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God is helping us.
My father was assassinated when I was 1½ year. He was a bike rider then. His assailant took the bike after the deed was done. Hmmmm
God made way for me, I struggled at first but merciful extended family members, hustle, friends and others.

Although, I do things I'm ain't proud of while growing up because I lacked a father figure but when Jesus Christ came into the picture. It became bliss and I took his yoke and burden which were light and easy... So many times, I was depressed, I cried but there's no one to be blamed. The dead cannot be blamed because all things worked together for good.

Last year, I graduated with a First class in the university and currently in a national service.
God be praised 🙏🙏. He's still doing wonders in my life and I believe He'll continue unto His Glory.

Lawalemi:
I stayed jobless for six months after NYSC before getting only a Primary School teaching job.
I was so ashamed to tell her the truth - a campus big guy like me.
Eventually, I managed to tell her that I got a secondary school teaching job. She was cool with it. Later, I opened up that it was a Primary School teaching job, she was cool with it again. She then counselled that I needed not ashame of teaching since somebody gonna teach my kids in future. I was so relieved. She accepted wholly.
Months after, I left teaching job for an oil company job.
Our marriage is now 18 years. Our three daughters are doing well with one in university

Wow Wow Wow 😊😊
That's wonderful

FuckYeyeMods:
I mistook her silence for maturity and reasonable person. Unfortunately, she's evil.
Very deep dark minded person.
Very bad human.

Tell me more 🙏
I always like silent ladies but seeing this comment made me second thought. I read it over again and came back to quote it.

Tell me more pls

SirIsaacus:
I tried to like this your comment 5times, but it was just liking and unliking and liking again... 🙄
I love hearing testimonies such as these. I don't have mine yet, but I know with all surety that I will get mine, and it's also going to be a beautiful story too

Sure by God's Grace.
I also loved beautiful testimonies of good marriages here. My fear of who to marry and how's it's going to be reduced a bit.. I believe God, that all will fall in place at the right time 🙏

soccerlite:
I'm surprised by your question

You should thank God the holy spirit convicted him to say what he has been saying at your back so that you could be wise to take the step

Brother, keep your distance and become only greeting friends

One day he will be delivered from his carnality

Exactly 💯

Foodqueen:
You did well.

I wonder why all these so call spiritual father, mother, guardian.... always see themselves as assistant Jesus.

Sincerely 😊

It's Ai generated!!

Orobokibo1:
op you have two options.

1. If you are a graduate, pray and go looking for a job. It could be a Hotel job sef. atleast they pay 40k and above. There is dignity in labour.
You can give car service a trial... if you cant do it in the city you grow up in, due to feeling embarrassed, please relocate to a place where you have family members that can accommodate you.

I want you to understand there is no clear-cut smooth path to success in life. Its a forest and we are all trying to survive, cater for our families and be successful. I subscribe to the school of thought.... Obatala-school of thought

2. Bro pray. in all things, prayers work. regardless how tough situations are in life, always pray. If need be my guy, you fit link up with one or two dibia or babalawo for guidiance. Every Igwe has a dibia, every Eze has an Ezenmo... this life requires sense
me sef don even pass your age but i know the powers behind this universe will assist me one day.

P.S ... i am also going though the toughest phase of my life. i really hope things change for the better soon.

If I may ask, what's Obatala-school of thought?

To learn digital skills
Read books and gain knowledge
Get over low-self esteem, fear and distractions
Build my spiritual life.
Build soft skills

99thEnemy:
Right now, Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning (AI/ML) is in very high demand. in-fact it tops all others.

Followed by these in no particular order:

Data Engineering

Data Science

Data Analysis

How true is this?

Hungerbadoo:
I'm ready to teach interested persons Opera PMS software free of charge

God bless you sir
How can I connect with you sir 🙏

Bassmetrics:
Whatever skill you learn, make sure you earn in hard currency in 2026 no matter how little.
"Online Survey" is one good way!

It's so easy to learn & quick to master. It's just like answering questionnaire for companies & getting paid for it. It's something anyone can do. Google search to understand better.
I teach too, but it's not free

Can you teach me pls..... They want to pay through PayPal account

I learnt about Prompt Engineering from someone.
I'm yet to research on it.
Is there anyone who knows anything about it

I saw this post on facebook and I begin to ask myself what could be the reason why a man should not agree to spend even a night in his in-laws house.
So is it a bad thing for a man to spend the night in his in-laws house?

I saw this on Facebook posted by instablog.
Introverts!! What's your opinion about this.

Introverts!! What's opinion about this

always247:
I have 100k to giveaway

God bless you sir
I'm in need sir 🙏

Qualityoffer:
@OP

You've done enough already. When she's tired of being unreasonable, she'll come back to you. I hope she'll do that in a reasonable time before she's replaced.

My bible says in Proverbs 31:3 - Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings.

Your vigor on those who ruin kings. [/i]That line eh[i]

Kaliningrad:

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So Mexican cartels don turn Islamic terrorists?

I pity una empty brains. Una life no pass religion.

Una no fit see the grave danger wey dey una front. By the time US troops step foot in your country, u go understand why all US next door neighbors hate them.

The same US wey refuse to give a Christian Nigerian President Jonathan, weapons to fight Boko Haram... As at the time wey Boko Haram still dey hot. All of a sudden.. dem wan protect Christians.... 10 years later and you no ask why??

US wey no fit protect their own president from assassination attempt last year wan protect you??

Abi u no know say Americans wey don die from mass shootings this year alone pass the amount of Christians wey Boko Haram don kill in the last 3 years?

The personality in power during Jonathan is different from the one in power now. Democrat has it's own distinct ideology and pursuit likewise Republican.
During Jonathan, it was a democrat that's in power in US but now we have Trump from Republican in power.

Time and personality in power makes the difference
Nagode!

The call it 'sofu' in my place

eniolorunfe:
Why did you marry your husband? With all you have listed, it’s either this is a fake story or an incomplete story? Are you trying to tell us you did not see any of these red flags before tying the knot? This man sounds like someone that can’t even be bothered to pretend while trying to get you to marry him so, why did you agree to marry him?

I think OP has not been staying with the man during courtship

Focusmind:
Unemployment

This is very devastating if you don't have any social support or any support system and responsibilities are staring you in the face.

I'm currently facing this although I am a fresh graduate. Three weeks after sign out, I'm tired already and feeling bored

Bro, you need Jesus Christ in your life. You're already on the train that'll ruin your life.
Accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and savior, let him cleanse you from your sin. Find a bible believing Church to worship tomorrow and surrender all to Jesus Christ

Personally as someone being called brother by my Uncle's wife, I disliked it. I'll ask within myself why she has to be adding ; Brother' to my name.
Yoruba specially considered that norm in marriage sacred but that's not a valid reason to call off the marriage. There's more the issues, perhaps a hidden hatred from the mother-in-law prior to that time. She only used that as excuse

My take 👇

Those people are rare to come by. And when you have such people in your life - Cherish them and make 'em happy always 🙏

I thought at times, why do I not have friends who can call or check up on me. Except I make a move first to call, text or check up on 'em.

stanvesco:
Firstly, I want you to know that last last money is the reason why we do all what we do!


Secondly, why not use this time to setup a permanent,lifelong wealth making opportunity.do you realize that that tutorial that's giving you 500k per month is the same problem students elsewhere is having?
Seconded

Sir, for you to understand mathematics and engineering really well to the point of switching seamlessly and even getting a PhD. I think you should think about the above suggestion at for now while you look for openings in both Nigeria University and abroad
Why not create a key point for sale
Create ebooks for sale
Create YouTube videos
Monetize and wait.


While doing all these,continue applying for jobs. Also,note that you can be an an engineering lecturer and as well as a mathematics lecturer.


Don't limit yourself please.


Lastlast, money maketh a man!

Seconded

Sir, for you really understand mathematics and engineering to the of switching seamlessly. I think you should think about the above suggestion while you look for openings in both Nigeria universities and abroad. Mathematics and engineering is not an easy course, people can pay huge to be tutored on this courses
Try to leverage on this sir, considering the nature of Nigeria today.

I once ate Garri and Indomie.
Used vegetable oil to cook dry okro soup.
I ate rice and draw soup and many more🤓😁

Who says there is no God?
When I saw the testimonies under this tweet on X, I know and believed more that God is doing exceedingly, abundantly and above expectations.

So what are the experiences you had with God that is unbelievable. Let's be shocked by how powerful our God is working

Which fruit of the Spirit is the Holy Spirit currently cultivating in you.

Mine is Joy and Peace, because prior I'm always feeling unsatisfied and depressed but this days I smile and laugh often.
I can see it's also doeth good like medicine.😊😊😊😊😊😊

MaxInDHouse:
In the first century "Church" is a group of Christians {1Corinthans 14:34 compare to Revelations 1:4} therefore when someone mention the word "Church" back then he is referring to the gathering of Jesus' followers but later different religions began claiming they have a church and since they are not into preaching and teaching which made Jesus' disciples known as Christians in the first century {Act 11:26} what they use to call members for worship into their worship center is loud songs not preaching as real disciples of Jesus used to do so instead of calling members by the group name "Church" they are now calling their worship center "Church"

Today different religions claiming they are Christians have adopted the same thing since they're not used to preaching and teaching to make disciples like the first century disciples now call their worship centers "Church" because it's the building that's calling for interested persons to come join their religions.

So if such a religion now wants to make a female their leader it's OK but going by the practice of first century disciples of Jesus who preaches and teaches from house to house and door to door females were never permitted to officiate at all rather they remain silent when males takes the lead! 1Timothy 2:11-12

The Bible did not tell us why Israelites never had a female priest or why Jesus never chose a female among his twelve apostles but Paul revealed that angels in Christianity don't recognize women as leaders {1Corinthans 11:10} so we don't allow women to pastor in true Christianity! Ephesians 5:24

But what do we say about Churches who gives pastor, bishop, apostleship title to female.
Are they not true church and don't you consider it gender inequality if men are only permitted to pastor a Church

The issue of a woman pastoring a church is a subject of controversy today. Some argued for with their own explanation while some argued against.
To you, should a woman pastor a Church? Let's discuss

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