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FashionCosmetology.....skin Pampering With Organic Products by ifemola(op):
Ask me anything about skin problems, I will guide you to a flawless skin. Treatment with organics products and essential oils.Naturally products all the way....For more information
FashionRe: Learn How To Mix Cream Like A Pro by ifemola(op):
We are still on. Be your own boss today
FashionRe: Learn How To Mix Cream Like A Pro by ifemola(op):
ifemola:
learn how to take care of your skin yourself ,by mixing your cream both for personal and commercial use. Say no to chemicals for just 2k......Invest in your skin,it will be with you forever.
In the training session, you will be taught how to make:
* Egyptian Body Milk And Body Wash
* Half caste Cream, Serum And Oil
*skin Whitening Cream
* Chocolate Body Butter
* Mango Body Butter
* Body Butter
* Home Made Body Butter Recipe
* Baby skin glow Soap
* Baby Shampoo
* Body Wash
* Shower Gel
* skin Glow Cream
* Baby Body Glowing Cream
* Peppermint Pink Lip Balms
* Pink Lip Balm
* Weight Loss Drinks
* Pineapple Drink
* Herbal Detox Drink that can Melt Body Fat
* Natural Sunscreen Cream
* Natural Sunblock Cream
* Carrot Oil
* Coconut Oil
* Avocado Oil
* Orange Oil
* Lemon Oil
* Peppermint Oil

* Stretch Marks Cream
* Stretch Marks Oil
* Stretch Marks Scrub
* Facial Cream Type 1
* Facial Cream Type 2
* Natural Home Made bathing Soap
* Toning Black Soap
* Eczema Soap
* Eczema Cream
* Day Face Cream
* Night Face Cream
* Night Body Cream
* Fairness Serum
* Why Creams Don't Work At times
* Some Example Of Skin Lightening Agents
* Under Eyes Cream To Remove Dark Circles
* Exfoliating And Moisturizing
* Some Consideration To Help Your Beauty Products Last Longer
* Natural Body Exfoliation
* Natural Body Scrub
* Remedy For Hair Breakage
* Face Scrub For Oily Skin
* Treatment For Pimples
* Exfoliating And Moisturizing
* Whitening / Pimples Facial
* Diets For Pimples
* Salted Chocolate Coffee Exfoliating Body Butter
* Home Made Moisturizer

* Lightening Moisturizing Lotion
* Home Lightening Soap
* Night Lightening Cream
* Epsom Salt Exfoliation
* Body Cream Home Remedy For Oily Skin
* Herbal Body Treatment Soap
* Home Remedy For Mouth Odour
* Natural Way To Shave Or Wax Your Underarms At Home
* Benefit of Face Primer
* Face Primer For Oily Skin
* How To Exfoliate Your Face Naturally For Oily & Dry Skin
* Face Primer For Normal Skin
* Glowing Serum For Brightening Skin
* Anti-Aging Cream
* Hair Oil Mix
* Moisturizer For Fair And Clear Skin

You will also learn Skin Treatment Using Organic Ingredients That Serve As Home Remedy for the following Skin effects:
* Sunburn
* Dark Knuckles And Armpit
* Dark Spot On Legs
* White Spot On Skin
* Dark Thigh
* Wrinkle And Dry Skin


PRO MIXING TRAINING
*glutax whittening lotion
*papaya whittening lotion
*pimples black soap mix
*.skinglow black soap mix
*skin repair black soap for damage skin and bleched skin
*lightening black soap mix
*.toning herbal soap
*.skinglow black soap mix
*whittening lotion
*hot chocolate lotion
*Russian whittening lotion
*.luminous whittening lotion
*.luminous lightening lotion
*.sunburn treatment
*dark thigh/spot/elbow/knee/knuckle fader
*.India glow lightening lotion
*withening body wash
*.skin lightening body butter
*.glow and shine
*whittening face cream
*lightening face cream
*smoothening and treatment face cream
*pimples face cream
*hot chocolate pimples face cream
*stretch marks cream
*.Moroccan soap
*pimples cleanser
*.body spot cream
*collage body scrub
*whittening body polish/soap
*whittening body wash
*lightening oil
*.skinglow body scrub
*whittening oil
*Moroccan whittening lotion
*whittening melt and pour soap
*extral white oil
*chocolate face cream
*.lightening melt and pour soap
*skin toning herbal soap
*Skinglow herbal soap

Contact us today and give your skin the right treatment with organic products and essential oils.
FashionRe: Pls Which Body Cream Is Best for Skin Lightening And Glowing? by ifemola:
surevic:
Pls ,am light In complexion before but now dark due to one cream am use before.......... Which cream can I use to get light back
my dear what your skin need is exfoliation ( getting rid of dead skin layer) ,then a moisturizer to achieve a glowing skin you yearn for. Say no to chemical based cream. Own your skin with organics and essential oils.everything will go but your skin will be with you forever.
FashionRe: Which Cream And Soap is Best Suited For A Fair Lady by ifemola:
I can make you black soap ,if you don't mind.it will clear dark spot if you have any, it ll give you an even tone skin and maintain your color. Black soap is known for its benefit on the skin and hair.
younggurl:
please which cream and soap best suit for a fair lady,
all comments and suggestion are welcome, kiss kiss kiss
FashionLearn How To Mix Cream Like A Pro by ifemola(op):
learn how to take care of your skin yourself ,by mixing your cream both for personal and commercial use. Say no to chemicals for just 2k.....Invest in your skin,it will be with you forever.
In the training session, you will be taught how to make:
* Egyptian Body Milk And Body Wash
* Half caste Cream, Serum And Oil
*skin Whitening Cream
* Chocolate Body Butter
* Mango Body Butter
* Body Butter
* Home Made Body Butter Recipe
* Baby skin glow Soap
* Baby Shampoo
* Body Wash
* Shower Gel
* skin Glow Cream
* Baby Body Glowing Cream
* Peppermint Pink Lip Balms
* Pink Lip Balm
* Weight Loss Drinks
* Pineapple Drink
* Herbal Detox Drink that can Melt Body Fat
* Natural Sunscreen Cream
* Natural Sunblock Cream
* Carrot Oil
* Coconut Oil
* Avocado Oil
* Orange Oil
* Lemon Oil
* Peppermint Oil

* Stretch Marks Cream
* Stretch Marks Oil
* Stretch Marks Scrub
* Facial Cream Type 1
* Facial Cream Type 2
* Natural Home Made bathing Soap
* Toning Black Soap
* Eczema Soap
* Eczema Cream
* Day Face Cream
* Night Face Cream
* Night Body Cream
* Fairness Serum
* Why Creams Don't Work At times
* Some Example Of Skin Lightening Agents
* Under Eyes Cream To Remove Dark Circles
* Exfoliating And Moisturizing
* Some Consideration To Help Your Beauty Products Last Longer
* Natural Body Exfoliation
* Natural Body Scrub
* Remedy For Hair Breakage
* Face Scrub For Oily Skin
* Treatment For Pimples
* Exfoliating And Moisturizing
* Whitening / Pimples Facial
* Diets For Pimples
* Salted Chocolate Coffee Exfoliating Body Butter
* Home Made Moisturizer

* Lightening Moisturizing Lotion
* Home Lightening Soap
* Night Lightening Cream
* Epsom Salt Exfoliation
* Body Cream Home Remedy For Oily Skin
* Herbal Body Treatment Soap
* Home Remedy For Mouth Odour
* Natural Way To Shave Or Wax Your Underarms At Home
* Benefit of Face Primer
* Face Primer For Oily Skin
* How To Exfoliate Your Face Naturally For Oily & Dry Skin
* Face Primer For Normal Skin
* Glowing Serum For Brightening Skin
* Anti-Aging Cream
* Hair Oil Mix
* Moisturizer For Fair And Clear Skin

You will also learn Skin Treatment Using Organic Ingredients That Serve As Home Remedy for the following Skin effects:
* Sunburn
* Dark Knuckles And Armpit
* Dark Spot On Legs
* White Spot On Skin
* Dark Thigh
* Wrinkle And Dry Skin


PRO MIXING TRAINING
*glutax whittening lotion
*papaya whittening lotion
*pimples black soap mix
*.skinglow black soap mix
*skin repair black soap for damage skin and bleched skin
*lightening black soap mix
*.toning herbal soap
*.skinglow black soap mix
*whittening lotion
*hot chocolate lotion
*Russian whittening lotion
*.luminous whittening lotion
*.luminous lightening lotion
*.sunburn treatment
*dark thigh/spot/elbow/knee/knuckle fader
*.India glow lightening lotion
*withening body wash
*.skin lightening body butter
*.glow and shine
*whittening face cream
*lightening face cream
*smoothening and treatment face cream
*pimples face cream
*hot chocolate pimples face cream
*stretch marks cream
*.Moroccan soap
*pimples cleanser
*.body spot cream
*collage body scrub
*whittening body polish/soap
*whittening body wash
*lightening oil
*.skinglow body scrub
*whittening oil
*Moroccan whittening lotion
*whittening melt and pour soap
*extral white oil
*chocolate face cream
*.lightening melt and pour soap
*skin toning herbal soap
*Skinglow herbal soap

Contact us today and give your skin the right treatment with organic products and essential oils.
FamilyRe: On Becoming ~ Toke Makinwa by ifemola: 10:51am On Jan 08, 2017
bukatyne:
I am sorru,

Will get back to you.
alright thanks
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 10:35am On Jan 08, 2017
Thanks but as it is,am no more in his house but we still talk normally. He doesn't realise he wronged me and he's doing really fine without me. I want to make it work as much as I hate him but he doesn't seem interested. I can't force him I believe
Catalin:
You need to get to the root of the matter by finding out why he is no longer loving you/attracted to you.

If you nag a lot, then stop it.
Always pray to God for him to change his ways cos you can't do it on your own.

Get a job: You really need it, I believe if you have a job, your worth will increase in his eyes. I don't support someone being a housewife. I can't even tell my enemy to be one. It makes a man to treat you anyhow, talk to you anyhow. No form of respect.

When you start working, remove all your mind from pleasing him all the time and see he will come crawling to you.
FamilyRe: On Becoming ~ Toke Makinwa by ifemola:
Am still on the queue ,bukatyne
bukatyne:
Have a great year
FamilyRe: On Becoming ~ Toke Makinwa by ifemola:
Please send to my account too, .. Thanks in advance
bukatyne:
Will do as soon as I can
FamilyPrivate Home Tutor (epe Lagos State) by ifemola(op):
Private home tutor is available for your kids. Both primary and secondary students....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power: For Those Who Missed The First Test! by ifemola: 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2016
Please how do I check my grade
azelab:
try to re-log in, if u have elapsed all ur 20min u would b permited to continue d test from where it stoped even u can do it on your phone best of luck.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 10:48am On Dec 23, 2016
Thanks so much I really appreciate
baby124:
Let me give you some pearls of wisdom:

People marry for several reasons. Some for love, age, beauty, security or kids. Not everyone gets married for love. In fact in my observation most don't. But the most important factor that probably keeps most marriages going is respect and a willingness to work on the marriage. Also a willingness to be selfless and change what is obviously sabotaging that marriage.

One thing I have learnt in life is that there are all kinds of people. A majority of people lack deep thought. If you are a thoughtful person you will realize this. A lot of us are shallow and act without truly thinking. We also mostly act selfishly. When you truly realize this you will know how to handle people more. The things they do will not hurt you. Instead you would look at things from a practical angle and decide what you want to do.

Also, another factor that most people don't understand is mental illness. We Nigerian's tend to try to explain an obvious mental instability. A person that constantly puts you down and degrades you is not mentally ok. A person that cannot empathize or lacks empathy, is not mentally ok. A person that can attempt to sleep with your sister, is not mentally ok. A person that willingly puts those around him, their health and safety is jeopardy is not mentally ok. A man that cannot listen to his father, will not make a good role model as a father. That is if the father is a good man. We don't know the reason for that rift.

At the end of the day, we have the power to decide what we accept in our lives. You have to be selfish about yourself to survive in this life. But not selfish to the point where you hurt other's. Just selfish enough to know your limits and know you cannot change anyone. You also must have a plan for your future. If you have a plan for your life my dear, anything trying to derail that plan will quickly be thrown away.

Lastly, dont let a man with obvious mental and self esteem issues bring you down to his level. You look in the mirror and know you are not ugly. He says that to keep a hold of you to abuse you for his own sick desires. He keeps you there with abuse to have someone to frustrate when he is frustrated. You came to this world alone, and you will be buried alone. The path to your happiness and fulfillment does not lie in any human's hands. Be wise and wake up.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 10:45am On Dec 23, 2016
I loved him.we got married after my service
bukatyne:
@OP:

I honestly don't know what changed that is fueling this thread.

Like byvan said, get a source if income & everything will fall into place.

Chasing this man to love you will only bring more misery if he doesn't reciprocate.

May I ask why you married him? I am guessing you wedded him at about 23?
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 7:03am On Dec 23, 2016
Its really embarrassing I know that and its hard for me saying it here too. Thanks
WorldRichest:
Please don't say this outside. I beg you in the name of all Nigerian men. This is too shameful. Once again, please don't say this outside. I am sorry, I have no advice to give on the subject. I have been married for 6 years now and I have 2 kids, believe me there is no mathematical formula for happy marriage. No marriage is without its up and down. If you see old couples celebrating 70 years of marriage, it means that they have been fighting and settling for 70 years, so marriage is a work in progress. However, some people are difficult to live with. Just take it easy and think about yourself first before the kids.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 7:02am On Dec 23, 2016
He's not rich, am not lazy ,am making small small money. The biz he started I was able to raise small change for him from my pocket.
drmikeadams:
grin ;Dplease get a job and keep[ ur self busy..maybe he thinkls ur just lazying around eating his money...but get a job or start a biz
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 7:00am On Dec 23, 2016
He used to respect his dad but not any more. His behaviour started after i was pregnant with my first baby but now its worse. Am confuse
nnamdiosu:
Sweet heart. Its.gonna be all right. See....before I say anything.....you need to yell us some more things. E.g wen did u exactly notice this.behaviour from him. Did.u guys have any argument before? Other aspect is the sex life. Has it died down or dying? (You might wan to privately pm me). Is there someone in the family he respects that u can talk to?, etc. just don't despair. Talk to God. We here for u ok?
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 9:40pm On Dec 22, 2016
He said I was the best wife but he couldn't just love me,I wondered if he ever loved me.I don't know what happened, he's not even feeling bad treating me badly. Am still wondering
makelove2m:
Your case may be different from OP, so ...........don't compare at all, every woman has all it takes to pull men to their kneels, not by fight, shout and constant nagging........every woman needs a man, for a man to cheat there must be a woman involve, and that woman must be some one wife or future wife, no exemption, nature made it so, but that devilish thought can be controlled, an women has the right tool to do the job correctly
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 9:36pm On Dec 22, 2016
He didn't feel remorse about it,rather he blame my mum. He never feels remorse after doing anything bad,even the day he nearly kill me,he didn't feel remorse even with my plead and tears,he never stop till he was tired. Am just afraid of starting over but equally tired of the marriage
makelove2m:
In this case you are not the one to leave the house but your sister, since am a man, i do advise from the man angle of judgement, men are like dogs, yes, some men, they have preferences but they go for anything accessible at a given time and later regrets their actions, most men think with their genital organs than their God given brain, please go back to your husband house, since he wasn't the one that sent you out but, try to regain strenght this time to win him, yes, you can, i know you can, even the word impossible says, I'mpossible, You can make him kneel before you to apologise for all his shortcomings, you have what it takes, don't listen to most people as they were not seeing what you are seeing right now, they may not have the best advise to give to you............. remenber to make yourself relevant financially, if you have not started, start up immediately, very important, ............... thanks anyway for speaking up so many women dies in silent today, as many men do think that since they married the women that they are their slaves, you can never be one, that was in old days
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 9:31pm On Dec 22, 2016
Thanks so much
Richy4:
Ma'am...It is just like when they tell a child not to put hands on fire that it burns, the child still went ahead and put his hands on it.......when it burns, he/she starts crying for solution......

You saw all the signs from the beginning..what were you thinking, that you can change him?...what was it that made you so hooked up?...was it the fact that he was

<<<<So Tall
<<<<fair in complexion
<<<<Pointed nose
<<<<Got British accent
<<<<or is it because you want to get married and answer MRS because all your mates got that title?

I would have asked you to carry your cross ma'am because i feel you were the architect of your problem...but this is Christmas....A time we share.....Anyways, I will suggest;

1. You do not have a job...You cannot live on the street...so i suggest you stay there,thank goodness you got a room..U have to stay like a flat mate.....Take care of your kids only and do not expect anything from him anymore..if he gives you, you take it just for your kids..

2. CV..CV...CV ...start sending that out desperately.. anywhere..everywhere...it does not matter...you need to built yourself worth again.. when love is not there, The spouse sees you as a free loader...So your image and whom you are is at-stake here..

3. when you got a job vacate the house and do not look back..there's nothing t salvage in that relationship...because he will not care whether you go or stay...besides, there was no spark in the relationship in the first place...And you can rise and shine again..do not be afraid but be strong..If genuine love knocks on your door this time, please accept...

One last thing...if you have a female kid ma'am.. start drumming it into her ears not to get marry because others were getting married..Especially when it looks like the bus carrying all the eligible bachelors were living her behind.....Advise her to marry because the man adores her and she feels the same.... Good-luck ma'am


FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 5:11pm On Dec 22, 2016
makelove2m:
Never to worry, but needed to restrategize once more, men life seem more complicated than that of a women, we think that what we saw out there are better than what we have until we lose that, you needed to find out in your own way what he used to see in other women that you don't have and try to make it up ...................... Every woman is beautiful, my mum used to tell me, no ugly woman, if he says you are urgly, ask him the meaning of groom, Patience dogs eats the fatest bone and watch again if you really nags, i mean talk more when you suppose to listen, do you really give him peace even when he doesn't deserve it............... do you show him love when he wants war, do you keeps the house neat even when he is the one always mess them up, men are like babies they needs you to cuddle them like their mum even when they do not merit it...... they will want you to breast feed them even when you are tired, they ask you to work then around even when you complain of been sick.............., yes, surely if you love this man, you will soon win his heart and later make him do what you want him do............ DO NOT IN ANYWAY ATTEMPT TO CONFRONT ANY MAN EGO. IF YOU DO YOU WILL KEEP LOSING HIM TO OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE
thanks but the real reason I left the house was because he tried to sleep with my younger sister staying with us,though he denied it. But I have my evidence.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 4:11pm On Dec 22, 2016
Have been trying
Dyt:
The only thing I can advice now is get a source of income
Every other will fall in after then

But first and most importantly
Make money
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 4:04pm On Dec 22, 2016
Thanks
Dyt:
The only thing I can advice now is get a source of income
Every other will fall in after then

But first and most importantly
Make money
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 3:58pm On Dec 22, 2016
Thanks alot
sisisioge:
Whew! I can imagine how distraught and confused you must be right now. Pele. Pls note that you are in the best position to advise yourself now...

-Do you really want to be in a loveless marriage?
-Do you really want to stay with a man who clearly doesn't want you?
-Do you want to struggle this out only to wake up at 36 to the reality of your situation and them move?
- Do you think you two might have rushed this marriage thing and thus need the counselling you might have skipped initially?


Think about your life and your kids and decide from there... Pretend you are a third party with amble info while at it. Good luck.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 3:08pm On Dec 22, 2016
Thanks abunch
Giddyperson:
He's probably expecting you to come back home cuz that's what most women do. Next thing now there would be a family meeting where your fellow women would try to shame/beg you into going back and 'praying'. No need going back after you've moved out, especially to a man that doesn't even seem to care. If your family wants to mediate, ask them to focus on getting him to agree on a definite plan for the kids welfare, as for you, you are still young, and you've got two kids, all you need now is a source of income not a cheating husband.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 2:15pm On Dec 22, 2016
nnamdibig:
You said he is like this before you guys got married..............Why then did you marry him? And what where you expecting when you got married to a cheating boyfriend?
he didn't cheat while courting, just the nonchalant attitude but its wasn't really obvious then.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 2:03pm On Dec 22, 2016
Giddyperson:
Does he atleast care about his kids, is he the type that would still pay their fees after you leave? You should be happy you are sleeping in different rooms, let him have fun, while you try to look for a job. The bible already gave adultery as the only grounds for divorce, I don't know how women can still be interested in pleasing a man who's cheating on them. Stop wasting your time trying to be a better wife, he's the one that needs to be a better husband.
thanks he said he ll take up the kids responsibility interms of money,I left the house right now cause of an issue and he hasn't called for like a week to even ask of the kids.
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 1:45pm On Dec 22, 2016
ifemola:
My husband doesn't care about me or love me,he told me and shows it through his actions. Chat with different girls at will,cheated before but am not sure if he's still cheating as I stopped checking his phones. He has always being like this while we were courting but not really this obvious. Am confused as I don't know how to continue in a loveless marriage. I have two kids already and I don't have a job,its not being easy getting a job. We sleep in separate rooms also. I don't know what to do stay in a loveless marriage, don't know if leaving the marriage ll help either. He doesn't simply care at all
please don't just view...help a sister in need of advice...its really frustrating
FamilyRe: I Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 1:35pm On Dec 22, 2016
makelove2m:
Number one offence is to check ur hubby phone, that will make you loose confidence in him and thereafter generate to hatre, so, show more love as ever before, dress to impress him, give him more good food, i tell you, you will win him back, today girls loves married men, so ur husband is not alone...............
thanks am 26 .I dress really nice, cook good food. I tried to take him out on his birthday but he refused. He's social with girls outside but with me its different. Truth is he really don't see anything good in me. When I was pregnant he complained I was too ugly, he never compliment but criticize.
FamilyI Don't Know What To Do......suggestions Please by ifemola(op): 12:56pm On Dec 22, 2016
My husband doesn't care about me or love me,he told me and shows it through his actions. Chat with different girls at will,cheated before but am not sure if he's still cheating as I stopped checking his phones. He has always being like this while we were courting but not really this obvious. Am confused as I don't know how to continue in a loveless marriage. I have two kids already and I don't have a job,its not being easy getting a job. We sleep in separate rooms also. I don't know what to do stay in a loveless marriage, don't know if leaving the marriage ll help either. He doesn't simply care at all

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