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SportsRe: How Representing Nigeria At The Olympics Cost Me My Place At Chelsea: Mikel Obi by hstar: 10:17pm On Aug 29, 2024
uvie66:
My brother the thing weak me, is like saying Didier represented Ivory Coast at the Olympics and been dropped, na who go lose.
true that
RomanceRe: How I Lost My Friend In A Swimming Pool. by hstar: 11:47pm On Aug 28, 2024
I'm Speechless for now
PhonesRe: Is 9mobile Still In Existence In Nigeria by hstar: 10:52pm On Aug 28, 2024
This needs to be on front page
Nlfpmod, please help us
Dominique
Myndd44

We don't know what is wrong with Etisalat again, for days network would not come


If you recharge, to load na issue
Please we need wider view so that pple Can share their experience
CelebritiesRe: Portable Unveiled His Father "Papa Zazu” (video) by hstar: 12:45pm On Aug 28, 2024
nani212:
Striking resemblance. They look like best of friends too.
grin na so he supposed be
CelebritiesRe: Portable Unveiled His Father "Papa Zazu” (video) by hstar: 12:42pm On Aug 28, 2024
Aremwayne:
No DNA test required! grin
I swear
HealthRe: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hstar: 8:48pm On Aug 23, 2024
TrainPark:
No, never made that mistake!

I spoke to her on WhatsApp even yesterday sef.

Na my padi she still be!!!
Alright boss
HealthRe: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hstar: 11:56am On Aug 23, 2024
TrainPark:
Funny question!

I NEVER DID MUCH WAYWARD LIFE BUT EVEN THEN, I NEVER EVER TOUCH A WOMAN WITHOUT PROTECTION, Except WIfey!

when she insisted to come over, I told her I did not have condom as an excuse to dissuade her but she offered to buy some on her way.
So, definitely.. always used protection, always!
My thought was
Maybe after she spent one or two days

U just threw away the idea of using condom
But as great as the sex was, did the woman contacted you afterwards? Say, maybe some months after, since she's got your contact already?
CrimeRe: Mohbad: Court Orders Substituted Service On Naira Marley, Sam Larry by hstar: 8:31am On Aug 23, 2024
Nkpitime:
Substituted service means that instead of taking the summon letter to them in their address which may be difficult to locate them and see them in their various addresses
They beg the court to allow them publish the summon letter in a reputed national news media, to notify those summoned that they need their presence on the next day of adjournment
Thanks
HealthRe: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hstar: 8:13am On Aug 23, 2024
TrainPark:
This is how you tell a good fictional story to pass a message, thank-you OP!!

Even when I was in the world, this is the major reason why I no dey carry any girl at all especially sleep over not even for short time.

I always imagine that scenario where a woman dies in my custody.

I had this very nice and bootilicious girlfriend. I really like her but she is very diabetic and has very bad high BP problems.

The first time I experienced it was one day after doing the do then her body started shaking vigorously.

She asked me to get her bag and bring out her sugar test kit and BP apparatus... her sugar was high and BP was going through the roof. Na so i she asked for her BP drugs which I administered to her. And had to be give her a towel bath , etc.

It was really scary.
Long story short, I no dey gree her come meet me.again although I really loved her and she like to knack alot.

Years later, after my divorce, I considered marrying her because she was really nice, beautiful and very reasonable but then I justi had to go against the idea because I had decided never again to marrya girl older than 25years.
Na so I shove the idea come marry the smallie wey I dey use hold body now.

I once went against my principle of no sleep over.
I had travelled fir business to Abuja and relaxing in my hotel room one evening when devil come diaper nonsense for my ears. I

downloaded a hookup app which i git know about on thus forum and started browsing.

Na so I see this very beautiful matured woman dey send me message.
I responded with small fear because she was looking like a big man's wife.
One thing led to the other and she agreed to come and meet me in the hotel.

I still remember, it was a day to valentine that year. Na so Mama come looking even better than I expected.
I asked if she was doing hookup she no answer me.
We sat briefly in the living room of my hotel suite and then she straight away started reaching fir my gbola dey rub am.
The idiot just could not even pretend. He stood up instanta.
I told her to enter inside room and gave her s good lashing. She fired me too.. ooo. She pounced like a tiger on the gbola.


Long story short, we spent two weeks together just knacking and having a good time.

She actually refused to go and wouldn't take kobo from me. Only when I foot the bills for our outings or when I bought her gifts.

Funny how life goes when I reminisce those times of ignorance and bliss.
Did you use condom
Or
It was raw sex?
CelebritiesRe: I Was Once Asked To Leave The Stage For Psquare -flavour by hstar: 10:45pm On Aug 22, 2024
3seriez:
[/b]Hello! Off that thing [b]😂
We just lack manners in this country 🤣
And if you return the same energy
They'll say you don't respect authority
Or that u lack morals
RomanceRe: I Took This Cough Syrup And It's Making Me So Hig..... by hstar: 3:43pm On Aug 18, 2024
Kevineleven:
You are not a Celeb, you are a walking dead, the product of a foolish man and a mad woman, your written words already told nairalanders all they need to know about you.
You have no point being alive.
I don't blame you, I blame your mother for giving birth to a worthless person like you.
If she had closed her useless cunt, there won't be a demon like you on the Internet dragging people.
Smelling Lowlife scum, from the dirty smelly cunt of a mad woman.
You get time to dey drag him sha,

What a troll need is attention,

The moment you give him attention,

You've given him strength to troll more,

The moment you ignore him, he dies a natural death of not getting attended to,

Please, 🙏 always ignore him.
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Date Female Medics by hstar: 2:02pm On Aug 12, 2024
tematherapy:
The Critical Imperative to Address Children's Mental Health

The mental health of children is in crisis, requiring urgent attention from all sectors of society. With an increasing number of young people facing mental health challenges, it’s essential for parents, educators, and communities to act swiftly in recognizing the early signs and providing the necessary support. Many children struggle to express their emotions or may not even realize they need help, making early intervention a crucial factor in their well-being.

Spotting the Signs: Recognizing Behavioral Changes

Children often lack the ability to articulate their emotions as clearly as adults. Consequently, what may seem like a minor mood swing could be the early stages of a more serious mental health issue. Parents should be vigilant in noticing any unusual behavior or sudden changes in their child’s daily routine. Increased irritability, withdrawal from social interactions, or a decline in academic performance can all be potential indicators of emotional distress.

It’s important for parents to distinguish between typical childhood behavior and signs of potential mental health problems. Even if a behavior seems like just a passing phase, staying observant and engaged can lead to early identification and intervention, which is key to addressing mental health concerns effectively.

Fostering Open Communication: The Power of Dialogue

One of the most impactful ways to support a child’s mental health is through open, honest communication. Although children and adolescents may resist discussing their feelings, finding the right approach can significantly improve their willingness to share. Parents should strive to create a safe, non-judgmental environment where children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and emotions.
Approaching these conversations with empathy and patience is crucial. Instead of demanding immediate answers, allowing children to express themselves at their own pace can lead to more genuine and productive discussions. By remaining calm, approachable, and understanding, parents can help their children feel secure enough to open up about their struggles.

Addressing Common Mental Health Issues in Children

Mental health issues in children can manifest in various ways, with anxiety and depression being among the most common. Early recognition of these conditions is essential for effective intervention. Anxiety in children may appear as excessive worry, restlessness, or physical symptoms like headaches and stomachaches. Depression might present as prolonged sadness, loss of interest in activities, or significant changes in sleep patterns.

Beyond anxiety and depression, other mental health concerns such as eating disorders, behavioral issues, and the effects of trauma can also significantly impact a child's well-being. It’s important for parents and caregivers to be aware of these issues and to seek help when needed.

Taking Decisive Action: When and How to Seek Help

When a child's mental health is in jeopardy, seeking professional help without delay is vital. Persistent mood changes, withdrawal from social activities, or behaviors that interfere with daily life are all signs that it may be time to consult a https://tematherapy.com/working-with-children. Parents should familiarize themselves with available resources, including school counselors, pediatricians, and specialized mental health professionals.

It’s also crucial to overcome the stigma often associated with mental health care. Many parents hesitate to seek help due to fear of judgment, but acknowledging the importance of mental health is the first step toward ensuring a child’s long-term well-being.

Promoting Ongoing Mental Wellness

Addressing a child's mental health needs goes beyond the initial intervention. Building resilience and teaching coping strategies are vital for sustaining long-term wellness. Parents can play a significant role in helping their children develop these skills by modeling positive behaviors, encouraging ongoing communication, and fostering a supportive home environment.

Engaging schools and community organizations can further bolster a child’s support system. Educators, peers, and community groups can provide additional resources and encouragement, reinforcing the importance of mental health care throughout a child’s development.

Conclusion: A Collective Call to Action for[url] https://tematherapy.com/working-with-children/[/url]

The crisis in children’s mental health is a complex challenge that requires awareness, proactive intervention, and sustained support. By recognizing the signs of mental health issues early, fostering open dialogue, and seeking professional assistance when necessary, parents can profoundly impact their children’s lives. As a community, we must work together to ensure every child has the support they need to thrive mentally and emotionally.
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RomanceRe: My Landlady Give This To Me. I'm Really Tired Of My Condition. by hstar:
post=131449002:
If entitlement was a person!
Just imagine!!
Shaking our heads!!!
Arrogant man
Oya cry to the mods
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Messenger Is On Permanent by hstar: 8:30am On Aug 09, 2024
Zainabwhitemone:
Blood makes you related, Loyalty makes you family.
Never give someone the opportunity to waste your time twice.
Never forget who helped you out while everyone else was making excuses.
When you truly don't care wtf anyone thinks of you, you've reached a dangerous level of freedom.
People who have no life will always try to start drama in yours.
Life is short, time is fast, no replay, no rewind, so enjoy every moment as it comes.
Zenabu, this is much o
What inspired you to write this?
CelebritiesRe: Rema Talks On Competing With The "Big 3" Burna Boy, Wizkid & Davido (Video) by hstar: 8:12am On Aug 09, 2024
Juanmike:
What's pipe low
To keep a low profile
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar: 9:34am On Jul 22, 2024
MrCork:
Calm down son..no need for violent! undecided
You never beeento london in yor life & u hav the ordasity to talk to a londoner like we on the same level. do u no were baker street is?
be nice to me & j will send u £3 to chop.do u even no wot McDonalds is??(((((no oofencse)))) angry
Weyrey cheesy
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 10:13am On Jul 20, 2024
FaceTanke:
tongue
wink I'm glad you slept well
See the way you placed your tongue outside after you had a great night rest
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 2:50am On Jul 20, 2024
FaceTanke:
Ditto

Meaning, u reply with the same thing

Esprit de Corp
Thanks boss,

By the way, you are supposed to be relaxing by this time around, my friend go sleep angry
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar:
MrCork:
son am from London..a londoner!! angry
Your papa left nyansh there!

Who be your son?

Can you withstand me face to face in reality

I blame nairaland, na nairaland dey give most of una mouth

Crackhead
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar:
Knightred:
stupid illiterate boy trying to proof graduateundecided
Illegitimate son of a billion fathers,
U've been noticed

You requested money from me and I declined to offer you, is that why you turned me to you foe?

Mrcock, please call your dog (knightred) to order, he begs a lot

And after all, he would call himself a celebrity

Begging celeb cheesy
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar: 8:05pm On Jul 18, 2024
Bliztzer:
Na ur president, no be my president. You get problem, wey men dey try gather, person go come dey ontop woman for 2hrs. Which kind nonsense be that self?

You well so?
Now you're getting it

The person you are responding to is

Demented
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar: 7:59pm On Jul 18, 2024
Knightred:
sir it's knightred didn't u go to schoolundecided



And again,why are u so idioticundecided
I know u came here to beg from meundecidedand am not giving u
U unprofessional licensed idiot beggerundecided
Mofo, I knew what I typed

You are knighted

Not knightred
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar: 7:41pm On Jul 18, 2024
MrCork:
Knightred is a known crackhead on nairaland sir...I am normal, meaning I am not him sir!! undecided
So, you can call someone a crackhead?

What are you then?
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Lazy by hstar:
Ballzproblem2:
only one person types like this and that's mrcork.
I said the same thing, but cock himself came out and denied knowing knightred


But I still believe it Mrcock alternate handle
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar:
Madewithlove:
I hope your not planning to impersonate them? If they catch you eh your body will tell you fa
.
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 12:48pm On Jul 18, 2024
hstar:
Please how would the other guy reply?
FaceTanke:
Ditto
Offpointng:
free the call
Now I'm confused
Don't know whose own's correct!
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 12:47pm On Jul 18, 2024
Offpointng:
free the call
Thanks
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 12:03pm On Jul 18, 2024
Madewithlove:
I hope your not planning to impersonate them? If they catch you eh your body will tell you fa
B like say you be Ilorin guy

Nah, I'm never going to copy them

I know the consequence of course
RomanceRe: What Is SPD Cup? A Policeman Was Telling An Army by hstar: 11:13am On Jul 18, 2024
FaceTanke:
Esprit de corp...

A slang for greeting among armed forces
Please how would the other guy reply?
CareerRe: Police Is The Best Job In The World — IGP Egbetokun by hstar: 11:02am On Jul 18, 2024
yungkels:
Where you been?
APC shege banza don make him brain reset small
EducationRe: MOUAU Lecturer In Tears As Her Students Surprise Her On Her Birthday by hstar: 10:19am On Jul 18, 2024
Nazgul:
Hope they all wrote their names and reg numbers in a piece of paper and attached it to the gift. That way she won't fail any of them. grin

I remember back then in school one of my lecturer lost his mom. He then told us to attend the burial. When he saw that we weren't taking it seriously, he told us that he wouldn't be giving us quiz that the burial attendance is 40 marks. Omo the whole department including carryover students chartered buses to attend the burial.

At the burial, come and how we were struggling to write our names and reg numbers. Las las everyone passed the course. To be a student in Nigeria no easy o. grin
grin Nigeria is a dramatic country

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