Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

zeuss:
Somebody is out to get him.

Godada:


So Very dark man was actually right when he made these assertions .....

Just who is this lady Jasmine Okekeagwu to Mr IBU?

MrSly:

If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?

dkidd:

Of course yes. When they're both sharing the same woman and she's probably belittling him before the boy toy. Na so women dey take set their husbands up for fatality

Emma1Oj:
I'm not marry yet.

But from dating experience; The female gender are the problem.

Their wahala is too much that I'm even scared of commitment.

Tomorrow28:
My dear. I understand your fear. However l am selfishly concerned about the little boy only at this stage.

Its easier to get citizenship as a 10 year old because you are a minor living off daddy. But tougher as a 16-18 year old, because you are considered an adult depending on the country.

There is a suggestion below mine to involve lawyer and sign that you re not giving away total custody. Thus can claim kidnap should anything go wrong.

50-50 or win-win. Her son gets citizenship while has has secured her insecurities as per any eventualities

Nobody in present day Nigeria need a mind of their own to know whether they should japa or not. Its the only sensible thing to do. Nija is gone


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The ex-husband should allow the child finish secondary with his mother, then atleast he would be 16years old and would have a mind of his own and decide if he wants to relocate or not. For bow, the ex-husband should keep visiting the son here in Nigeria till then.

Tomorrow28:
@ BackfyreRebell

Madam l don't see what the problem is here.

The key words are consent and reunite.

A 10 year old is a minor and need your consent to travel just as he would have needed the dad's consent had you been the one oversee.

If you give your consent, then the only English word for what will happen as a result is REUNITING with his dad.

Madam, if you want your son to love, respect and cherish you forever, give him life in Europe.

But deny him that and he will despise, hate and forever remind you that you are the source of his woes and whatever ugly situation he might find himself tomorrow. Be warned, l am speaking from experience. I am 42 and still hold grudges for my dad.

Someone already reminded you how much dollar is. Do not let petty thoughts deprive your son of the best life possible.

That little boys success is your success. You will be sowing a seed you will reap from in 15-20 years to come. Sons are always sentimentally attached to their moms. My son is, while my daughter is attached to me the dad. No amount of brain washing will erase that. He will alway seek you.

Please be guided

BlackfyreRebell:
Please advice me
My ex husband and I are divorced 2 years ago. He recently acquired an European citizenship, he also wants to extend the citizenship to our son. Though I thought it a good idea but I can't shake the feeling that he is trying to use that to take him away from me.
He told me our son will need to come over there to finish the process of his citizenship. But when I went to submit the "application" what I saw on it is different from what he told me. The paper read that I am consenting to my son to go and reunite with his father. Or is that the way they process it?
Please those that have gone through same should please come to my aid, this is my only child and I can't afford to lose my child this way.

Namaster:


You sound like a closeted demon.

A father is trying to guarantee a BETTER future for his kid and the only thing that crosses your mind is that he'd manipulate the kid against you?

Is that what you've been doing since the divorce?

You disgust me.

ALSO, the kid is still a MINOR. If you don't sign a consent form that states the kid is going to the European country to reunite with his father, what other explanation would you give for a 10-year old traveling across the ocean?

Realize this:

If you stop that kid from getting the citizenship of a country that works because of your own fear and insecurity, the kid will HATE you with an hatred that burns like a thousand suns when he becomes an adult.

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Bongadu:



It's my child , I've the right to be her father

I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

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