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Timbuktou:
Erm, till then na. Make I own am first.

Timbuktou:
Feel beautiful all you want, if you're ugly your chances are limited. . Me sef I want to feel like I own a yacht or something.

crackhaus:
Of course you don't.

I have nothing against her but her words do her a great injustice.


Actually, what she now feels about herself is dependent on how a man should treat her - false confidence and self-esteem.


So because she is beautiful, she deserves to be treated like a queen?
Do you not see the narcissism in that?

If she's truly confident in herself, she wouldn't need a 'future husband' to remind her how beautiful she is every night.
Like I said above, false confidence.


Well she said this right?
"You got that 9 to 5 but baby, so do I.
So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies"

That right there is a woman towing the line of strong independent 'working' woman who has a problem coming home to cook for her man, the same man whom she wants reminding her how beautiful she is every night BTW - hence I said she's also quite confused in addition to being a self-absorbed narcissist.

Timbuktou:
my sister, anyone can believe anything, doesn't make it reality. Ok, let's you and me believe we are as rich as Dangote, how's that working out for you? A fat, ugly wench is just that, fat and ugly. No amount of self-believe, positive reinforcement and projection will change that. Ugly is ugly and beautiful is beautiful. Monique can try to project that she's beautiful but if you left a red-blooded male in a room with Monique and Heidi Klum and told him to choose, Monique would know how really beautiful or not she is. Just saying

crackhaus:
The pipe dreams of a self-absorbed narcissist who believes the world should revolve around her.

Meghan Trainor wants to be cared for like a puppy, and at the same time desires to be seen as a strong independent woman.
Worse than being a narcissist who seems to get a high feeding off any attention that reinforces her vanity, Meghan Trainor is also dumb and quite confused.

If her happiness and complete satisfaction is dependent only these dreams, it's advisable that she remain single.
Unless of course she plans to commit suicide before her twentieth year anniversary...that's if she doesn't go through a divorce before then.

torchwave:
Op, u said you never learnt to cook. Hmm. Then you don't have the map to your future man's heart. Food is the fastest way to a man's heart. Weren't you told?

That aside, your affection and wifely duties towards him, your future husband, are conditional, dependent on specified actions that he must take which, in my opinion, is rather selfish. You never mentioned what you'd do for him just for the love of him. I doubt there is, you know why? Everything you said you'd do for him is only a reward for his actions that please you. In the event he does anything contrary to your expectations or when he wrongs you, it is clear you will not 'reward' him with the unconditional love he deserves as your husband.


Anyway, wish you luck in finding your man.

Tallesty1:
Will you allow him to be leader in every other thing?I was taught to do what I know is good without waiting for anybody to start because that same person could be waiting for me to start.

A good husband or wife do not wait for the other to start, he or she does what is right because they are wired that way.

Only pretenders wait to be treated right first.

Tallesty1:
Why He?

kendrick9:
No.. u tell me

Tallesty1:
You are truly not a perfect wife if you wait for him to treat you right first.

kendrick9:
sounds lyk a gold digger

Tallesty1:
IF YOU TREAT ME RIGHT i will be the perfect wife




sometimes, treating a woman right brings out the demon in her.

steppin:
Op, wake up abeg.

Katdaddy:





That's beauty.