₦airaland Forum

VenExchangee:
I was into one girl, she came to visit, time to go, I called bike man, the bike man said he wants to cook If he should come now or later after cooking, I asked the girl she didn't say anything then I told the bike man to come, when he came, she told me to tell him to go back, which I did but after 4 mins he said I should tell him to come, I pleaded with the bike man, after he dropped her, that was the last day I spoke to her, picked her call or reply her chat, na this morning I block her for Whatsapp

vick00:
Actually, I'm not rich but at least I'm sustaining myself I will be able to start a family if want to but anytime, I get the big bag, my mind shifts totally away from woman, all I do is go and try different foods like going to Chinese restaurants and and going to lodge in a good apartments and I always do this alone without having any desire to take any lady with me. It is not that I have feeling towards woman, don't get me wrong. But anytime I get big bag I don't think about women until I'm don't have much left.

Tooh... u will get over it anyway, its just a matter of time

pappilo:
Disrespect/No regard

Whilst I can handle/take disrespect from the person I am seeing, one must properly deal with any disrespect from their family member immediately otherwise you go still meet am for front.

I am 12 years older than my ex. She is 2 years older than her sister. Whenever we are together with her sister na so she go dey send me message, dey take hand call me.

Let me give an example. We were all together on holiday and I was in a hotel lobby chatting with the said sisters husband. Na so the girl dey take hand beckon me, I pointed to her husband and shook her head and she motioned for both of us. Na so we waka go meet she and my ex. The girl then said to me and her husband "go and bring down our suitcases from the room". This wasnt her first time but this was the worst one. Me wey I get bad mouth but I have always held my tongue. I later complained to my ex yet again.

It happened again just over a month ago at a party and because I didnt want to cause no drama I waited till we go home and told my ex that she should tell her sister that the next time she talks to me like that I will slap her.

Omo see voltron. My ex defended her sister. She was not even having it dey shout ontop my head say if him sister dey disrespect their papa, who I be wey dem no fit disrespect. Na so I know say that relationship don finish. I will take some disrespect from the person I am seeing because that come a with the territory but you see from family members especially when you cosign it. That will never fly

Demigod22:
Boundaries. Dating someone that doesn't know where to draw the line. Every guy celebrating birthday must be on her status with poem. She can call any guy my love because they are just words. Cooking for other guys, not knowing when to cut another guy off because she doesn't understand boundaries.

Entitlement. He must pay for my house rent, buy me a new phone, give me allowance, do this for me or do that for me.

Single mother, this is subjective. However, no matter how good a woman is, as long as she's a single Mom, I am not doing.

Oisagbai78:
Converted to Christian, met her in the church. Thought she had really changed. Her real character showed when we eventually Married. Note, I am not a religious Bigot.
Secondly, She was a homely girl that her parents abandoned for years due to the nature of their Jobs. Father was a Federal Government worker that wasn't in Lagos for years, her Mum was always with her husband anywhere her was transferred. I thought I would change this, but it really showed in her behavior. This loneliness affected our communication. Thank God the rest is history now. We are divorced and I have since remarried and enjoying my wife now!

vick00:
I don't know why I have never been in more than 2 relationship all my life. I only care about how I will eat and live a better life. Do you think it is normal?? I'm 27

Dmthreads:
Mine was poor communication. Anytime there was an issue, they would either go completely silent or avoid the conversation until I was the one apologizing just to restore peace. I dismissed it as "they just need space." Later, I realized you can't build a healthy relationship with someone who refuses to communicate. Problems don't disappear because they're ignored—they only grow bigger. That was a red flag I wish I had taken seriously from the beginning.

writetopoker:
Ever getting close to a lady who have more of male companions and love sitting out with different men and claims they are just friends

rickpat:
Hmmmm...its looking like the released school children were released after ransom payment, so these kidnappers have struck again cus e be like oyo state na profitable area for them to hustle....

GOD WILL EXPOSE AND DESTROY EVERYONE INVOLVED IN THIS...CAUSING PAIN TO FAMILIES......EVERY POLITICIAN INVOLVED, USING THIS AS BUSINESS AND FOR POLITICS WILL NEVER KNOW PEACE...STONES OF FIRE WILL BURN FOREVER IN THEIR HEART...

Nigerian politicians are very wicked

saintopus:
It's a very good one, most Nigerians football stars lack education.
Them no go school.
Apart from those born abroad, the homegrown ones lack education

DEROXMAN:
Attention seeker e no go reply you

notaveragejoe:
Nigeria police are now errand boys to rich men and women shame on them

mightyleks:
Stop that thing you're smoking and applaud good initiatives

Tjra:
Galway?

Not even Cosmopolitan Dublin.

She must be well loved.

ukfootwear:
I don’t believe there’s any inheritance in habit , do you know why ? Because there are some attitudes or let’s say character you thought you inherited until someone tamper with your space , you thought you inherited calmness until you’re frustrated and you broke a bottle to fight back and your father never did that. Character is inbuilt , that’s what you are even if you pretend someday it will reveal itself

Mccold:
Funniest thing is that I'm currently working in iro. The so called king knows me personally. The news shock me

Sirmwill:
Sounds true.


But
Where is the proof?

koondog:
Don't bring your ebin pa wa sachet food nonsense to the east, we are not hungry people. Ibibio people, pay attention to the names and region of the police officers doing the commendation and distribution.