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How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by iamsamdeyking(m): 3:52pm On Apr 19, 2018
Good day nairalanders.
Am from a family of six, four female and two male. The first two sisters I have are around 35years and the other will be 40years this year yet they're both single and they do not believe in marriage. The truth is we at from a family whereby my Dad constantly beat our mom, via visa, however some of us (a fraction of two, myself and my immediate elder sister) decide such experience will not define our love life, she lost her finance(yet to propose but clearly written their marriage will come true) last year thou.
Why am I saying this? Our first born wasted her life drinking and smoking and hanging around with cultist not until recent years when was thirty something she change and since last year she just started life from scratch however she still go to herbalists and she don't go to church, she's not even discussin marriage. The born in which is the major topic spent her life in two ways; one hustling and two mingling with married men even when she was young, now she's still single and she has strong distaste for men, she hate to see me around her being her brother. My brother, the fourth born is big follower of our first born, he's totally into weed,women, to top it all he's a big time yahoo boy. However the second born is the bread winner of my family, she's quite rich.

I will be 25years this year, ever since am growing none of my siblings wanted to see women with me even up till now... the truth is, for this reason have been sexually reserved not until recently I find a lady I'm considering take a journey with, when they got to know I'm into a serious relationship they were totally aganist it and they look into my eye and said it will break for one reason or the other either I want it or not. the girls parent and family total like me and I still cant see a reason why I should end d relationship even after they went to spiritualist on top my matter lolz ,in fattdhe Sat me down and told me she's totally disappointed me, that I ought just sleep around instead of falling in love, she went ahead sayin she regard me a complete failure, that after school I won't help my family rather I will go for marriage. I keep mute bcus any attempt to convince her she will go ahead and rant how she gave everything up for the family but deep down we both know she's only enjoying herself not as if she care about anyone.

That apart, we stay in the second born place, i sometimes with my brother. I don't smoke nor drink due to health issue but with him want to force me to do what he does. When am in my sisters place am treated like am not needed nor wanted around. I feel I irritate them bcus the relationship btw they establishedwith me right from time is just a money exchange policy. Am a student in university,they support me educationally but total aganist anything that will make me financially independent. The pressure is too much on me, I love my family inspite how am treated and I don't want to stay away from them even when that's the only option I have. I need advice.
Re: How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:16pm On Apr 19, 2018
some family, sometimes, you need to DIVORCE from them and live your own life. i am sorry to say but they are all useless, and apart from the little they give you, they are a waste of time.

if you can, live your life and be happy with whatever you decide to do....whether it be being with this babe OR start smoking and drinking, while fukcing ashis.

to each their own!

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Re: How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by eezeribe(m): 4:25pm On Apr 19, 2018
How will one family have all these problems including use of English
Problems meant to be distributed among a whole village were deposited on just one family
Your village people must have sworn on your family.

MY ADVICE TO YOU:
TRY AND DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE FAMILY SHACKLES,STAY GLUED TO GOD AND PURSUE YOUR OWN INTERESTS.

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Re: How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by IamD18: 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2018
cheesy
Re: How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by Ge0grapher(m): 7:06am On Apr 20, 2018
eezeribe:


MY ADVICE TO YOU:
TRY AND DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE FAMILY SHACKLES,STAY GLUED TO GOD AND PURSUE YOUR OWN INTERESTS.

You know, you could have just posted this alone, the first part of your post wasn't necessary!
Re: How Would U Advice Me To Handle My Family by Gofwane(m): 10:08am On Apr 20, 2018
Ge0grapher:


You know, you could have just posted this alone, the first part of your post wasn't necessary!
the guy's Skull is filled to the brim with shii

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