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Politics / Re: A Soldier Challenges IPOB To A Fight In The East (Video) by IdanNla(m): 7:22am On Mar 23
mrvitalis:
ESN have repeated said they are in the forest

And trust me Forest in South East are not that many

Enter the forest tell me where you are so there won't be civilian casualties (that's what ESN fears the most )

Stop making noise in the villages where u know no body can attack you

So you and your nonsense coward ESN can form an Ambush and be claiming one mumu bravery bah
Make dem come to open field and face NA
Crime / Re: 4 17-Year-Old Boys Gang Rape 16-Year-Old Girl, Record & Upload It Online by IdanNla(m): 6:37pm On Jul 07, 2023
Mr Opp I beg how you take gather this news cause all you said was nothing but a lie shioor the only trust there nah Rape!

When reporting news according to wattin go sweet you shey una no dey think say person wey know about all that happen dey Nairaland nih?

Mr Opp shey dem dey defile who no be Virgin? Cause nah the girl boiifriend first go OoooO nah hin the other boiis saw dem say if she no let them do dem go report to the girl family nah so the girl allow all of them go. The so call boiifriend no dey among the boiis wey you list here cause dem don komot him from station cause nah boiifriend him be ... Nah naiveness Kill those boiis because una don do wattin una wan do Nobody hear anything nah una still go upload ham for tiktok nah from there the matter cast ..
Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 10:18pm On Apr 04, 2022
akaahs:

Guess u don't know the implications of rape its true because if u do u won't advise the opp to just over look it and go ahead with the marriage plans. From experience, if the opp did not work on her mental state, he ll never enjoy her sexually because the bad experience ll always torment her to resist the opp.
Oh that true she did not resist me OooO but the experience led to all this cause the way she dey do Ehn it like say I Dey do her bad thing and she seems sad self that I wan first mad say how you go dey have dat kind look for me nah how I take onow say something is wrong thi

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 8:27pm On Apr 04, 2022
King125007:
Op I know you know the story doesnt add up, so many gaps and lies inbetween sir.

Well getting more answers from her at this point will and may not be easy task so I will advice you end relationship as sooon as possible not minding the fall back

She may want to use "I shouldn't have open up to you or tell you the truth blackmail " on you, never fall for it


Possible scenario of what happened or what is happening

- She and this guy in question are either sex buddies or flirting buddies

- She took the weed also and the sex happened if they were not sex buddies already

- She Enjoyed the sex

- She didn't regret it

-She is still communicating with the guy

-She will sleep with the guy again in the nearest future

- Sex, pregnancy, abortion have an unbreakable bond with people that commit it

- She is bond to that guy


POSSIBLE QUESTION YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF

- why did she open to you now, when she kept the toasting part, visiting part, rape part, abortion part from you from day one

- Why now, when she can easily play you along


POSSIBLE ANSWERS

women hate to loss- They like eating their cake and having it-

If you continue with her she will date you and that guy, you indirectly gave her permission to, she is bonded ro him(blood-abortion) have deep psychological effect on women


NB-The chances of a guy raping a girl the very first day of visit is very rare and low ,

Live that girl sir, she is just feeling really confuse now, trying to choose between you and her Bleep buddy,

You don't wanna go this path.. Thank you





She didn’t tell me willing OooO I made her !! I truly want to break up and all But I can’t just possible do that I don’t know how to say it because of this alone!!!
Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 8:17pm On Apr 04, 2022
Chiraq77:


Brother Man,You have to be firm in your Decision,You Must Take This Matter Up to the appropriate forces and bring that Man to Book,you have to make it clear to her that is the only way both of you can be together,What could be the reason for her avoiding your calls and messages

Because She's Lying My Nigga

Thanks for this just concluded and she is calling in to report the case like this!

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:45pm On Apr 04, 2022
Nitah1:
grin grin grin some guys are just semi human or should I say copies of human being....me de fucck girl no be say na my wife another person come fucck her I go come dey devastated say who die?

Since your kpekus na community type I will go brutal,I will make sure i Bleep every hole on our body knowing fully that we have no future... even if I had future plan before I will change my mind.

Never trust any woman apart from ur mama food.


I never got problem about the Sex! What cause all the devastation was that she claimed RAPE and said the deed has been done Asin she decided to act like nothing happened that is what is getting me Mad so I am at a cross road WAS she Raped or Did she cook all this up because someone asked you out and you went visiting putting on a gown and pant and the person rolled weed and she sat comfortable and the whole thing started and she fought but the guy have his way with her without having any bruises or her undies getting torn. A girl that I know how she could resist even me if she want no sex Altho I could overpowered but it will be at the expense of hurting her so telling me a guy raped her without bruises is what I can’t just process in my brain! She even talked to the guy the next day shows she is not Mad or furious about the whole thing like she just throw it past her the next day like nothing happened I can’t believe that!

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:37pm On Apr 04, 2022
ndukwejoe:
so if Belle no come out you won't have known about the rape, Women you really can't understand them.

She has done the abortion even before I came back and she didn’t tell me willing! When I came back I could sense something was wrong the way she looked at me her vibes everything was not like when she came visiting me at sch etc so I act like I know about the thing she is hiding and put up a good show to confuse her and she first told me about something else but I knew that could not cause mood swings towards me so I pressure her more on leaving my place on Sunday she drop a VN for me explain everything in details!

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:30pm On Apr 04, 2022
Chiraq77:
Look here Mr Man,You Must File a Report at the Police Station,No girl who was violated like that wouldn't want to file a case, except she gave consent.if she prevents you from filing a case she wasn't raped.

She Let that Nigga Blow her Back out!
That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:22pm On Apr 04, 2022
GooodHardDick:
Oga, she wasn't raped at all.

That girl just dey whine you. This is called emotional manipulation. You don't like a guy yet you went to his house? To do what abeg? Read the Bible? Werey dey disguise

OP. E sure me die say that girl enjoy the hot bang and will probably go again next time. In fact this time around, she'll shave before going.
That is too hard Nah you can be more diplomatic tho! But you are like into my thought cause this is my babe that her V is so tiny which makes penetrating a very hard one for me self so saying the guy rape you with all the fighting you claim I just don’t know how the d went inside directly except he is a toddler

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Crime / Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:16pm On Apr 04, 2022
tayo60:
She wasn't raped.
thinking the same thing cause anytime I pressure more to know how it happen nah tears dey end ham and this is a girl I know she can fight like lioness if she no want sex and telling me a single guy overpowered her and no bruises or anything nah Wattin I know get!!

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Crime / My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 5:00pm On Apr 04, 2022
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

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