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Down2earth101:
Pjtech
Abba190
Realitykings
Livewire5
pinkNature
SamueItem337
ICTspecialist

Mindlog:
Yes.

Mindlog:
Yes.

KnowledgePower7:
2. Red flags
The girl that he gave me her number I saw her profile picture and noticed that she has red braids hairstyle.
From my previous experiences I noticed that girls that dye their hair Red are very dangerous jezebels.

Any girl you see with this red color hairstyle
My brother run away from her!!!!

These type of girls can kill you and won't flynch
Very evil set of women
The red color on their hair reflect RED FLAGS

The guy recommend the babe to me and hyped her as usual.
I started chatting with the babe and I keep noticing red flags and lies she will tell
She no even Sabi lie, I've caught her many times but my mumu lover boy heading gree see the red flags.
Until she started sending picture of one girl to my message. She say na one of her friend so she come ask me if I want her number I said .No

This girl force me to collect her number saying it's not a big deal. So to let peace reign I tell her to send the number she send am.
That tomorrow when I'm free Ill try call the girl

Next few minutes, she wrote
"It is quite unfortunate that you have started falling in love with the girl.
I'm very sure you have started messaging her by now.
Men are very easy and that is very unfortunate "

Brooooooooo
I just kneel down and thank God from saving me from a jezebel with evil and malicious behavior.

She already started laying false accusation on me saying that the girls are not her friend.
Like what the actual Bleep??
I have blocked her immediately

Guys any girl that have red color hairstyle
It's means a girl with "RED FLAGS"
RUN AWAY FROM SUCH EVIL PEOPLE

bookson:
How can somebody's name be both sin and war?

EmperorCaesar:



Doesnt look like him

Mindlog:
"Must refrain from eating fish or any sea creatures"....Nwanyi mmiri don give conditions.

Mariangeles:
A stupid man for regarding his wife, right?

Even Abraham got Sarah's permission before he slept with Hagar, and still sent Hagar away when Sarah wanted him to.

Figger:
What about divorced single mothers, I guess their own case is worst. I'm dealing with one currently but I don't see the possibility of ending with each other.

GOFRONT:
Watch as Someone would come here to say "Football match nor dey start with 1:0 down"


Single mothers don suffer in this life

Between a single mother and a HIV carrier, I dont know who suffer stigmatization Pass sef.

Baronthecelebri:
Don't marry her, since she has a son, because that son will go back to his land. Nigeria men loves their father property, but if it's a girl child you can accept her, and monitor her till she reach 19 or 20, then you can Bleep her, to fulfill the scripture that says the husband man that labor must be the first partaker.

CandyOps:
No rules bro...

Na the future go determine if our choices today make sense or not. A good woman is a good woman irrespective of her mistakes.

I have dated 1 single mom and was Fwb with another... 1 was a bitch the other was cool headed lover at heart.. but just got preggy at 19.

It depends on what you want. Most times guys that do that either settle for training the stepson or send him to village to grow with granny. But it depends on what you want.

I didn't settle with mine though... so I cut the relationship off at 3 to 4 months because the likeness was getting too much.

She was mature. Na societal pressure they make most guys run from single moms dem no be say the babe no tick all your boxes.. ngl it's a huge baggage

Mutant001:
pansophist is not that brilliant..
He mixes quater truth with the flawed perspective of it all one dimensionally and not considering the other party drawing conclusion from false analogy and then boom making it a true fact...and when in reality all what he says are quarter truth baked up with flawed assumptions.
You claim to open a thread about advice but here you are throwing tantrums..is this what you do for a living looking for a companion,, seeking for advice in a faceless forum while drooling and obsessing over gay threads and other diversity etc is that what you call fulfilment ..you must be a joker...if you truly want to be Happy and fulfilled in this life..try to be tolerant about people's sexual orientation, culture, ethnicity, religion,,, infact all diversity that is different from yours and work on how to better your life and that of your loved ones... If not just receive whatever calamity nature throws at you wholeheartedly!!

taiwolomo1:
Ur generations will suffer God's wrath for this useless utterances from you. U are really disgusting!

AfeezShomorin:
Na wah o.
Nothing wey Musa no go see for gate, see self confessed homosexual called someone an anomaly.

If it were to be in medieval times someone like you would be tied to the stake and burned alive just like they do to witches

Nicepoker:
Single mothers are liars. All of them.

Gromilla010:
I love that

Why are homophobes so scared of homosexuals?

goran3310:
https://www.nairaland.com/8241482/whats-advice
A much better option than marrying a single mother.

pansophist:
I think they are contribute to society in such a way that they leave more women for us, and also takes other dude along with them.

Rizzputin:
Most single mothers are sweet, caring and supportive when they like you.

In fact, they can be so caring and well mannered you'd want to marry then asap.

But... it's a trap. They're merely pretending. Once they get what they want from you (marriage), her bad side will start showing.

Take note, I didn't say "true colour" Because someone's true color isn't just their bad side. It's a combination of good and bad. So, once she gets married to you, the bad side of her true color will show. And some times, it may not be a bad side you might want to deal with or handle.


The second reason why you should never marry a single mother is because she has a hidden resent for men. Her story is typical amongst single mothers. Their exes are always "deceiving" them.

But regardless of how sad their ex story is, she CHOSE to date him. CHOSE to sleep with him unprotected. So even though her ex will get a majority of the blame. She gets the blame too. No matter how bad she paints her ex, it's the same man she opened her legs for and had a baby with.... and it's the same man that's now the father of her child...

Which brings me to the third and biggest reason....

No matter what you do or sacrifice, no matter your love for each other.... that child will always be above you in her heart & mind. The child's needs and wants will be placed above yours.

Which means a strong connection and attraction will always be to her ex. Her ex can use the child to get to her heart and between her legs again and again.

Worst of all, the ex can make life a hell for you if he wants the child to come and stay with him. If the woman doesn't agree, you'll find yourself entering into a war you shouldn't be in.


On that note, the best thing is to repay her in whatever capacity she has supported you and bid her fare well.

The only time I MIGHT consider a guy marrying a single mother is if the father of the child is dead.

If not, it's a bad idea

Sonnobax15:

In as much as I'm not against anyone marrying a single mother...

But then again,as a young man,I wouldn't advise you to start your life by marrying a single mother, especially when her baby daddy is still very much alive . Cuz they'll always use their baby as a point of meeting,and meeting can lead to knacking .

Abeg,no start wetin you no go fit finish.

mariovito:
1. Son should either go back to the father or else where. He's an extension of the man, except for brief visits, he should not be under your roof.

2. Put her belle.

dreamxhaser:
Dey play! Make I show you my own evidence

All my guys na gee boys and still yet I Dey follow dem ball.

U think there is no money in tech huh? Let me show you my fiverr dashboard. Mind you I have not been able to work because of school exams this month.

As you can see. I’ve already cashed $160 and another $160 is pending to be cleared in a few days. Oya do the maths $320 X 1672 (current Geegpay rates as I type).

Now that’s 530k as an undergraduate on my fiverr alone, make I show you Upwork?

Active orders is $370. That one na money I go use hold body early next month and mind you this is something I will that will increase because more project wil come before this month end

Better stop being a negative human being and do the fvkn right thing bro.

Gromilla010:
mumu...you no go marry that woman .you better stay single till you die..my best advice for you...you are born to live a lonely,wretched,poverty-stricken and sorrowful life till you give up the ghost..just don't bother going close to her..or else you will become impotent...if you think of having sex na there Dem go strike you with stroke...if you want to climb her..na there you go die of cardiac arrest

dkidd:
Lol leave those two online gangsterz. The other one dey show say him be Aye and him nor even know the next man but he's dropping location on a faceless forum. I wonder who dey bam them these days. No brains inside skull

Gromilla010:
you think say all lesbian get flat breast...even some straight women get flat breast too..come my LGbtq community...you go see women wey fine pass straight girls wey be strict lesbian I meant strict they don't do men..dey deceive yourself

jospepper:
Sense is very far from this one. How can you miss the architect of your present predicament?

Osinbajo was the best option but they threw up T-Pain so it ll look like Buhari was better.

Nigerian politicians always love to hand over to people they believe will perform 2x as bad as they did.

CoronaVirusPro:
STFU Hog!

Who da fvck asked you to compose an epistle !

zinaunreal:
Fake israel
No peace for the wicked 🇵🇸
Palestinians are the real decendants of Jesus christ
Go back to your country poland . Bloody European caucasoid

BondRiv:
This bloodthirsty entity again.