₦airaland Forum

About 7 years ago

Bsuedu:
Just curious about something...

How long have you been a U S citizen?

My ex is an American with no African heritage. I know it doesn't matter, but isn't it logical that if you get burnt once it is okay to try something else? What is wrong in wanting a Nigerian?

ednut1:
typical nigerian man abroad cant deal with women of the west . Give the nigerian babe dey import 6 months when she starts to mingle with pple at work , she transforms into a woman of the west .

Hmmm...I must say u do have a good point. Just so you know, I never plan to do this today. I just came on for the normal gist and the idea popped in my head, and welcome the idea of being discrete.

TSOM:
That's the thing- you don't post anything on your profile or have them reading anything on your timeline.

That's what inbox conversations are for. All you need do is establish communication with the woman of interest.

A simple "Hi", "Hello", "Trust your day is going well enough?" gets everything started.

On Nairaland (and other such anonymous and semi-anonymous forums) you are almost driving in pitch-black darkness.

I dont understand u but if your question is if I'm bald, the answer is NO cuz I currently have a fro on.

Ishilove:
Are you balding, sir?

I do appreciate your honest observation. Yes FB, Instagram or the likes are more suitable for this but for the sake of my ex, my daughter and other people involved, I would hate to use my situation inconvenience anyone of them. On these mention platforms I do have friends that are my ex friends who are my friends wives too...on these platform I do have my in- laws who are wonderful people. How would these people feel if they get one of my post such as these. I chose this medium because I want to be as discrete as possible. i may be wrong by thinking this may work but a trial wont hurt.

TSOM:
Maybe this is authentic; then again, maybe it is not.

You'd never find love this way if you are actively seeking for it.

Putting your profile out her and scripting your words like you have would only attract desperate folks.

Aren't you on Facebook? On Facebook you can at least do some 'window shopping':

*Check out her pictures to see how attractive, slutty and vain she is or isn't;

*Check her post history to gauge how rational, enlightened she is while checking out her attention-craving tendencies;

*And a gazillion other prerequisites you'd look out for in a woman you intend to be with.

The options aren't even limited to women on your 'friends' list'. Mutual friends and active or passive users in groups and on pages can be checked out out.

You don't even need to send them friend requests at first . Just add them on Facebook Messenger and work your charm if you please.

If you are really who you claim to be - as enlightened and stable as you claim to be - you shouldn't have any problem interacting with women and making moves on the ones you facing.

This technique of yours is so 2006 and attracts mostly the wrong women.

I cant proof any further than this...attached herewith is my work badge. I work for the US Govt. Sorry I do have to cover all info on the badge to protect myself. Hand written is today's date and time in my location (NB: my hand writing is not that bad, I had to use my left hand so my writing wont be recognizable...

Ishilove:
Mr Accurate Time keeper, wehdone sir

Thanks.

JupiterGeekVII:
Good luck, OP. I hope you find what you're looking for.

I do not know who that is, and if I may also mention that I'm new to Nairaland in term of posting comments. I do come here for naija news but just joined today.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Ok. Come. Are you FannySwindler?

I did mention in my post that I am in my early forties.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Op. Wait first. How old are you?
You better tell me!
A miracle awaits you!

I refer u to my earlier response. In now where have I presented myself as a catch, I did not promised any incentive, did not ask for any condition other than a career path and to be a good person. I could have decided not to mention Im a divorcee with polish lifestyle. I am an ordinary person like y'all with everyday life struggle.

Fadiga24:
Abi, too good to be true

Ask me anythin except personal info to proof to u...I dont blame you for being skeptical. I know scam is real, this aint one. Thanks anyway.

ednut1:
Smell scam

Thanks.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Eeeeyah!
I wish say i dey find husband, but pity, i no dey find.
May you find your missing ribs.

I will be disclosing my phone number by chatting you on whatsapp. If you don't mind, can you just inbox me at dquilexy@yahoo.com.

Shinapraise:
Can u chat me up on Whatssap zero eight one six one one two seven three three six

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