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princeFAD:
@op. If the man lied to you about his sexual status before you married him, then the marriage was based on deceit and therefore cannot be considered a marriage. Then you are free to walk out.

GBAM!

NothingLikeLove, the truth is that there was no marriage in the first place because of this level of deceit.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Walk out of that 'marriage' now that it is still early.

NothingLikeLove:
Yes, I told him more than once that I'll divorce him if he doesn't change, most times he'll promise to work on himself, but after one week, he'll go back to his former self. This last one, he threatened that no one can separate us, not even me. Somebody told me to stop telling him about the divorce thing because he might harm me.

I understand your position on divorce because you are a Christian.

This is my advise to you; divorce him.

There are some issues too weighty to be hidden from someone before getting married like when you know you are impotent and cannot father a child. That is a very big one and he ought to have told you this before you both got married.

On the grounds of this grevious injustice, you can divorce him.