of them who are very naughty. He is bringing shame in us.

We have two properties and my husband wants him to come and stay in one, I vehemently disagreed because he will be controlling us, some of my extended family members will come visiting him and carry the news to the village, as well as discussing my own family and I don't want that. They contributed to what is happening to him now. Through him, some of them will come to stay and I can not start what I can't continue with. So I told my husband to dead that idea fast.

He wants to leave the village latest by February. How do I convince him to get a 2 bedroom flat? 3 bedroom would mean 3 mattresses, and everything triple. My dad doesn't like anything less. All the expenses will be on me alone. My siblings don't care.

I can't turn deaf ears to his needs. I don't want him in the village and I hate to see him in a rented apartment but that is what it is now.

I need contructive advice especially those of us with retired parents, how do you relate with their needs? I told him to think of a small trade so he won't be idle like he's been since retirement and he is talking about setting up electrical pole business, I laughed. Sebi he wan rek me. Same way he did not manage hid wealth.

Abandon him like your siblings. It's because you care that he is acting up. When you bone his side, he will wake up and act accordingly.

Samunique:
When last have you watched the Nigerian league ?

Give some examples of bad officiating and let's compare it with what the English refs do week in week out.

Meanwhile, I'm not saying there's no corruption in Nigeria's league as well as some other leagues, it's abound of course !

But what I'm saying is that you should stick to the topic.

CAF didn't say corruption is the reason Nigerian refs are not been used, period!!!

The Nigerian refs that caf will select will come from our league. If the league is corrupt, the refs will be viewed as corrupt. The caf official was being diplomatic

Believe this shit and you will Believe anything

ChiefJusticeFuc:
I am sure it's in one of those Catholic boarding schools in Anambra that his son got turned out.


InB4: Tinubu has a dyke carpet munching daughter.


I will rather have a lesbo daughter than a degenerate fagg0t son that can't literally stop taking dik.


Pathetic.


Now ban your father.

So after all your genocidal threats to lsreal and your promise to be a suicide bomber in tel aviv. You still dey nairaland. Hamas needs you now more than ever

Stupid gov

Rubbish. The war in Ukraine led to oil prices of $100 a barrel but because of a dullard who was c in c and petrol minister, Nigeria failed to maximise its opec quota because of oil theft. Imagine ghost stealing 800k barrels every day

Neither are they impressed with your stewardship so far. They are following your footsteps, promise much achieve little

Winning123:


You call them useless but when trouble come your way, you will call them to help you.

As in who in their right mind will enter barracks to ask for help. Abeg where the help desk dey for barracks

Even tinubu and sanwo olu will be laughing at who made the list

Who bring this nonsense news here

Gbadebo19:
ANOTHER RUSSIAN PROPAGANDA BUSTED
[b]Why the Russian air force thought it safely could fly lumbering Ilyushin Il-76 cargo planes into the Russian city of Belgorod—just 20 miles from the border with Ukraine and a mere 40 miles from the city of Kharkiv in northeastern Ukraine—is a mystery.

But as Napoleon Bonaparte purportedly said, “Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake.”

On Wednesday, a Ukrainian missile apparently struck one of the four-engine Il-76s. The airlifter, weighing 100 tons while empty, spiraled to the ground. Radio Free Europe researchers identified three dead Russian crew members.

The Russian government couldn’t deny the Il-76’s destruction: it was captured on video by people on the ground, who swiftly posted on social media. There’s even video from the snowy crash site.

Nor was it terribly feasible to deny that Ukraine shot down the plane. An apparent smoke trail—evidence of a missile—is visible in one video.

But Russia could wrap the shoot-down in disinformation—or at least try to do so. The Il-76, one of around 130 in Russian military service, “was carrying 65 Ukrainian POWs for an agreed-upon exchange,” the foreign ministry in Moscow claimed. “All of them, as well as six crew members and three Russian officers on board the plane, were killed.”

That might be a lie. A video from the crash site does not depict a lot of bodies. And a list of prisoners the Russians claimed were on the Il-76 reportedly includes names of Ukrainian POWs Russia already exchanged. No, the evidence likely points toward a genuine shoot-down of a legitimate military target—and probably not some terroristic accidental massacre of Ukrainian prisoners by their own government. We may have to reassess as more information becomes available.

That the Ukrainian air force could reach out and touch a cargo plane flying over Belgorod should surprise no one. Kharkiv is heavily-defended with some of Ukraine’s best Western-made air-defenses, apparently including one of the air force’s three batteries of American-made Patriot missiles.

A Patriot PAC-2 missile ranges nearly 100 miles, allowing the Ukrainians to threaten Russian warplanes over Belgorod without ever leaving the relative safety of Kharkiv. By now, Ukraine’s air-defense crews have ample experience setting complex missile traps for Russian aircraft flying inside Russia or Russian-occupied Ukraine.

Last May, a Patriot battery shot down—in quick succession—a Russian Sukhoi Su-34 fighter-bomber, a Sukhoi Su-35 fighter and three Mil Mi-8 helicopters—over Bryansk, in southern Russia 70 miles from the Ukrainian border.

In December, Ukrainian Patriots or long-range S-300s downed three Russian Su-34s in a single engagement over Russian-occupied southern Ukraine. And a month later, Ukrainian air-defenses—possibly the same that executed the December ambush—shot down one of Russia’s rare, and extremely valuable, Beriev A-50 radar early-warning planes flying over the Sea of Azov.

All that is to say, the Russians should have known better than to vector a big, slow airlifter into a possible missile kill-zone. “Landing a transport aircraft in a 30-kilometer war zone cannot be safe,” the Ukrainian intelligence directorate noted.[/b]
As usual, the foolish putards will call it Western propaganda since they don't know how valuable a pilot is to the air Force. Why else do you think US enables it's pilots to eject a doomed aircraft. But foolish Russia will sacrifice 3 pilots for some useless POWs

All these explanations you typed is for whom. It seems like you have nothing doing. Abeg type another essay for Sudan conflict

If Nigeria army claims it's enforcing the curfew, how come people are being killed

When tinubu was in opposition he had the solutions to nigeria problems but since he became president solutions have disappeared

Even restructuring that tinubu and sw were making so much noise about, they are not even talking about it, until north enter power. You will start hearing restructuring

Nice one. It's not about money always

Biodun556:


With loudest noise

We don't care. Busy body like you cares. Our matter is what gives life. Without lgbos many of you are useless

Igbo matter is better than food and sex to some people.

TimeManager:

These are clashes between indigenes and fulanis. They attack and kill each other, the indigenes kill fulanis in their communities but doesn't make media headlines because fulanis do not cry to the media, they pick up their people and bury them and when they revenge, it makes media uproar. To be honest, both parties are culpable. As i speak with you, Tivs and Junkuns are killing each other in Taraba but people are mistaking it as bandits or fulani attacks.

-kiss the truth!

Oga explainer. Always explaining things like you were employed to be an explainer

As far as I am concerned its simply mama instilling discipline in her child. She can even tell her to kneel down, close her eyes and raise up her hand. E no concern me

regenerateman:
The Hausa and Fulani think that they own Nigeria. Nigeria Defence Academy (Army, Air force and Navy, university) is situated in the Northern Nigeria (Kaduna). Gen Brutai established this time Nigeria Army university in Biu, Borno state, no eyebrows were raised. Another general again from the air force, Vice marshall A Sadeeq established Nigeria Air force university in Bauchi, which is the same northern Nigeria and nobody complained. The North now has 3 military universities and most military establishments are situated in the North and there's no complaint from any quarter. It is just the CBN department of banking supervision that is been moved to Lagos. All the bank head offices are situated in Lagos and if the CBN dept of bank supervision is in Lagos, it will reduce costs and makes it easier to supervise these banks. Haba! This is BAT and not GEJ.

If Gej did the same thing, I can bet tinubu will join the north to condemn him

Lori iro. I for talk. When Nigeria senator start charity

sexiestharam:

What proof do you have of this?

Multiply the 1991 census of each state by 7%

What surprises me about ogun is that agbara with all the factories, the road is so bad.

IkeAnumudu:



You’re the one who’s cursed.

Those brown roofs indicate development and civilisation got to even those villages before the so-called big cities in your crime-infested and erosion-ravaged region of perdition!

You go explain tire. No evidence

chidiokay:



Majority of the food we eat in the South comes from the North, during transportation a lot of ambiguous cost is incurred, and when it finally get to west traders put all there problem on those goods

For north most family own a farm, they are bound to be considerate

Really. So palm oil, Garri, fufu, ugwu, bitter leaf, rice, plantain, banana, chicken, turkey, water leaf etc comes from the north

Kaido:

Some places still sell N300 and 400 with meat in the North.

Ate in a restaurant in the SE some days back and the food was #900 with small wraps of fufu.

North sweet o

What kind of food is 400 with meat.

Nigeria leaders are truly wicked. Even if they want to use hospitals abroad can't they build the same hospitals in Nigeria for the masses. Demonic leaders

sexiestharam:

Inflated and not understated? Wow, an interesting angle.

Nigeria does not have 200 million people. The last census was arrived at by multiplying the the population of each state by 7%

Jennyclay:
you should be the one ashamed of yourself. You are broke and you still have pride

Look at the unhygienic and malnourished food you’re eating You can’t even afford to buy ordinary kpomo . Shame!!

Your mate are eating just a plate of meal for 7k and they are not complaining!

It's not by how much but does it taste well
Some restaurants sells soup that have stayed in freezer for 1 week

Buhari that does not know the meaning of inflation dey calculate pythagoras theory.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
NO PAIN NO GAIN. Although we know those who are happy because of the challenges at hand and will become so SAD when we start reading the benefits.

You said the same under buhari. Poverty and you seem to have a special bond

Forget matter. The guy will be released. Have you ever seen any herdsman charged to court.