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Tosinville:
Tima

Besides, who are those that pays u for lap dance? u all must be from the ape family? LOL

rokiatu:
Tima, which of your sister could that be?

Tosinville:
Tima

FYI, she also told us that ur mami was violated by 2 gorillas in kenya thick forest that y look like first born of chimpazee LOL.

Tosinville:
Tima

Alot of ppl claim virgins here & it aint new to everyone of us but ur sister told us u work in a strip club somewhere in bamako mali, obviously alot of men must ve money in to ur punny u claim to be virgin.

Tosinville:
Tima

Where did i say i look like T.I.?lol u are still dumb, i'm a die hard T.I. fan & u look like alek wek from sudan, those dat r deceiving u dat u r fine are walking on dark glasses.

rokiatu:
hahahahaha I can see that.

I will make u a cuppa just bring along the pop corn.

BlackBaron:
 

@ OP, next time don't shove your v status in others face. Remember some are not as fortunate as you as they may have lost theirs in questionable scenarios or whatnot.

You however don't certainly deserve all this vitrol and hate though.

Tosinville:
Fcckerz, if you're a virgin then keep that crap to urself, why the announcement on virginity or u think no virgin beyond 21 in Nigeria again? dumb thread.

rokiatu:
Hey Tima, your thread have gone platinum. Most entertaining thread ever.

Let me make myself a cuppa OOO

freecocoa:
OMG what are these people on for feck's sake?nutty tima you are not just a dunce but a very pathetic one,who said anything about addressing me with "respect"? Kai i thought you only had a problem with spelling\constructing sentences but alas you have a bigger problem with reading\comprehension. I said you should learn how to write properly and your empty skull took it to mean something else,please register for adult education classes,if you are too shy about it,they offer night classes you can enroll for those, so many people won't see you when you attend classes,olodo rabata smh.

I keep coming back for more?do you see me in your dreams or what?please do your homework well f00l,this is the very FIRST time I'm engaged in a direct row with you and your sister especially you sef,I've never had an argument with you,if I ever talked to you its on a neutral thread with enough peace in it so get over yourself,duuh!,I can understand your sisters grievances and its about the HAH thread,btw i was busy with Rokiatu2 and some other girl on that thread to even insult your sister but like the immature kids you both are,you take every girl who  said something you didn't like on that thread as your enemy,anyways that's your lot and it doesn't bug me one bit,I just find it really amusing when you say"wasting time on people who don't give a fu ck about what you say" like seriously?I think you have me confused with someone else cos walai you are the least person i'll pay mind to on here,lefool is taken more seriously than you by me so stop seeing what's not there.

About beauty,hmm just what do you see when you look in the mirror? Its a good thing to have self confidence but over stepping your bounds and being vain will get you nowhere,I've never bragged about being more beautiful than you or your sister,why are you losing sleep just cos some people think I'm cute?for God's sakes the only time i say anything about beauty is when these crazy guys here bash girls (including me)like they are known to do,stop fighting for the most beautiful girl on NL cos there's no competition as beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and in mine dear,you are okay so quit showing how much you want to hear"tima is prettier than freecocoa",in my world i don't roll with vain dunces like you. I'm done talking to you.  

jp philips:
@ poster

pls change the subject to " an ugly virgin needs help"
virgin or no virgin, you are ugly and that is an irredemable fact, men will still reject you even with ur virginity.

what makes you think that you are better than a pretty lady with 4kids.

below is an excerpt of an advice given to some lunatic that fell for your like and trust me a great number of men share the same sentiment, pay attn to the conclusive part, you will realise that you are in the same shoes as the patients' subject.

trust me sleeping with you will only give nightmares because you are irredemably ugly virgin or not. save it for your step dad.


This thread makes me laugh;

it reminds me of a friend i met sometime in Nigeria, this guy told me that where he comes from in Anambra State, there is this ritual that the Men use their Fluid to make money, the ritual is a spiritual dimension targeted at using the Fluid as a conduit to get to generations unborn, because its spiritual, when eventually they get married, the doctors can’t really see anything, all the tests will prove them to be okay, but in the end the family remains childless,

at the end of our meeting, i pondered over his story but never thought that a reasonable girl will fall for such crap until i remembered the ''virgins''

young man, u have so much sentimental attachment with this girl not becos you love her but u re thrilled with the fact that at her age, she is still a virgin dats y it seems so much a big deal to you,

Let me ask you another question, have you ever dis virgined a girl in your lifetime?
of course i can guess your answer, when u were stuck with her for 11yrs only God knows if u aint a virgin yourself,

the day u will disvirgin a girl then you will understand y pple here tell u its all hype, psychologically, u re entering dat marriage with high expectations and trust me u will surely be disappointed,

let us get down to common sense; these are girls that are created with equal number of hormones like their counterparts, coexist in the same society, the next question is y re they not like the other girls?

second question; can i cope with the reason y they re who they are?

do you think it is easy for them as the weaker vessels to retain their virginity till such age while we the stronger in most cases cannot retain, it wont be out of place to say that they have a stronger counter force to say NO irrespective of the circumstance, which ever it is
i bet you my friend you cant cope,

in my opinion, those girls re not Normal, they re not your everyday girls, they are not Adventurous, dont mind them when they say, if we get married, we will have lots of sex
then ask her what happened to the restraining force that kept her for 28yrs, mere marriage cant remove that, ie when you hear experienced people tell you they re never good in bed even in marriage
reason;
they are not adventurous and they are not thrilled by what is new, the only reason she will have intimacy with you even in marriage is procreation any thing outside that you re on your own, its a psychological issue

During my early years, i was opportune to do a practice on clinical psychology and my patients then were one of a kind, at a point i wanted to write a book about a psychological disease called virginity

during one of my sessions,there was this couple that the wife always denies him sex, or sometimes would want to trade it for favors, so when they told me their story, i tried counseling them, but i realized something, the lady in question has something she thinks abt herself

outside the irrational things she says like ''if u wanna send me packing then keep me the way i was when u married me''
words like  '' you think im like any other girl you pick on the road'' and a lot of bullish stuffs that i perceived is making her think she is superior to her husband because of her intimate canopy

i decided to take them on separate sessions to my greatest chagrin i realized the lady in question is a Narcissist, though i nearly misconstrued it for  pride
it was at this verge that i asked the question and she said of course YES with so much pride in her eyes

then i ran a scan through my mind and found out that the force behind that social anomaly is Narcissism and phobia.

then i understood why someone will want to trade her intimate disposition.
dats wen you hear words like

''no sex before marriage''

psychologically speaking,

she sees it that she is coming with a big stuff as such, you should make a big move to earn it.and the contest continues even after marriage, in the end you, will definitely lose control of your home to cheap intimate blackmail for peace to reign.
or she is so scared that she cant compromise if the union is not justified meaning; she is trading her virginity for marriage,

before you marry this girl, ask your self the ff questions

CAN I COPE WITH EXTREME NARCISSISM?

CAN I COPE WITH HER SEX PHOBIA?

cos those are the two main reasons why they are still virgins at 28 and make no mistakes, these reasons never disappear even in marriage, if you ask me, u seem like someone who cares about sex, without mincing words, she aint your type, look elsewhere,

Virginity is just a physical state that u wont know when it disappears on your first nite(ie if she will let you) Grin Grin its all about societal perception, just the same way the white girls cry at Michael jackson's concert and in Africa they think well, he is a good dancer Making his money Grin Grin

A woman's worth is not rated under her intimate canopy, its just that our today's women have run out of ideas to add value to themselves other than a piece of meat with tension stress less than 0.00102nm Grin Grin what a shame we bought the trend,

i have a million and one instances to make you understand that you are about to make a mistake of your life,

make no mistakes again, never you think that a virgin in marriage will never cheat, cheating has no connection with marriage whatsoever, ask your self, the girls that cheat, were they not once virgins? in other words, if you marry her, dis virgin her and give her reasons to cheat, she is up to it, the same way you can marry a non virgin, gives her reason to stay and she sticks with you.

My advise; the only virgin that is worthy of marriage are the ones that never told you they are virgins in the first place,or make assertions that insinuates it but somehow, they were able to wade you off sex for personal reasons, some could be upbringing some could be religion in this case, u will see for yourself that she has a great deal of respect for God in all ramifications not only on intimate matters(cos she can as well use it as a front), any thing short my dear, ''BAGGAGES AT OWNERS RISK''

Remii:
@MODERATOR, Please correct the heading it should be "Mothers in-law"

ypzilanti:
People who are virgins in old age have kept it for one of three reasons:

either they are very religious

or they are very scared

or they feel no guy in thier available circle good enough for them,

The first is a good reason so long as you eventually marry a man who shares same values.

If disvirgin a woman who kept her virginity for the second reason, once u pop her cherry, its usually a jamboree with as many guys as she gets a hold of.

the final reason leaves a potential mate with an obnoxious partner, unless his fulfilling all her juvenile fantasies. very unlikely any guy can.
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finally. being a virgin is what it is. it does not mean you are a better human being. it just means you have not Were Intimate wit a guy.[/size]

ifyalways:
Are u already married or still @ the dating phase ?

You have problems with "Nigerian rules" ? Don't date a Nigerian. . .its that simple.

btw,which is your headache?
Your MIL,Nigerian silly laws,forcing son to marry a hand-picked bride,pressure for a boy child ?

You wanna learn/know?ask politely and with an open mind.

freecocoa:
Ah not you too please,i often find it difficult reading all the rubbish you scribble,you could start by learning how to write properly then maybe you can address me,talking about being old,I'm pretty sure one can guess who's older looking at our pix and no one is hating on you and your sis,not me atleast I only commented on a thread like every other person,why you two keep talking about beauty is what I don't get,if people think I'm pretty,why is it paining you both? Hmm  carry your headache causing grammar and stay far away from me abeg,you are far too silly for me.

Leyelyzo:
Hotie tima
definitely it's your life and i tell you there are still guys that appreciate virginity. My prayer for you is, if truly you are a virgin (coz majority of ladies/girls lied of such), may fate brings you closer to the man that will appreciate you and cherish you for that. Just pray to be fortunate to have the right guy. However, there are more to being a virtous woman, being a virgin is not enough.
I wont charge you for the counselling, its F.O.C