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shouldn't you worry about your feelings for her and her wifely qualities and her ability to make you a happy man rather than what happened in the past. are you going to live your life to please other people? if you like her then go with her as long as she has been true to you since you started dating her.

h202 or whatever you call yourself if you don't have anything reasonable to say then please reply my post, im not going to sstoop to your level and start trading insults cos believe i have a lot of colourful things to say to you

thank you all for your advice i will do the right thing.

hello i just registered today there is something that is seriously bothering me. Its actually a very long story, i met this guy when i was eighteen years old then he just came into Nigeria from the UK to get a job as a pilot, anyway i met him when he just started the job then he was 23 going on twenty four. somehow we started something but i noticed then that he didn't really have much time for me at first i just didn't want to make a fuss but after sometime i decided to move on because i realised that i was the one doing the calling and besides he told me that he had a girlfriend in the UK. that did not mean anything to me because i felt that he was far away from her.

Anyway, we continued even though it was on and off until i decided to move on with my life. then i was doing my youth service in Abuja. when was serving he used to call me from time to time to tell me that he was in town but i refused to answer him. he later got a job with the biggest airline in the UK and left Nigeria.

last year i came into the UK to do a masters degree, when i came in we started talking again and he was always telling me that he wants to see me and blah blah blah.i still did not answer him after sometime i met someone else and we started dating. however in recent months the relationship has started to go downhill and this guy came back into the picture we started talking and he told me that he was coming to where i stay in the UK and that please i should come and see him afterall we are still friends. i went to see him and one thing led to another, we ended up having sex. after that i started thinking about him a lot in fact i was thinking of leaving my boyfriend for him only for me to go on face book some days later and see his wedding pictures posted on line. i was devastated because when i saw him he did not tell me that he was getting married . i called him and told he that what he did to me was not nice and that i felt very bad. he started begging me and telling me all sorts of things that i should not stop seeing him he cares for me very much and that we should please continue our relationship, that at least i have a boyfriend but that i should not stop seeing him.on my birthday he was the first person to wish me a happybirthday and that he misses me, looks forward to seeing me that I'm his baby.
anyway he came around yesterday and i went to see him again but now i want to end this thing and i dint know howbut i know i have to please i need your urgent advice i know the story is very Long but please i need honest advice from you guys