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franugo:
Why do you think you'd still live in his house if you marry his daughter?

Probably to save money for rent, houses are too expensive, and her father's house is ok for me I've stayed here ever since she was a teenager, and she grew up knowing me too. I hope it works.

Peacecore:
Okay
Lemme educate you.
Living in a rented apartment is a temporary thing buh marriage is meant to be permanent. A broken home is never the same( I made this statement because you may say that divorce is possible). If that babe meets what you need in a woman, then go for her not just because of her father's property. If she doesn't meet your spec, you'll surely get problem with her in the future probably when you're not benefiting from her dad again.
Some people married for money, and later the money was gone.
Some people married for beauty and an accident caused disfiguration.
So, check yourself and make the right choice, thanks.

I'm on the right track, she's nice and I love her God fearing spirit, she's also a capable woman. I'm only saying that not paying rent at the early stages of our marriage could help us financially and we'd save up to build our own house as it pleases God. I don't think it's something I should be receiving blames for, just like the other user who already called me lazy.

Peacecore:
And you plan on staying in his house forever or you want to divorce the girl after staying?

You better use your brain or go and hustle.

Everything no be hustle, logic still follow, na wisdom I de seek, Abi I commit crime?

Na today leed go clear us say na luck Arsenal take win Man U.

The only coincidence I know of is zipping your gbola cap mistakenly.

okomile:
They play with fire

Na five years rent he go collect

Landlord too have responsibilities

No play with fire sha

For the constitution of this country I be em son the moment I pay in pikin dawries. cheh papa go collect rent from em son.

I'm beginning to think twice about this, do you think it'll work out. We gats to be one step ahead of the economy. The girl in question, is black, tall and beautiful, she's been nice to me lately and does some chores for me even without asking for it. I don't know if my mom would like her though, but I think she would if I first put seed for her bele.

Do you think her dad would still ask for rent after paying pride price.

Na laps una de bleep say na Opueh.

Oga u for just write this thing under em topic, no de find nonsense validation for here.

One day is always for the owner. But everyday is for ....

Just let go and enjoy your time here. The reason for the separation had its purpose and the woman feels it when a man moves on for real. She begins to see all the qualities she's lost and can never have. That's why she tries to bring back that feeling. To the man I don't think that's what matters, it's best to focus on ur new relationship with finance and self discipline. Stop gambling with your emotions. Focus.

DAramis:
I know bro.

I am just saying op should encourage women to be more open towards their love interest/relationship.

They should not because of fear of rejection and ditch the approach. Most Men have been collecting lots of rejections out there from the women, but it still didn't deter them from approaching other women

I don't think women are wired that way. That's why many of them never find true love, because they can't be with the man they want, due to the same reason of waiting to be talked to first. It's just weird. Deep down the man gets the signal of what the girl or woman feels about them but is too busy with being independent.

It's degenerating to jump around from one mouth to another - The God Father.

Nigerians the easily forget hardwork for any hustler side if your papa or grandpapa mistakenly get money.

madridguy:
Bye Election, is election to replace people elected that death don take away. So INEC conduct a new election to bring another people to take their position.

Thank you Madrid guy. So, basically, they're political positions in Nigeria that only death can terminate.

Bye bye election, what is it? Explain to me like I'm 5

You people can't do this to Mama G, Osofia and Ibu, these people from Nollywood enter music still deliver.

DAramis:
Op this is 21st century.

She should tell the guy herself or give him green light like a 911 lorry lamp.

Otherwise, she will die heartbroken and dejected with how I wish...

If women de 10 na 1 only fit gather mind approach guy way em like. Indication of interest de kwa, but no be all guy the reason all those green light.

If you no sure try go for the nearest Immigration office confirm if na real or fake. So far say u do the training.

The worse part be say Parents too de see teachers as charity workers. Even when school fees increment is raised up in the PTA meeting to help fix up the small pay they give to teachers, parents will say things like the teachers can survive.

Softmirror:
But person wey first plant yam no dey act based on karma.

If people way no get money de drag land, who get yam go first de put for ground, wetin concern am with Karma.

Women or young girls can be very complex. What do they want? Relationship, what in it is their major concern - steady conversation.

But in most cases a woman you don't talk to can be secretly admiring and thinking of you all day, till night, or even dream about you, without your consent. It's something magical, love and emotions. Unfortunately the society ties up their mouth from spilling out whatever they feel for a man first to the man.

Because the man isn't aware of all his secret lovers, he literally breaks the heart of most other girls when they see him with another woman. That is when you begin to hear things like, look who he ended up with...mtcheew.

What on earth should men do about this ?

Twitter no fit cook without adding Uk to the story.

Softmirror:
That means dem too being dey serve as karma so the ball is going round on 'karmarisim'. This one coming to this couple too will be expecting karma too abi?!😁

Of course you are on point. Na who plant Yam go harvest goat.

Kobojunkie:
Are married men also praying that young boys don't do to them what they did to other married men?

They should hope on their descendants to be better men. Moreover, young boys don't derive joy in going for married women, unlike the way young girls do for money's sake. Although all those momies way de whine small boys no de too de with their husbands.

Meteng:
You’re very correct my brother

For this Lagos, nobody care for nobody, unless money fall out. But at a time, men de show love, na just say, all this free update the make the recipient de lazy to work. Or e go even make the person way share am look like mumu, if the reciever see say e no go fit run am.

Married women de pray make young girls no do them wetin them do other married women when them be young girls. But karma just de eat popcorn and chilled coke. When your own Husband come e go play the BF for you.

We need to care for our women, pray for our women and be kind to our women. Life is getting so terrible that men don't show much care to women, imagine a young woman set out of her comfort zone to serve her nation and some hoodlums in form of security vigilantes humiliates her for not stealing, she should take it up legally.

This is not my real age. If you trace back to when she dropped that 'this is not my real face.

Life no easy my brother. The worst thing for this life as a man is trying to deny yourself of s*x. You can stop thinking about it, which is a great thing to do, but then in Igbo we call it akwara, no use am joke.

Bullman:
Sad thing about this generation is that the worst women now are virgins,
I have met a lot of virgins and I can tell you for free that they believe the world revolves around their virginity .. I have nothing against virgins tho but I haven’t met anyone that is resourceful, intelligent , street smart , and ready to build an empire with a man . They keep seeing themselves like one f**king trophy .
For you guys saying u can’t marry a non virgin .. when you finally find one , after the first sex you will realize there is more to life than a fresh untouched pussy .
In all you do find your self a good woman that is ready for marriage not a wedding . Find your self a partner
That believes in your leadership,
If you end up with the wrong partner even the devil won’t bother you again because e don do you freedom , he don settle you ooo

Bro you talk well no be lie.