₦airaland Forum

Kaczynski:
no man beat your wife



all i see here is a case of two women fighting and her husband interfered in the fight maybe trying to seperate them

And you were there? You even sabi pass the eyewitnesses?

sreamsense:
Is it today ipob fabricated sponsor of fake newspaper post to stir public and later denied to be fake? Post the online video from reputable camera men of television stations bringing us live or recorded video we can verify to see. Ipob can fake anything and sponsor any false narrative on national paper, only to be debunked some days later

So, you believe that whatever you said made sense, even to you? As a cameraman, you have to start living with people in volatile rural communities so that you can get an online real-time capture of their killings as evidences? SMH.

Goodlady:
Ahhh.
Whooping N15m?
Legally speaking, the case get K-Leg o.
There was no disclosure about the content of the trucks nor talk of it's value.
This should have been said by the company when they were aware that the truck was seized so technically it might just be a bait to let the goods rot and damages will now be on the person that seized the truck.
Luminary speaking, the fracas it will generate will give hocus pocus for a legal battle tantamount to jeopardize tranquility and eloquent peace between the man & the company provided there was no prior notification probis crismus-crismus.
No paraphernalia of negotiation will exonerate the man that ceized the truck nor any legal acumen to justify the case as it wasn't taken to police station. But the onus and operandi is on the poor man. His fatal mistake was his fragmentized omission of reporting to law enforcement agency like NPF.

The matter go tey for court cos that man can't afford N15m even if they sell him.

But what about his car? If the car gets sold, it may pay for half of the bill or maybe even more.

MeezPat:
Either the central African or West African Cefa are not up to this please. The XOF and the XAF are almost at par. Therefore, I still maintain that 2000XOF or XAF cannot be 25000 naira

Official rate most times is not the same as the reality. Those exchange people don't follow the official rate, and unless you have another option, you are definitely at their mercy.

brain54:
Joke's on you pal...

No, it's on you.

You used the word "discipline" for the parents and I asked you who would do the so-called "discipline", yet you wanted me to define what "you" meant by discipline.

People like you just throw words around and you, especially, expect people to accept them hook, line and sinker just because you decided to name yourself "brain54"?

Your choice of word is wrong, no matter how much you try to come on strongly. You cannot use "discipline" for the parents. Children do not discipline their parents no matter what.
The brave ones can "scold", talk sense into them or whatever. But...discipline? Nah.

brain54:
You don't know and you are quoting my comment...?

You shouldn't have if you didn't understand the context in which I used it!

Very funny.

brain54:
What do you understand by discipline...?

You should be the one to explain.

brain54:
So the parents are Free from discipline...

Or what is the issue?

Who should discipline them? The daughter?

brain54:
Disrespect and disregard entered when she started collecting money from her ex...


Obviously the op was trying to be understanding and that's why he allowed the "friendship".

And It's obvious it's not an open relationship!

Where exactly did you get this info from?

brain54:
People ought to have discipline and principles...


Why would anyone be collecting money from their ex when they are married.

It's insulting to the present husband/wife.

Money isn't everything!

That's not the issue here. The issue is the fact that the wife's parents are the ones collecting money and gifts from the ex.

Racheal45:
Bro u don Dey leave topic of discussion
The topic of discussion is monetizing his YouTube
Why can't he monetize his YouTube and use the money to help the poor
Wat about pastor Jerry
Him no monetize ?

God doesn't generalise. What He would ask A to do is what He would ask B not to do. Every man's purpose is different and He has tailored us in line of our purpose.

Helinuse:
Also funny is how some people think that having a social media page will just cough out billions.

🤣🤣🤣

“God instructed him not to…”

You guys don’t know God.

And you do?

PDPdestroyer:
All but waist chain is a red flag

You like navel piercing?

ChizzyBuna:
See your hypocrisy

A person living in sin has soft spot in God hearts because he brought more souls

You think God can be decieve like you guilable sheeps

This is why I said Christianity in Nigeria is a very BIG JOKE

And who is the person living in sin in this case?

Putinofrussia:
Maybe he thinks that silence is the best answer for a fool.

Or maybe he wants to work with the proverb "every man is thought to be wise until he opens his mouth" in this case. He probably knew opening his mouth would be disastrous in this instance.

Tjra:
Ohhh... Now I see why Regina was misbehaving.

You became 4th wife and the senior wives welcomed you wholeheartedly. You suppose give yourself brain, welcome the 5th wife and take a back seat.

No champion forever

You clearly don't know what you are saying. Laila is the 5th wife, while Regina Daniels is the 6th wife.

Mariangeles:
You are not a woman, so you can't understand.

You understand! Most of these young unmarried men just type trash and like them in mass because they have no inkling about what it means to suddenly start having sex and then get pregnant immediately -- the confusion, the hormones and the likes.

NiRfreak:
Oga. This is not right at all
At the beginning of what should be your bonding time, she's playing games and manipulation....
These are what you should do.

1. Erase the fact you have in your head that she's godly or good or virgin. Erase it. It no longer count. Otherwise you won't be able to act as a man, even when u are hurting, ur emotional side will be emasculating you..
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2. Approach the situation practically and zero your mind completely away from having sex with her. At least before marriage u dint die without sex. So don't let her use the sex card to turn u to her slave.
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3. Insist on pregnancy test
4. Insist on DNA test after 9 months..... Just to get on her nerves and make her agitated that you may not trust her.
5 Don't try to please her, do the barest minimum and no special treat. I beg you, no special treat or outing meant to curry favor.
6 play the same game she's playing. And don't bother her for sex... and don't seek her attention.
7 don't sleep in same room at night..go sleep in the second room.
8 Create scene and lambast her if she tries to gaslight you or flip the script on you for behaving mean towards her. A woman should be able to see your anger expressed as a man when she crosses certain lie. Even if u can't express anger.. voice and act it... No go dey do gentle man for this situation o

Over times she will sit up if she realises u are not taking her manipulation.

But I bet you can't do this because u still see her as a saint who has ur best interest.. Lol.. But she's there manipulating you and trying to be the boss over you. If u don't flip the script, she will turn ur boss, u will have to obey anything she says, and she will make you beg for everything in that marriage

@ OP, if you follow this foolish advice, your marriage might get affected, and for life.

She might be having issues with pregnancy hormones, as absurd as that may have sounded.

Relax! Having sex is actually very important for a pregnant woman during the period of pregnancy (but after the first trimester) to prepare for a smooth and easy delivery.

brain54:
If you waited for 2 years of courtship...

You should put back your waiting cap for 9 months of pregnancy.

By the way I am not a fan of no sex before marriage for the simple reason of sexual compatibility.

I believe these are part of things that should be observed during courtship.

Just be decent about it and not use it as excuse for waywardness!

Sex should be observed before marriage? And if the lady gets pregnant in the process and turns to a single mother, she gets rejected.

Ozzyk:
We got married in ending of August
We didn't have anything to do together at all during our 2 year courtship
She's really adorable and a Godly babe to the core
On the second night of our wedding I confirmed she was a virgin
Sadly our honeymoon only lasted Barely 2 weeks before she missed her period
Here is the issue;
Since over a month and some few weeks now she won't let me touch her, in fact it's like my touches irritate her, no sex, no kiss, no smooching, no touching
It sometimes feels we're just house mates who shares same matrimonial bed together
I have tried to talk to her many times about my sexual wellness but she seems not interested at all
My marriage is less than 2 months and I am already over a month sex starved
Perhaps she sometimes complains of pregnancy cramps but this should not com at the detriment of my sexual well being.....
And besides she's goes to work everyday but the moments she gets home she won't let me touch not even slight touches not to talk of sex or romance....
I am already tired 😩

For now, she is just 2 months pregnant. Having sex might be detrimental for the first trimester.

However, after the first trimester, it is safe for pregnant women to have sex. To achieve this, kindly insist on following her to her gynecologist where you can slip him/her a paper to "emphasise on" the need for sex at that point. She will definitely fall into line .

UkoAnnang:
Stop this your hypocrisy
The world is no living backward.

Change your ways, don't be like an APC politician speaking from both sides of your mouth.

Bearing a child out of wedlock according to una born again hypocrisy believe to be a sin

Now you won't talk about the bold rather you are celebrating her cos she has made it.

Though I am not condemning her. But I want you to be straightforward

Yes, it is a sin. But, it takes courage to move past that sin where you are mostly judged by people than God to do right by raising that "result" of the obvious sin.

People have avoided other people talking behind their backs and being ostracised by either aborting, dumping the baby on a dunghill, or giving the baby up for adoption (which is not as bad as abortion or dumping though).

I believe that this is what is worthy of being applauded in what this woman did and what is actually being applauded, not the fact that she gave in to fornication. People who are fornicating and are extremely careful and those who got careless and got pregnant are the same -- they are committing the same sin of fornication.

Giving birth out of wedlock is not a special sin on its own.

Gustavowhite:
Ojukwu could speak Both yoruba and Hausa fluently even-though he was Igbo
Anybody can learn any language

It is not about learning. It is their dialect.

chiagozien:
There's no Yorubas in kogi, Yorubas are only in 5 south west states.

Where did you hear this tale from?

tunjijones:
Why must it always be a particular tribe.

Didn't you see that this news cut across all the major tribes? In fact, I really fear for Nigeria.

Lanretoye:
Now that her twitter account go collect blue tick

Who?

Samajogs:
Deborah is not only studying but slaying the teachers, lecturers and Students inclusive. What a wasted Generation(Z)

Does she look like a student to you?

Rexymania:
Shey na the Deborah wey God won dey protect be that?

Debby Felix is an actress. I have not even seen her misbehave in any of her films.

Antoeni:
Welcome to Ibadan The Ancient Brown Roof City

It actually looks cool.

Efuaye:
Devoid of the normal brown zinc roof Ibadan is known for.
This is beautiful.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with brown roofs. It just depicts the rich history of Ibadanland.

An artist can never describe the brown roof with such disdain that I normally read about here.

press9jatv:
they are just envying of Yoruba State

Ewo tun ni Yoruba state bayi? Omo osan ni nko ponpo ba'ya e🙄. Yoruba region