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Richy4:
You have your own life to live... your siblings have also chosen their own part.. all you need is to define your own and stick to it... I have no respect for anyone that forsakes his or her family.. good or bad..

You might be surprised that those family that you intend to abandon today might be the one to die for you when you least expected it..

All I'm trying to say is that you should be the architects of your own life.. don't let any one define it for you.. And my dear brother, marriage is not and achievement.... It's just when two people decides to be together..If your sisters decides not to be with anyone , don't feel bad about it.

you are the best
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Mollyallex:
First, I commend you;

For knowing what is right and sticking to it for this long, notwithstanding the environment in which you grew up; it couldn't have been easy.

The issue at hand;

if you can hustle enough to stay on your own, I suggest you move out and cater for yourself. This doesn't necessarily make you love them less(your family).

It's not healthy staying around toxic people and those who trample on your self esteem ( making you feel unwanted).

Then like someone rightly said; FOCUS, that some of your sibs are averse to relationships with the opposite gender, shouldn't make you run away from it or rush into it. Start off a relationship not because you feel you are old enough to but because you are ready to.

Never lose focus, neither on your studies nor on your principles.

Peace.

izzou:
Love, patience, being real, understanding, character, tolerance, and the rest


Except sex

am not sure you are human

Good day guys
i trust most of you guys must have been enjoying your day so far? if not well remember some days goes well while some goes other way round,well if the latter is your case "sorry" try not to hurt your feelings so smile,read,learn and share while you the day is going either way for you, take a moment and reflect on this post. you can answer more than one question if you feel like just share your view, who knows maybe you are going save someone out there by dropping a comment. lets go!
These days i often come across people who say to my face that no sex before marriage talks are rubbish due to the skeleton hidden behind this idea by most people, at the same time have listen to most girls saying once a guy have what he want his done with you and the relationship, whereas i know a few who are following this idea of no sex in relationship while having sex with server others all in the name of not having sex with their partner before marriage(lol funny) at the same time we have those following this idea "NO SEX IN RELATIONSHIP" it works perfectly for them ignoring the whole pains.
The question is;
1) HOW IMPORTANT IS SEX IN RELATIONSHIP?
2) HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER IN RELATIONSHIP
3) WHICH IS BETTER TO HAVE SEX IN RELATIONSHIP OR STAY AWAY FROM IT
4) CAN YOU STAY IN NO SEX RELATIONSHIP?
5) DOES THAT SAY NO SEX IN RELATIONSHIP WORKS ?

seriously, no self-deception, no lies, just share your view.

lets learn,share and grow

Graxie:
Move out, go and huzzle for yourself. Break free from their bondage. It will be hard at first but you will be in-charge later. Pray more, Jesus is still alive and He answers prayers.

Thanks brother.

Good day nairalanders.
Am from a family of six, four female and two male. The first two sisters I have are around 35years and the other will be 40years this year yet they're both single and they do not believe in marriage. The truth is we at from a family whereby my Dad constantly beat our mom, via visa, however some of us (a fraction of two, myself and my immediate elder sister) decide such experience will not define our love life, she lost her finance(yet to propose but clearly written their marriage will come true) last year thou.
Why am I saying this? Our first born wasted her life drinking and smoking and hanging around with cultist not until recent years when was thirty something she change and since last year she just started life from scratch however she still go to herbalists and she don't go to church, she's not even discussin marriage. The born in which is the major topic spent her life in two ways; one hustling and two mingling with married men even when she was young, now she's still single and she has strong distaste for men, she hate to see me around her being her brother. My brother, the fourth born is big follower of our first born, he's totally into weed,women, to top it all he's a big time yahoo boy. However the second born is the bread winner of my family, she's quite rich.

I will be 25years this year, ever since am growing none of my siblings wanted to see women with me even up till now... the truth is, for this reason have been sexually reserved not until recently I find a lady I'm considering take a journey with, when they got to know I'm into a serious relationship they were totally aganist it and they look into my eye and said it will break for one reason or the other either I want it or not. the girls parent and family total like me and I still cant see a reason why I should end d relationship even after they went to spiritualist on top my matter lolz ,in fattdhe Sat me down and told me she's totally disappointed me, that I ought just sleep around instead of falling in love, she went ahead sayin she regard me a complete failure, that after school I won't help my family rather I will go for marriage. I keep mute bcus any attempt to convince her she will go ahead and rant how she gave everything up for the family but deep down we both know she's only enjoying herself not as if she care about anyone.

That apart, we stay in the second born place, i sometimes with my brother. I don't smoke nor drink due to health issue but with him want to force me to do what he does. When am in my sisters place am treated like am not needed nor wanted around. I feel I irritate them bcus the relationship btw they establishedwith me right from time is just a money exchange policy. Am a student in university,they support me educationally but total aganist anything that will make me financially independent. The pressure is too much on me, I love my family inspite how am treated and I don't want to stay away from them even when that's the only option I have. I need advice.

Good day nairalanders.
Had ndmdn x. Fjej

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Good day nairalanders

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Paulpaulpaul:
Life is full of challenges, it becomes meaningful when you endure enough to make it count

wise words

Paulpaulpaul:
Life is full of challenges, it becomes meaningful when you endure enough to make it count

true

Good day nairalanders
I hope we all had a pleasent night rest? Well, I have issue bothering me and I want to share it with everyone for advise.
I am only university student, year two. to avoid wasting time lemme just hit the nail on the head. I'm in a relationship with the hope of taking it serious, she is a good girl. I have met her sister and spoke to some of her sibling and my siblings like her even if they have not meet this girl ,however, on my birthday we had a cloth together and share pictures online and dis went controversial. people began to express their mind that we still young and we don't know who we are going to end up with.... Am confused, must everyone cheat and snatch people's heart up and down? these set of sisters are not married yet even the oldest of them whom is close to 30, the youngest of them is close to 25. My relationship is one year old nd our friendship is 2 and half years old.

My intention in dis relationship is not live like everybody esle rather for both of us to stay committed to our ambitions and become successful.

why whatsapp number?

rebirthforgoody:
Sit here down and ask what her problem is all about if she is not ready to behave then dump her sorry ass.

i will do that this time next week. i have big plan and i don't want to waste not even one seconds. from my view, i think she just want to have fun, she is from a rich one thou.

ikbnice:
girls of nowadays don't think much about the repercussions for their actions. They only think about present benefits.

even being in school, i handle my sister project in Lagos and run her company on her behalf.... money should be last reason why anyone should break up from my view, at the end of the day, the struggle is the beauty of it all when one have so much and nothing to bother anyone bcus of money.

If i make up my mind to let her is not wrong is it?

ikbnice:
Mark my word, she would break your heart in few months. She has been getting envious of her friends living large. She can't cope with you again. She is just looking for an opportunity to dump your sorry a$$

if she do.
at d end she will regret it.

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HausaOverlord:
Sorry to say but ur bro is an idiot, God go show u the way to make legit money.

Don't be sorry brother