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SPAMBOX7:
Put that first Bitch where she belongs. To the streets. Any girl that's desperately seeking attention in whatever way shouldn't be taken seriously. Stop messaging and checking up on her. If she can't do it then it means she doesn't give a fvck about the relationship again. Move on
You know what? just do whatever you like, it's been really hard for me to advise people lately cos las las na wetin dey their mind dem go do so no need to waste my time

Thanks brother. Though A later told me she was just catching cruise later with the post when I asked her. She said she was just going and she even deleted it less than 24 hours after she made the post

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olasaad:
She will tell you everything is alright but she'll not tell you she cried to bed every night over this matter

I know it's painful and ive been doing everything to make her come back but with what she's Posting all the time, as a lady, do you think it's still worth it to continue with her?

TalkTalkTwins:
If you really loved the first, you wouldn’t have met the second

I loved her for real. But going along with the sex with girl B was a mistake and that was the only wrong i did. She got to know the real truth about B some 3 or 4 months ago and I've apologized. A lot of times. I've done everything to bring her back but recently she's just acting up again and that's what is making me think this is beyond repair already.
To her, If u should reply late, I'm talking to the girl. If she tries to call me and I couldn't answer the phone, I'm with the girl. If I'm online and I am not chatting with her, I'm with the girl. And all these, I've endured for the past months. And all of a sudden, she starts posting these again.

burp18:
you'd be doing yourself a gigantic favor by ending things with your girlfriend now, most times they don't recover from this and you could try to FIX things and you'd both pretend all is well but the minute the opportunity presents itself. She's going to get back at your for this and she's going to do it worse. Only reason she prolly hasn't moved on is because she doesn't have her next option lined up. End things now and tell her you should be just friends, salvage whatever's left of your relationship cos if you don't, she's going to hurt you at a time when you need her the most.

Thanks for your input brother

SirJerrie:
Is like your brain is paining you..
What's the colour of your fUulishness??

She suspected you of cheating...
You deny...
She gets proof... Asks you to choose who you want.
You apologized... Choose her(out of pity..not out of love)..
YOU'RE NOT IN ANY WAY REASSURING HER OF YOUR LOVE FOR HER(cos you don't even love her anymore)...
You cheat, she finds out.. AND YOU EXPECT EVERYTHING TO BE OKAYY WITH HER??
You expect everything to go back to normal just like that??
Are you normal?
If tables were turned, will you be "okay" after what she did??

You're here blabbing of how the other girl ticks all the boxes... You've obviously not seen all of her..
What makes you think she's perfect??


You're the reason for her misery...
Please break up with her already...
Focus your cheating-arse on your new perfect girlfriend!!!

I understand that you read only the first post but I've done everything humanly possible for her to come back and she just makes these posts on her WhatsApp sometimes and this is what she posted yesterday

Suunnn:
Ok
Relationship is not an easy one, try starting afresh i mean within you both,, beginning with you


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Alright

GoooodHardDick:
You're a semi beta male. A male who's afraid of taking decisions and let go.

Oga that girl used reversed phycology on you hence the reason she asked you to choose. Mr man you would've chosen the new girl and relax, then watch your gf become extremely jealous and demanding for your attention.

You were afraid of hurting her hence you opted for her! Even despite knowing lots of guys has banged her before and she's still in steady contact with them!! What a simp! It'll interest you to know that girls respect and value a guy who careless and doesn't give them attention. I'm sure you're the Mr. Nice Guy and gentle guy type (The WhatsApp screenshot confirmed it). An alpha male wouldn't even bother replying that message and that's another value and respect added to him.

Go through my threads here on nairaland and purge yourself from this Simpson disease you're exhibiting

There's something called conscience bro. I was caught lying and I made out with another girl.... All caught red handed. So?

Suunnn:
1. She is your girlfriend and vice versa
To make everything right between you two it has to do with you both, and for everything to go wrong it is still within you both

2. Talking about attitude
You made mention of things about her you seem not to contend with, she might have her own concerning you it has to do with communication between you both. Where it get to worse is where one party seem to be the only one doing everything all to make everything work, then after working on this over and over and over you conclude within you..

3. Facing girl B
You met her got to know her, had certain connection with her and now your girlfriend is not happy about it finding this all out. And now she is upset, first question here is have you discovered such from her i mean judging you and girl B on her own side? If no, you hurt her and is yes,, try resolve your issue among you two..

Note: If you love someone with everything all you even while and when the other party seem unpleasant you could make that same party pleasant, what you want you make happen. With everything time, love humility respect and all..


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It's a long story Sha. But she has her own default too and especially with still being in talking terms with those she has had sexual encounter with before our relationship

swagguElite:
That shii hurts man. How can she say a stranger can see through her while the ones closest can't decipher, on her status publicly, trust me. She's writing you off.

And using the same turret to gain attention. People wey wan chop your babe clean mouth will appear like a good companion now since she made it open. Easy target with blandishment. Savour this moment, count your losses and leave before your respect diminishes completely.

When a lady loves you, and you fvckup. She forgives but her mind still replays the fvckup in her head. They begin to act like this, do everythin' under inherent pain to inflict same to you and commensurate it with your past action. Its an emotional thingy.

Talking from experience. You have to do the non-casual breakup. Emotional one. Breakup on the ground that you hurt her and staying in the relationship will only hurt her more. Whatever she's feeling right now is a glitch. Don't rekindle nothin', let her cry, give her the space and purge herself of the hate she still harbors for you and come back on her own terms.

If she doesn't come back, she has gotten over you. The pain in her life, at least you left with some dignity not when you catch her spiral cheating and ruin every hope in your cloying love life.

When you want to stop a forest fire, you don't apply water pressure instantly tryin' to rekindle shii. You cut down trees untouched yet, give it space and keep the fire isolated. The situation is already lit, limit the collateral.

Hmmmmmm

swagguElite:
That shii hurts man. How can she say a stranger can see through her while the ones closest can't decipher, on her status publicly, trust me. She's writing you off.

And using the same turret to gain attention. People wey wan chop your babe clean mouth will appear like a good companion now since she made it open. Easy target with blandishment. Savour this moment, count your losses and leave before your respect diminishes completely.

When a lady loves you, and you fvckup. She forgives but her mind still replays the fvckup in her head. They begin to act like this, do everythin' under inherent pain to inflict same to you and commensurate it with your past action. Its an emotional thingy.

I think it's working too because I've been feeling really bad. Especially when I noticed something was off about her and I kept asking her what it was even sent her a token to buy something for herself just to cheer her up but she always say nothing is wrong until boom, she posted that on her status. What else does she want me to do?
I've been the only one messaging and calling her for one week straight now. The day I didn't message or call her (i was very busy throughout and slept early cos i was tired) she never called too or even dropped a message and she was online.

Fahvvy:
Guy you f up big time ...

But be that as it may, your babe has written you off already ...

She isn't even afraid to post those things on her status knowing fully well that you'll see it and prolly be pissed about it ...

I'll advice you seat her down and talk things with her... Let her tell you exactly what she wants...

If she says she wants the relationship, then tell her that such behavior is UNACCEPTABLE! But if she doesn't want the relationship break up with her instantly ...

I'll leave you with a quote that is popular amongst the ladies (though I'll twerk it a tiny winny little bit for this purpose )....

"Don't allow a girlfriend stop you from finding your wife" ...

Life is too short to put up with such stupid attitude of hers when there's someone seemingly better, just Sha be upfront about it ...

Thank you. I have asked her countless times, she always say everything is fine and nothing is wrong and then, I'll check her status and find messages like the above.

immortalcrown:
Do you mean you are not the one who exchanged the messages with her? If yes, she is gradually writing you off.

I'm not. I saw it on her status too

immortalcrown:
Which ones are your messages in the screenshots? I need to know before I advise you.

Meanwhile, you are very selfish. You started another relationship while you have an ongoing relationship. Why didn't you quit the first one before starting the second one?

That's a message from someone else that she posted on her WhatsApp status.

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