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Another one here https://www.nairaland.com/8125440/girlfriend-left-me-big-joystick#130480467 I even enjoy just reading threads here just to add to my experience so this is my first comment/reply.

Firstly this is iMacD, ii sell iPhone and I'm an authorized agent/seller. I don't sell secondhand and I do repair iPhone both hardware and software issues. I work on iPhone boards so your dead iPhone could still wake up again .

Secondly, I'll appreciate ever men and women who had say/replied one/two discussions in this thread to help my dear brother and a simple father of two .

You see been called man is not an easy title sir, and I want other ladies here to pay good attention to my little but important message.

Sir, you grow up with two people living together with you, controlling your every moves as at then and you called them your parents aside from your siblings. So, before you take any drastic changes/moves remember you two have children together(so to this fact I'll say number 1)

She's not your angel/God neither you're her God/angel, forget “I love you” she tells you before(when you two first started) and “I hate you” she's telling you now(when she's misbehaving). If she offend you report her to her parents(crisis do happen in family) before even trying to touch her/fight her or even beat her, coz I strongly go against female gender discrimination and violence.

Listen:

1. I give birth to 7 girls and I'm only talking/saying it just to show how much I love them and I don't joke with my girls, bros if my daughter's husband didn't inform me about her stupid behaviors (so I can beat her myself or scold her myself with my words and tears just the way I cry while praying for her, her husband and their marriage) before assulting her. tbh I can do and undo Hun I swear to God.

2. Crisis, conflicts even something worse that your experience do happen in marriage. My wife gave me deep mark in my left limb with high heels I bought for her, I fund her University with my engineer work then and I traveled to link up with iOS industry (apple) she texted me the tell me she's not interested in the marrage preparations. Ha my parents, friends and even haters waiting to hear such to use as gossip topics in our area just dey carry rumors. I rushed down to Nigeria after sealing the deal I went for because she cannot spoil my life and I love business so I traveled a lot.

In a nutshell, she left me for month and later came back and meanwhile when she left me I sent some of my workers to leave close to her new neighborhood. I stalk her and she didn't noticed it. I was promising myself that if she moved on with her life then I'll moved on with mine too. But before I take any actions I visit her village to tell her parents, i think her parents reminded her of how I helped her life and she came back to me, even after that time she use high heels to mark me and I do show one of my daughter anytime her husband comes to report her. I've once show my in-laws before 😂...

Please tell her parents, you see most people here don't have perfect home/good home everyone learn to deal with the devil God has set for man(woman). Yes, I tell my girls. He'll work to satisfy you, stress himself on bed to satisfy you and even do more for you before think about his parents/family just to satisfy you. So why stressing your satisfying machine, we men are trying yes we're all trying in one way or the other.

Some ladies are like that too, if you stop cooking it will shock you she might even start ordering KFC especially when she's earning more than you or she's also working. My daughter's husband do come to complain and I do the needful. And if you have a very bad in-laws then get a very good therapist to help you two.


Go get a therapist, cooking, sweeping is not ladies job alone. If she now leave it to you alone I call it abnormality so report her, get a therapist. “I hate you” or even if she's raising curses at you if normal in relationships. My grandson told me he hate me in person and even two of my daughters say the same when I won't allow them to go for sleepovers abi?

She has something in her to say or people somewhere advising her, bros think .... think abeggggggyyyyyyyy. I don't like dealing with introverted people like you, I challenge my introvert in-law so he could tell my his hiding pains. She'll confess that thing, those people or what happened to her parents or friends so somehow report her then challenge her to open her phone in front of her parents to check whatever it's not normally, well I think that would help.

If her parents are stupid like her, report her to your spiritual fathers, mothers/mentors, if care is not taking her problems could kill you and that's if your not emotional strong like me, wise to pick decision or too slow in everything. Don't cover your mouth, I've reported my wife to her friends especially this her friend who was nominated has Iya Loja of oir town. Haaa 😂 she fought me badly but I don talk my own abi? then if her wahala kee me, ppl will stand for me. And I do all of that for the strong love I have for her, yes she also knows everything about me. Haaa GF and BF from 16yrs old ooo and I funded her education since 19yrs ooo, she knows how I stand and how highly respected I was. She knows I no go school oooo 😭, she sabi me die.

I just pray you find your way around this and please don't divorce her yet, give her time to decide if she'll go against her decivers or accept the temptation. Let her leave, forget abi you paying for everything ok. Tell her how everything she's doing or how her behavior is draining you emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Pray against devil honestly, she's not the one doing it.... I see you're a good man but she's just behaving like a lady with dirty brain.

Peace ✌️ out