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Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

Ladies let's hear from you

This una marriage ehhh

Na wa oo
What should the singles do?
Abeg am scared oo

NokiaN8:
What is separation? What is divorce

Separation is time apart for sober reflection, thinking and to come back together for reformation while divorce is complete break in the marriage vows, husband goes his way and wife goes her way-both not to come back again.

I hope my layman explanation helps

lordally:
Thank you very much, nothing pass blissful marriage I swear. I wish you same too my boss

Amen🙏

lordally:
We got married 9th of March 2025

Wow
Clap for yourself 👏👏
Give me handshake 🤝

Congratulations. Blissful marriage 🤗

I believe God Almighty! I will share my experience someday 🙏
Nairaland, take note!

Eating too much
Drinking too much

When everything becomes too much, that a man doesn't have self-control. They age and die faster.
Quote me anywhere

kelechi50:
Exactly Again when I woke up every morning and see the aged neighbor suffering, one sells firewood and the other a security guard at Old age, it worries me a lot.

That's true. I try to respect them a lot, while also thinking what it will be like in Old age.

Hello Nairalander

I have a PC HP 8.1 which I only use for school assignment (typing) and watch movie.
So , I'm thinking is there something hand on and productive I can use it for?

Pls Advice me
A practical advice.

Hello Nairalander

I have a PC HP 8.1 which I only use for school assignment (typing) and watch movie.
So , I'm thinking is there something hand on and productive I can use it for?

Pls Advice me
A practical advice

DonroxyII:
Lemme give you a Bonus: Always Operate on Checked Emotions and Never Rely on Anybody 100% But God(Good):

God lives in Your Brain and Mindsets:

The More Educations You have, the Better You unraveled the God inside of Your Head:

Forgive People Easily so as for You to Easily Move On to the Next Developments:

Regrets, Disappointment will Only Hold You Down from Next Progresses:

Nobody Owes You a thing in Life, Like Nepa .. They can switch You On and Switch You Off so Hold Yourself To Your God who Owes You Everything for Creating You: Don't Forget, Ignorant can't Enjoy God:

You get what You give, Never-Ever Give Emotions But Reasonableness Once The Other Party is not Giving You Reasonableness, Step Aside for Emotions Clouds Mental Judgements and Balance-Fair:

I love the bolded ❣️

JohnnA1:
This!
Not exactly easy, but I'm practising putting myself first in ALL things.

Not putting myself first has cost me a lot of self-development and growth.
I literally can't say no to things and advances from people

Heavensent01:
do not use money meant for capital business for charity, those you're trying to help, you might be on the same page with them on downgraded level


do not ever think someone/people won't survive without you, stay focus


Don't pursue necessity and leave priorities, that necessity might not give you the ultimate certainty


if you want to be wealthy learn to take risk, build your own empire, continue creating source source source source source till Forbes get tired of listing you on their list

I love the bolded ❣️

CaveAdullam:
1. Women will do anything for money.

Lazarus's case and that of the rich man is even better, women will eat both the crumbs that falls from the table and allow the rich man's dog eat them too.

2. Men fear power + physical dominance. If you got one or both, your respect will heighten. And true on a large scale.

3. Children only keep shut when you stand by your decision and accompany it with a rod. Like women, they love going against boundaries assigned to them.

4. How far you will go in life is dependent on the available knowledge or information you have or able to access.

5. Nobody cares about you, but you still end up thinking about how others see you. Human evolutionary instinct wants to ensure that you're not going against the rules of the tribe.

6. Everyone desires to help and show love, but when the burden is placed upon them they run away. These are weak people, the spectators and critics that lacks good sense of judgement. They are accusers and mere talkers.

7. Born into a poor family, a poor nation and a poor background sets you up for monumental failure. Hence, religion becomes a comforter and escape mechanism because chances of success are ultra slim. So, anything you do in such situation to at least upgrade yourself should be seen as success even though it can't be categorized as the norm. You tried my friend.

8. With wealth, influence and power, you not only break the rules, you make the rules and break it as it pleases you.

9. There are no morally wealthy + powerful people. Every powerful and wealthy man plays unsuspicious immoral game behind closed doors. When caught they rationalize it to mean a virtuous act. Or, pretend nothing happened.

10. The poor desires to be rich, and when he is unable, he castigates the rich and calls wealth vanity. Refer to 7 above.

11. Nobody is coming to help you, the few that will do will only point the route to you, you must do the work for yourself, don't expect anybody to do it for you.

12. People are selfish with knowledge because they think once it goes viral they will lose their power. And this is true. It is then left for you as an individual to go down the rabbit hole and and pursue knowledge. Refer to 4 above.

13. Life is not guaranteed in the next hour, assume you'll die sooner and that may help you come up with productive ideas and walk towards it.

14. No big deal being happy or sad, life will definitely take different turns on you, just be prepared and conscious about it.

15. Family is key. Your friends cannot be compared to your genetic line. Though, some friends has proven to be brothers.

16. Respect everyone. Don't view anyone ignominously, as they might know what you don't and can help when you don't expect.

17. Be kind, but always make sure you pay everyone with their own coins. This will ensure they know that in life, nobody has the monopoly of being kind, frugal, arrogant or prideful. Only the wealthy has such opportunity. Refer to 8 above.

18. Stay focus, continue to try and progress. You may experience a breakthrough, but in the case that you didn't made a significant breakthrough, just know you tried.

19. Majority of humans has died and many will die without achieving their dreams. Take heart.

20. Use your money to take good care of yourself. But also know that being selfish is for a short time, when you die another will inherit all your possessions, and he may possibly be your enemy.

21. Do what makes you happy is an escape mechanism to please your indulgence and never makes you want to feel guilty about your reckless behaviors.

22. If there's a process follow it. If it is long be patient and follow, and same if short. The more you try to short circuit the process, the longer you stay there correcting what you ought to have done in the past.

22. Life doesn't go as planned, always ensure you have alternatives and fallback. Don't depend on mere hope, faith, wishful thinking and prayer. You are not different from other beings. So, don't think your case is special.

23. Respect is only given to the wealthy, high status and powerful because humans are myopic, they judge you by your cover. A poor wise man is an object of mockery to the masses. Refer to 1 above.

24. Suffering is part of every process, make
good use of it.

25. The majority of people that are announcing their helps are only trying to exploit you.

26. If there's something to lose or gain people will comply. Better to use incentives than appeal to emotion or force.

27. Only outliers help genuinely from their hearts. The majority will not help if they have nothing to gain from you. Refer to 26 above.

28. You are not in control, independence or democracy are words to make you feel in control. The government and the wealthy men are the people in control. Refer to 8 above.

29. The wrong side about religion is that its adherents take every allegories and metaphors as facts. Meanwhile, when lessons are extrapolated from these religious tales you will find out that man truly needs religion. Refer to 7 above.

30. You don't know yourself until you suffer lack or have abundance.

31. Experience is the best teacher; if you are advice against an act you'll continually regret not taking action. However, some experiences comes with painful scars. Be careful.

32. Everything you say or know is true. However, truth is what has proven itself repeatedly and not void of empiricism and reality.

33. If you are extremely valuable, people will be attracted to you, but the majority will like to parasitize on you rather than become good as you.

Thanks.

Wow🤗

You nailed it

Prioritize your goals, don't be distracted. Do not try to please anyone at the expenses of your growth and development because those you try to please don't give a damn

If you subject your dreams and goals to pursue what makes others happy or feel euphoria while it drain you and make you sad. Someday they'd leave you when you're empty.

Focus on yourself and focus on God🙏
Don't be distracted by anyone, anything, abeg-this is very essential.

Don't be the first to make a move, instead play hard to get but not too hard to scare others away but when you throw yourself to people and they later reject you for others- you become hurt and a fool.

zackmann:
Modified (Update soon)

Zackman, Abeg we still dey wait for giveaway.🙏

Good Evening Nairalanders

I saw this post on twitter about a woman (Jehovah Witness) who refused blood transfusion leading to her death.

I mean, is this real? Or it's cock and bull story.

Pls educate me
Share your experiences

Newborn27:
I walked into a hotel and after going through the menu, I ordered some food. After about 20mins a group of guys and ladies walked in & ordered theirs. To my dismay, these folks got served first. I watched as they began to eat & laugh heartily. I even overhead one of them bragging about how he's connected to everyone in the hotel and I felt mocked.

I decided to leave. Unable to take it anymore, I called the waiter. He calmly told me : " yours is a special order, being prepared by the chief chef himself. Theirs orders were prepared hurriedly by students on attachment because the top chefs are busy with yours. That's why they were served first. Please have some juice as you wait". I calmed down & waited patiently.

Shortly after, my meal was served by 6 waiters. Unknown to me, the owner of the hotel (who happened to be an old long lost friend of mine) saw me when I entered and decided to surprise me. She changed my simple meal to a five-star meal. The party at the other table were shocked. They couldn't stop staring . Suddenly they were the ones murmuring, asking why they didn't get that kind of service and meal.

Such is life !
Some people are ahead of you and are eating now, laughing at you and talking about how they are smarter, wiser and better than you, how they are well connected , blessed, have money and are enjoying life.

You are waiting tirelessly wondering why its taking so long to breakthrough, You endure mockery and humiliation. May be you've contemplated suicide, gone through depression or suffered severe mental anxiety.

Don't you worry !
The owner of the world has seen you & doesn't want you to be served a simple meal like those making a mockery of you.

You're waiting long because yours is SPECIAL

It takes time to prepare. And only chief chefs prepare them. God is preparing something real good for you

Wait for your meal and relax. When it comes that laughing party will be silenced for good.

Stay blessed enjoy your day

See you @ the top

Thanks so much for this piece.
It brought tears to my eye

No all that glitter are gold.
Thanks for this piece, I hope you're okay now.
But does that mean some of this African countries are filled with trafficked Nigerian girls. FIJ investigative Journalist also documented a story of human trafficking going on in these African countries. Where some guys are trafficked to Burkina Faso under the guise of being secured an imaginary job that pays in Dollar $.

The story becomes more pathetic when you realize the trafficker are Nigerian at times families or close friends (Man inhumanity to man; Nigerian inhumanity to Nigerian) How then do we want to be treated by the White.

Thank God 🙏for being your saving grace ... lesson learnt

essentialone:
Where is recent Yemi Osibanjo?

He is on Twitter (now X)

Check them all on X

My take on this matter.
Elon Musk once said that he didn't care about heaven when someone challenge him about going to heaven on X. He said he will like to go to hell because many people will be there.

But Cyrus, a gentile king was used by God. But, no other name on earth can we be saved except the name of Jesus-and whosoever do not accept this name JESUS is condemned already

What dream or nightmare
have you ever had that came to pass
in real life?

Someone posted the above and I'm curious. Is there anyone that have had their nightmare or dream come true. Pls share your experiences

Good day Nairaland
I planted this beans and it's been growing well but suddenly I found out something like animals is eating it up.
Pls can you help identify the animal and remedy to it

Thanks

Nigeria is in for a long ride
Suicide bombing has started again in borno. The elite in Nigeria are only concern about their personal interest but the endemic primordial sentiment will never allow a common man to make good choices..
The metropoles don't make choices for delicate position like presidency's as a joke because when there's a mistake,it will backfire and the people will suffer.
Nigerian needs orientation on what good governance is all about, because w even the political leaders still social amenities i.e roads, flyover, decapitated hospitals used for campaign as an achievement
We need orientation both the leaders and the led

Congratulations on your 10 years Anniversary feelgoodstuff
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Good day nairalander.
I just recently changed location, after few days i noticed this little rashes coming out of my body. After scratching it, it escalated to the next hand
I thought it should be the water or allergic reaction to a good.
My concern became aroused yesterday, so i bought an antiseptic liquid (like dettol type)
Pls I'll highly appreciate everyone's advice.
Thanks

But I'm curious
Why must Nigerian marry whites that are old enough to be their mother.
What of young white ladies

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