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pocohantas:
Nigeria

Lol
Tell me, which state?

pocohantas:
The commentator kept referring to him as a teenager, seems he was trying to mock us.

I kept wondering who is the teenager in our team. Could it be the old men falling upandan like people under anointing. You can imagine my shock when I got to know it's the GK.

That old man that have reach to do iwa akwa.

@Emboldened. Where are you from?

Financial cheating

zicoraads:
Lol.

I won't

I don't and will never date any poor hungry lady to start with. Those times are way, way past. If you are not independent and working, I'm not so sure you and I can go into any relationship. We'll be friends at best. And maybe fúck buddies

Lol Now you making a point, Bruv.

My problem with your writeup is that you didn't specify the set of ladies allowed to form class.

You don't expect a guy to spend heavily on a poor hungry lady because she's forming class.

MariaLavina:
No,i asked of your opinion of what relationship should entail and not What "they " have turned what to. You made the statements I pointed out not "they".



Let's keep this civil please.

Here was your question.

Are you indirectly saying Finance is the only reason and criteria relationships are formed?

Isn't it? I gave a direct answer YES! That's what ladies sees it as.

zicoraads:
Let's try and keep it civil, shall we?!

That said, I'll tell you my reasoning. I totally agree that relationships should never be a financial avenue for anyone, man or woman. I also agree that the only woman agree to form that level of class should be a financially independent woman.

Since we have agreed on the above, I'll like to ask you some few questions.

I think we can also agree that a lady like Linda Ikeji falls into that category. Now if, for instance, you ask her out and she agrees to date you, do you think because she is financially independent, she wouldn't want diamond necklaces, wrist watches, original designer shoes and bags as gifts? Or won't you surprise her by taking her to the best restaurants in town, or even a getaway weekend at a good and expensive hotel or even to other places abroad?

I'll love you to answer the questions above.

Getting her those things won't change the fact that she is financially independent.

But how about when you date the lady in your street? Will she want all of that? Of course not!

So why ask a "Linda Ikeji" out? Instead of asking that lady in your street out. Which one do you think will be more financially draining on you? The answer you have is the reason why this thread was created.

I now understand.

But, how about adding "financially independent ladies" to your writeup?

Because we still have poor hungry ladies claiming class in a relationship, which was the reason why I countered.

zicoraads:
Let's try and keep it civil, shall we?!

That said, I'll tell you my reasoning. I totally agree that relationships should never be a financial avenue for anyone, man or woman. I also agree that the only woman agree to form that level of class should be a financially independent woman.

Since we have agreed on the above, I'll like to ask you some few questions.

I think we can also agree that a lady like Linda Ikeji falls into that category. Now if, for instance, you ask her out and she agrees to date you, do you think because she is financially independent, she wouldn't want diamond necklaces, wrist watches, original designer shoes and bags as gifts? Or won't you surprise her by taking her to the best restaurants in town, or even a getaway weekend at a good and expensive hotel or even to other places abroad?

I'll love you to answer the questions above.

Getting her those things won't change the fact that she is financially independent.

But how about when you date the lady in your street? Will she want all of that? Of course not!

So why ask a "Linda Ikeji" out? Instead of asking that lady in your street out. Which one do you think will be more financially draining on you? The answer you have is the reason why this thread was created.

I now understand.

But, how about adding "financially independent ladies" to your writeup?

Because we still have poor hungry ladies claiming class in a relationship, which was the reason why I countered.

MariaLavina:
The two points you made contradicts another. Relationship shouldn't be a financial means to a woman, yeah! that's true.
The only form of ladies allowed to form class are the rich ones. I want to believe Rich in this context connotes financial stability.

Are you indirectly saying Finance is the only reason and criteria relationships are formed?

In as much as you try to diminish the credibility of this thread, you ended up agreeing with the original poster of the thread by the emboldened Sometimes it is best to agree with the truth than tackle it with baseless arguments. It isn't a sign of weakness but an affirmation of Sanity.

Yeah, that's the major reason why women opt in for relationship, that's what they've turned it into.

Zicoraads, I just don't want to believe that this writeup came from you. Even a demented and dimwitted slowpoke cannot stoop so low to scribble such rubbish.

>Relationship shouldn't be a financial means of a woman. It should be relationship, not a job for a lady.

>The only set of ladies allowed to form class should be a lady who is rich and can afford her needs without depending on any man, which means classy ladies are not suppose to depend on men because they are rich and can fend for themselves.

Simply put: Hungry ladies who asks men for money in a bid to form classy are nothing but riffraffs and poor ladies.

Question is; Why should a poor lady live a level of life she can't maintain without depending on a man?

SoapQueen:
I can't remember quoting you or telling you to shut up. I do not need to pretend. The time I'd use for that will be spent making myself a better person.

Go to sites Fiverr,Upwork,remote.co, Smart Money Empire and see the number of women working hard and cashing out. In addition to that, don't you think this is getting cliche? Your hasty generalization!

I have been Independent for a long time, hustling 100percent legit. You'd have to deal with that.

I am not here to be anybody's role model or become fugazy.


If the man I'm dating chooses to buy me something, it will be because he wants to and not because I can't work hard to buy it for myself or because I put him under pressure.

It's something to be rich, and it's another thing to be contented and self-dependent.

Like I initially typed; The love women wants from a man is money and no matter how you try to exempt yourself here on social media. I won't take it serious.

Have a nice day,.

SoapQueen:
[s] I think it will be really helpful if you took time out to really explore life. Meet people, get to see many women and just network. You would be amazed at how wrong what you just wrote up there is. [/s]

Kindly shut up, please. Just shut it.

Enough of all these pretense and social media formings you lots explore in a bid to look responsible and self-dependent. We know what you ladies are, we sure know.

It's impossible to see a Nigerian woman who isn't after a man's money, it's impossible. The love you lots want from a man is money, nothing else.

If that guy had continued that dream, that lady would have still asked him for transport money, because even in a dream, it's still impossible.

MrBrownJay1:
as much as we shouldnt promote playas, you cant deny that they are good at what they do (whether right or wrong)... especially if that babe has been dating this playa for more than 3months.

one important point here is also that, many women out there would easily forgive their cheating bf, and thats what would lead to issues like the OP's story .

You are right to some extent.

@Emboldened. Women don't forgive cheating boyfriends. They just find it difficult to opt out from such relationship because it's their major means of getting money. Most women are poor

UjuJoan2:
Feminism is a fight of freedom . . . There's nothing pretty about it. The fact that she was born and bred in an environment where women are marginalized should be a motivation for her cause, not a deterrent.

I know change is not easy, it never is, and it can be acheieved from ay where, thank God for social media and globalization. that's why we need the likes of her, who will use hammer to drum it into your heads. Whether you want to here it or not.

Are women in bondage? If YES, how?

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, you are giving some of these women WAY too much credits... and some of them playas out there much too little credit. some playas are so good at telling these women what they want to hear, these woman have NO CLUE who these men are. thats why so many are surprised that men they are dating are actually getting married to other women, lol! also many were main chick, then slacked and were relegated to #2 position etc,



sometimes its better to sweep things under the rug (for some), but also, remember that many were side chicks, then are happily being moved to #1 position, then these same foolish womenare wondering why someone is filling up their (left vacant) side chick position, bwaaaaah!

You have a point about women always wanting to be told sweet things by a guy, and when you fail to do that, you become an enemy to them or labeled a misogynist.

Lol, a player deserves no credit(Be it a man or woman) You need to know that the silence of a partner doesn't necessarily mean he or she is dumb, people do act like fools not because they are one, but because they want to fool you.

We shouldn't promote side-chick or side-man Bruv...LMAO. We shouldn't. If your partner isn't interesting, kindly quit than cheating. Lol.

MrBrownJay1:
come on bro, many women are dating men for YEARS, not tknowing they are being fooled... and sadly, i am certain, when the commotion was over (and the side chick removed), they were finally happily married.

you see, you have to understand women and their very strange minds..... even though this man was getting married to girl A, girl B came with a wedding dress to marry him as well (so obviously girl B does not care whether he was dating another babe).... so it is fair to say that the choice of girl A was very clear: marry this cheating man, or step away so girl B can marry him (as she has already accepted his cheating ways).

Believe me. Women are too smart not to know their stand in a relationship, their instinct must surely tell them what they are with the little signs their said men must have shown them in a relationship.


It's just that most women are scared to follow their instincts in a relationship to avoid causing emotional trauma and heartbreak for themselves.

I find it difficult to believe that a lady can date a man without knowing her position if she's the main or side chick. I just find it difficult to believe.

As for the foolish man, it's nice he was exposed, for the betterment of his wife-be lady. No partner deserves a cheat.

He should bear the consequences for not respecting his fiancee and for his inability to control his diiiick that has less value than kpomo 50naira.

malificent:
She's still carrying this hair since how many months?

Like say your 500 naira hair no dey reach 9 months

N0favors:
Cute

Very very cute

No matter how hard single mothers pretend on social media to be happy. We sure know how they truly feel in reality.
We know how pained lots of them are.


Happy father's day to hardworking and strong fathers all over the world and a very big shout out to lovely mothers and wives living with their husbands for they can never be seen as wayward women.

She needs a job

tiwasiaife:
*BREAKING NEWS*: PDP has a hand in the Super Eagles loss to Croatia. *~Lai Mohammed*

The loss was technical

TonyeBarcanista:
If Nigeria can beat Iceland by 3 goals

Argentina beat Croatia by 3 or 2 goals

Croatia Play draw with Iceland and

Nigeria draw Argentina in the last match, we will qualify for the next round.

Every tournament una dey calculate to qualify.


Can't you guys win and just qualify

kpoins:
Bros, you are on your own o

We are in this together