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Thanks a lot guys
Well
I have made up my mind even before posting this issue....
The thing is that I have avoided her ( no calls no visits) for the past one week and I have been at peace bt some of our friends have been trying to settle issues and she keeps saying that she doesn't know why I have been acting strange and that she is confused
I later got to know from my friend that the guy who has been disturbing her is having problems with her( she told the guy not to call her or visit her again)
And the guy says he knows me very well cos he happens to be a patient of mine once like that ( he was admitted for substance abuse)
She has been talking to my friends from yesterday that they should talk to me cos she noticed that I have not given her attention and I am more happier without her in my life
So pls all these ur insults should stop

Actually she is a fashion designer and most of customers are ladies....at least all
I have spoken to her more than 6 times concerning her change in behavior bt she alway says we should just leave it like that
The worst thing is that my mom got back from surgery abt two months now and my supposed Gf hasn't called called her or come to see her ( she stays 10mins walk from my house)
I really do love her bt with all these things she has been doing I am fed up
I can't really imagine why she finds it hard to explain to me who those guys are....

Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

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