Have been reading posts on NL for a while but this particular one caught my attention so I had to join to share my experience . Really single ladies need to be careful and wise. I met a guy at my friend's wedding 2yrs back, I never knew this guy was married that day, so we became friends, we talk on a daily basis and we were getting close. To cut the long story short, this guy later told me he's married but he likes me so much that I should please marry him because his wife didn't conceive for 12months after marriage but later conceived, the wife was pregnant when I met him, he told me all this when she put to bed but to my surprise, this guy was on me begging me to marry him because he wasn't sure the baby is his child,that I should just please get pregnant for him because he would do the DNA of the child, and divorce . I laughed in Chinese.....imagine a man calling his child a bastard just to get down? I started hating on him since that day.