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ubunja:
clearly you misread my statement.

even a tomatoes seller will find it hard to believe that som1 like me wants to marry her

ubunja:
oh good. i can see the insults here:

that was the truth, its most of us that make girls become promiscuous, no woman will just say i want to be sleeping around, oga when women are wrong i will say it, i dont hold back, even body shaming them isnt below me, when they are wrong i say it, when they are right i accept

ubunja:
and how many women will accept your proposal selling tomatoes?

i cant date a tomatoes seller, i'm bigger than that level na, my ex fiancee was a staff at an oil servicing firm in ph, when i proposed she said yes, if i was a faithful, i would be married today

ubunja:
coming from a girl i understand. we all play to win. you're also supporting your own side.
but when a man plays for women's side its asslicking. just seeking points to get appreciated and maybe rewarded by sex.

me looking for sex on nairaland? nobody insults girls here as much as me, i'm the last person that cares abt what girls think here abeg talk another thing

ubunja:
how many interpratations of successful are there?

depends on the person, a tomatoes seller will see living in a room and parlor as a good life but a billionaire daughter cant even date such man

ubunja; feminist are bad for the world?

jude; how are they bad?


ubunja; they dont date or marry poor men

jude;
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Shugavee:
blame ur broke ask self. Mr man!! Every human being should be successful n hv money so we can be perfect matches for ourselves! Pick a girl within ur means!! N don’t be a stingy person n u get sex when u want!

he wants to marry obama daughter with no job or accomplishment

ubunja:
so in your little mind it makes sense to say l WOMEN WANT SUCCESSFUL MEN then also say FOR EVERY MAN THERE IS A WOMAN??

how women interpret successful is determined by her limits na, a groundnut seller will see a welder as successful na

oh or u mean jobless man that does nothing, there is no woman is for such a fool, no vex

ubunja:
if women are choosy then why do you say a poor man can have many wives? remember you're the same small minded man who wrote this:

you're just an asslicker to women.

a brick layer is a big man to some women, i also said that women have limits, that they know what their reach is, see how ure trying so hard to make a way for poor men, shocked u to hear that poor men have many wives, if u get game, even if ure poor u can still package women but even the women u can package get limit, a break layer can date a corn seller easily na

ubunja ure a shame to all men everywhere
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ubunja:
so women want successful men until....you decide they dont??

is this one high? all women want successful men, when did i say that i should decide that they shouldnt, even animals pick the best mates

ubunja:
you googled the phrase and got a good schooling hey? i understand why just to maintain your dignity you have to evade and mention latinas and black!
i also understand why you ended with a joke because you saw your own stupidy.

abeg there is nothing new abt it, women will always be choosy, i have been saying that since we started this argument, ure the one that wants dumb women, that dont have the power to choose who they want, u dey even read wetin u dey write? how does this that has nothing to do with feminism become an issue that feminism causes? all women are chosy na, u no get point, shame on u, ure a lazy man, loooking for free girls, 80% is just u, ure single and u want girls to date broke men so ur hopes can increase

ubunja:
i gave you a phrase to google. i will give it to you again.
"Why women vote left"
take that phrase to Google. read the websites it will lead to, then come and we continue after you have improved knowledge.

blacks vote left, latinos vote left, asians vote left, all major minorities in america vote left, oga abeg go and park well, whats ur business with a woman wanting better independence to decisions she makes with her life? are u her father? if she cant keep a baby and want to abort it, its her business and she will face God alone, mind ur business, ur life shld keep u busy


nd there are more conservative women than liberal women but their husbands like ubunja keep them locked up in the basement, its a crime for her to have an opinion

ubunja:
if you know hypergamy and that women do it why are you displaying your stupidity by pretending it doesnt exist?

when did i pretend that it doesnt exist? na wa ooo, i said that women want successful men, but even some know their limits, a bread seller cant be dreaming of marrying bill gates son, men self do it, u want a beautiful, sexy curvy woman, ure just talking like a lazy man, u want women to be ignorant and vulnerable so u can take advantage of them easily that is ur issue with feminism, everytime i corner u, u run to another story, from the roman empire lie to america lie, abeg if women are too evolved for u, stick to amaka the akara seller and the world has evolved, a woman is leading germany today and nobody has time for people like u

ubunja:
go read about hypergamy and we continue

i knw what it is and i know that women do it, so wetin be ur point and how does it connect to feminism? hypergamy is normal for all women, its not a feminist thing

ubunja:
go read up on Hypergamy then come back and we continue.

smh, what is ur point? women shld allow poor men marry them and expose their children to poverty? i no understand u oooo, if u want a beautiful bride, work hard and get her, how feminism take lead to hypergamy this guy, u dey fall my hand sha

ubunja:
women's empowerment is bad becoz women when given the right to vote women vote Left. go google WHY DO WOMEN VOTE LEFT?.men vote right. always.
in politics Left is Liberal/Progressive/Democratic movements and parties that stand for things such as abortion, social welfare, gay marriages, suppression of marriages, atheism, immigration, globalization, open borders, no guns (leaving everyone without defense) etc. just like the Democratic party in the US that Obama and Hilary were part of. women when voting always vote for these "Left" parties. but Left societies in the long run dont work. a country aborting millions of babies a year, with no religion, where marriages are discouraged, immigration promoted and homosexuality legalized wont last long.
In politics "Right" stands for Conservative/Republican movements and those parties stand for the old order: no abortion, promotion of religion, marriage between men and women, family, no social welfare (people must work. no free money), anti-globalisation and patriotism, gun rights etc. in the US that movement is the one the Republican Party stands for. the one Trump belongs to. thats why ever since he won women and gays have been angry since and thats why there is so much noise coming from the US and many things obama achieved are being rolled back (abortion rights, welfare, immigration etc)
now ever since women voted, "Leftist" parties have been in power in the west and there is so much havoc right now: abortion, gay marriage, under population (the dependent outnumber the productive. hence promotion of immigration for more labour) millions on welfare (in SA today MORE people are on welfare than those who work. its a time bomb. south africa is the most Leftist country in Africa), etc. all these things only exist under Leftist governments and because usually MORE women than men vote very soon all governments will be leftist and everything will collapse. thats how women's rights destroy society. is it clear now?

, ure underestimating my knowledge, since we are talking abt usa let me use that for this reply, in Us there are conservative women but its growth is like muslim and christanity, liberals are like Christians and conservatives are like muslims, u will see plenty muslims becoming christains but u wouldnt see christains becoming muslim often, dont talk as if all women are liberals, in fact there are more conservative women than liberals, but because the liberals are more educated and can speak they over power the conservative women in issues, there is nothing anywhere like suppression of marriage, abeg if u want to lie, try well, all women want to marry, its a beautiful happy thing but men are ungrateful, there are never satisfied and they bring in more bad into her life than good, wen women see those lazy, cheating useless men, they will reject their proposals, life is too short to waste on an ungrateful fool, u sha just dey talk am as u feel without fact so all the innocent people that die from gun violence to u its ok, we need more guns , on cnn a small girl from the taxas school, that the last attack happened, said that she expected it to happen, 2018 and a small girl in a school expecting violence that is the america, u want? guy abeg seat down and reevaluate ur mindset, all the developments that america has today from internet to face book to apple to microsoft were all brought abt by liberal movements, infact its the liberals that make america rich, almost all the rich men in america are liberals, bill gates, jezz bezos, warran buffet, e get why, liberals are intelligent and conservatives are religion junkies, this population thing, after i told u u still bring it up again, bill gates said that the more medicine and educational awareness advances, the less chilren people will have, no need to have 5 because ure afraid that disease will kill some oga even without gays, there are barren women and impotent men, gays are not that many to disturb the worlds population, if u want help, marry and born plenty, women righs advance societies, better change this ur african savana midset

ubunja:
if men have 3 GFs like you say why is porn addiction increasing and why is there an epidemic of masturbation? if most guys have 3GFs why do things like Sex Dolls trend if everyone is having sex?? go read up on the growing Incel Movement in the West.
pls use your head and stop saying senseless statements like" Poor people were marrying many wives"!. how would a poor man afford 3,4 wives? think. can a poor guy today even afford to have 3,4 GFs? c'mon now be an adult for once and use that brain.
there is no girl for every man. by numbers yes. but not in reality. coz girls are choosy. if you cant understand that you're just making noise and dont know what you talking about. even STI stats will show you girls have more STIs than guys--becoz girls are having sex with the SAME guys over and over. did you even know that or you just blindly utter THERE IS A GIRL FOR EVERY MAN.there is none. get knowledge.

Even if you share 2 girls for all men in The World each, men will still watch porn and buy sex dolls, its our nature, even the person that has 5gf is still looking for more girlfriends, to us men sex is an eat as much as you can activity, this one ure bringing insults into it, Na wa oooo, u were expecting me to be dumb nw ure being countered and ure trying to change the direction of the argument so that u wouldnt fall flat on ur face, for once i wouldnt bend to that level, i will raise above it there are poor men with many wives, arent u a nigerian again, abi is being poor madness? even mad men dey get babe, i have seen an aboki farmer man wife more than 3 wives, abi na shoe maker? even brick layers, Even bus drivers in lagos have more than 1 wife, if u know how to play women and package urself, no matter how poor you are there are girls u can manipulate, there is a girl for every man, if the poorest ugliest man needs a girlfriend, if he checks his level or below his level he will get someone, no matter how ur mata bad reach there is some1 for u, som1 below ur level that will grab u with open arms but u no want that one u want a cleaner girl that is above u, even men run after certain girls and ignore others, so not only girls are chosy, guys too are also chosy , like it or not beta things are expensive, u cant be a poor man and expect a beautiful woman to marry u, that dream only happens in movies

Nofav0rs:
lol. She's a girl. I just like teasing her with the 'male' banter.

Oya make Una continue
@killabeauty

continue wetin? i dey watch nat geo wild for tv, i no dey follow the antelope discuss na

Nofav0rs:
I narrowly missed that part lol. She's obviously not complete

checked ur dp, no wonder them wan use pm drown you

Nofav0rs:
you think she's sane?

read the last part of my comment again

Nofav0rs:
you and that guy. Wetin una get for middle?

na guy be that? maybe him see my picture for him babe phone, tot it was a girl ooooo, she has been obsessing with my mata, i ignored her cause the person sounded like a mad person, so na guy be that, i hail oooo

she get thick skin sha, no matter what is said, she will continue her way, smh


madman no get shame, na only him family dey suffer the shame

Nofav0rs:
Well, I can recommend killabe auty of nairaland

smh

ubunja:
plygamy was not for everyone but the rich and powerful. the average man got 1 woman. and that 1 woman gave him children and he passed on his name.
women must choose because they have a clock? but look in the West women choose but birthrates are falling and abortion is everywhere. this year the US population growth was at its lowest in decades. marriages alone make babies. single mothers cant repopulate countries. the West is now under-populated. thats why muslim migrants are supported because feminism fvcked up. the West is importing people because they havent enough productive people.
there are billions of people in the world but most are old people and young children who are dependent. the productive generation 20-35 is too small because the previous generation of women did not make enough babies coz of abortions and falling marriage rates.
women must choose but if 80% of men are denied sex civilization cant exist. do you seriously think normal life can go on while only 1/5 of men enjoy sex while the rest starve?? never. it will be chaos.

if i hear? rich and powerful fire, poor people were marrying many wives, why do u like pretending like this na? ubunja u fall my hand with that west story the more succeful medicine and families become the less number of chilren they have, u know this na, the west were having many children because diseases were killing most, so more children was equal to the survival of ur family, that wasnt feminism na, the way ure changing things sha which 80% men, if ure broke go and marry ur level, stop looking for dangote daughter, there is a girl for every1, na long throat dey worry men, 80% men and most have 3 girlfriends abeg talk another thing

ubunja:
100% onpoint.
a deeper look into the civilian life will show it was feminist like the West is today. what made it fail to expand or self-sustain was the social changes that weighed down the system. and the bulk of that was the female-centric movement that gained root. hard times create hard men who make good times and good times create soft men who make hard times and the process repeats. thats how history keeps repeating itself.

so far u havent explained how women empowerment is bad for humanity, i can go into things that women empowerment have done to make the world beta today but you will use men as counter weigh to make the whole argument unfair, lets not forget that women empowerment really came into a full circle in the last decade, its too early to say if its bad or good but its better for women to be empowered, ur wife working will increase the income ur family makes, ur daughter wouldnt be bullied by a man because she had no other source of livelihood than him, any man that is bothered abt women empowerment is a weak man, beyonces success is a motivator to jayz not problem

ubunja:
the Roman Empire didnt fall because the Emperor converted to Christinanity. the Roman Empire got tired of killing millions of christians yet more people were becoming Christian. so the Emperor took pagan symbols and gave them christian meanings (Sunday worship, Easter, Christmas etc)and invited christians, who fell for it [its called the Great Apostasy in the history books] and the Roman Catholic Church became the church of the state.
the fall of the Empire was unrelated to christianity.

u said the feminism is what led to the fall of the roman empire, some history shows that its Christianity but nobody knows what really led to its fall 100%

see what i know, roman empire was too big and it was hard for them to govern it

ubunja:
you will note that i havent mentioned children and mothers.
Women's Rights has a long history and every empire after becoming great they do impliment them and after that things just crumble. How and Why?: because women give men a reason to contribute to society. patriarchy is all over the world because it promises 1 woman to 1 man. and society thrives. even the most hidden unknown kingdom is going to be patriarchal. from africa to china to latin america. its not a coincidence. patriarchy delivers. because it promises each man a wife. promised a wife any man will build, work, fight and die for his country. but Feminism is a free market for women. women choose. and when women choose they follow biology. they want the best genes. and those are only among 20% of men. that leaves the 80% of men stranded. and they stop contributing to society because there is no incentive. a single man wont be a soldier to go die for his country. what for?? hence search high and low and you wont find a feminist kingdom that has survived for long. its unsustainable. only short lived.

sorry that i'm replying late, patriarchy doesnt promise 1 woman to 1 man, it promises 1 man to an unlimited amount of women, lets look at countries that have full patriarchal societies, men are married to many wives, make we call names?

women shld have the a right to choose na, no be today or feminism start am, education made women to realize that the choice of who u marry is in their hands, i no understand u oooo, so u preferred things the way it was done in the past, where women were told who to marry and married off into loveless marriages? women choosy because she doesnt have time to waste, she has a clock, so she chooses the best mate and mates with him, even animals in the forest do this na

this thing that igbos do isnt fair

if a nigerian wants to marry their daughter they will use bill and finish him but when its a white man they will not collect anything and be shouting we are not selling our daughter

she is not yet pregnant and she is already looking like cow when vulcanizer pump, stretchmarks everywhere

is he blind?

he looks like a wall gecko, yes oooo na bad belle dey worry me and i'm proud of it
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