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KingPharaoh:
Your friend is a backstabber, he broke the rule 121 of the guy's code: "Thou shall not lust after thine guy's crush"

What you need do: Tell him straight point that he doesnt have your go ahead to date the girl because he was aware of your lust feelings for her. This will come in handy when your mutual friends come to settle your kiddish imbroglio, for they shall ask you, "Did you give him the go ahead?"

Now, flash the babe some cash, take her out, talk to her from time to time, tease her, flirt with her, tell her she is beautiful and all those bullsh1t, and dont ever talk about your friend's wrongdoing.... Now finally, tell her you have been crushing on her from the beginning....

She will likely give you a yes if your friend backs down, or she turns the two of you down, which is good.

PS: It is better for you to see her as a nyashable babe than for a relationship, for it reads in rule 87b of the guy's code "Thou shall not get too fucking attached to a single babe", not even when she lives in your compound.

Thanks a multiple folds bro...



And ermmmm,how do I get the link to that guy code bro...

20bc:
[color=teal]All what he wrote was crap, load of crap..... [/color]♣♣♣

guess what...i got what needed outta that "CRAPS"...




Thanks

nmreports:
This is not to ridicule you but to share my perspective.

For me, you guys are kids. That explains why your guy did that to you and it explains why you would bring a matter of dating a neighbor to the public. Common you just want to slash this girl... It's not love for what it's worth.

Because of this, the lady will probably say yes very soon to your friend. She already told him she would think about it.

So forgive your friend because he is immature and forgive yourself for not making the move straight up.

Count on your luck that she would turn him down and you probably try and make real friends with her.

Besides you don't need to ask her out to slash her.

I think I'm jobless this evening.

You ain't jobless bro and we ain't kids, I can bet that it's not all about slashing her as you insinuated,I just wanted someone very close cus long distance relationship nearly killed me...

And about luck, I believe we both have it 50/50 because I realised he didn't say a word to her through a friend that he told, he only has plan to...


#Thanks!

myguy01:
i had an encounter with people like your friend before. truth is your friend has decided to outsmart you and i dont see you having the girl to yourself since your friend already made a move.. the only thing you can do now is to talk to the girl yourself and get to know her, take her out, let her enjoy being with you and perhaps you might stand a chance

gonna do that right away...


Thanks for the words

nwaanambra1:
boy! the first thing you should do - is to first work on your English Language!

I should first work on my English?


Guy no gimme running stomach biko na...

feldido:
Guy U weren't Smart, that's all I can say.
Both of you will end up not dating her as soon as she finds out u like her too.

I understand,

feldido:
Guy U weren't Smart, that's all I can say.
Both of you will end up not dating her as soon as she finds out u like her too.

I know that could happen and that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid... thanks...

Hello Nairalanders...

My story is too long but I'll do my best to shorten it(For didn't read it all NL gang members)...

So my story goes thus, for almost a year or more than,Armed robbers had been harassing our vicinity most especially the compound we dwell in,it went on to the extent that most of the tenants including the caretaker parked out of the building, seeing that we're few left in the building, I went to the landlord and told him the present situation, he then handed over the house into my care that I should let in any tenant that I deems fit to be in the compound.

So with this new go ahead from the landlord's side, I went to a principal of a government secondary school in the community, for he once enquired from me if there's any vacant in the house but then the answer was no, So going to him, he reaffirmed that there're still a possible need for vacant rooms for NYSC members, cus I told him that we don't accept family folks with lotta children into the house (Other from the Owner).

After meeting the principal, few days later he came to me with a new different development, he said that there's a female teacher being transferred from another school to there's, that she's married,and the problem is that they are running out of time before she moves into the community, I refused but later oblige after too many voices from friends and folks were added in support of the principal, I gave him my word that they got no problem at all, that I will handle everything necessary from my end to the final stage and he left, the next day he came to inform when the teacher will be coming, during our little conversation, I was told were she's from, How many child she had and that she's not moving in with her husband cus he's working with a Firm that ain't gonna allow that, two of her children ain't coming also cus they're in a boarding school, but she's coming with her younger sister(My probable reward for my humble stewardship...Lol).
I didn't told any of my friend in the compound about the girl cus I know my goons, they ain't smiling at all, So when the day came and they were in, I was told So I went to usher them into there new home, I saw the girl and she was cool, dark, tall, slim and her backside was modestly huge, her boobs was like, hey come and suck me, it was fantastically placed at her chest with and apple-like-orange size,and a pointed nipples...

NB: This dude ain't naughty, this is my first time of describing a lady as thus cus she was majestically made!!!.


Truth be told, I avoided eye contact with cus I don't want to be caught unaware or unguarded... after showing them around I left, I later told my closest friend about our new neighbor and her maybe God sent diva cum sister, and my plans towards her, he said until he saw her then he will know what to comment.

Nairalanders, just a day after they parked in, while I was still observing her characters behaviors, cus I have my reservation with ladies talk more of this one that Just door apart, I have to read her nature of womanliness before I speak a word of any affection to her, that my friend knows that cus he knows how I roll...

Please, just yesternight he came to my shop, he called me aside and was like, bro, that girl,you like her? I replied yes with every strength in me, you wanna date her?I reaffirmed my stance with a resounding yes!!! And he said, "bros I'm sorry, I talked to her and she said she's going to think about it and give me a reply""please, I want you to back off"...

For three to five minutes I was dumbfounded, looked stale and confused, cus this was a girl that made me stumble and fell while coming out of the bathroom cus I was staring at her!!!

I didn't utter a word and I left, couldn't sleep,got up from bed and she's the first person I saw, we exchanged greetings,wanted to talk to her, but, what will I say to her? That I first loved her? And that my friend betrayed my trust by first talking to her? Or that she made me fall yesterday? Oh, what shall I tell her to make her understand? With all this thought still racing through my mind, she left...


So Nairalanders, please, what must I do now? I can't let go, not without giving a trial, I can't talk to my friend cus he backstabbed me to the heart... and How do I talk to her to make her get my point


I know some will see this moniker as new, yes it's new but I'm not new to Nairaland, I have been here for years but cus of some privacy issue and future endeavours, I had to use this username instead of my original account...



Thanks.