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alexialin:
It's a pity, u are not seeing the big picture in this whole scenario, that happened to you today. Your ego is bruised and you are trying to lick your wounds and also looking for whom to shift the blame to. And viola! Your gf is the perfect candidate.

My dear in life, if a random lady from nowhere tries to take advantage of u in public followed by either shouting down at you or hurling an insult. Cos it takes one insult from such lady and your response immediately to open doors for more insults to fly free from her mouth without filter.

It's always one insult and the counter reply that brings out a whole army of words.

So the best u can do at that time., is walk away.

Yes, Just walk away and trust me the lady will be surprised and mumble some rubbish to herself, cos Thats the least counter behavior she expects from you.

Trying to calm such lady down, is a fatal mistake from your end. I repeat, Don't calm such lady down

You don't need to at all. Cos she will see it as a sign of weakness and drown you with sharp piercing insults. Women are very good when it comes to insulting one with their tongue. It's an inbuilt radio without battery and some women are Pro with such scenarios.

So do yourself and your gf a huge favour.

Just, Walk away.

It's that Simple.

Your gf did nothing wrong by not butting in.

Maybe your gf should have pulled u away and say honey it's OK, then both of u walk away.
Thereby the other lady hurling insults will automatically look like a crazy woman in public eyes.

And you? The Perfect gentleman with your ego intact and safe.

Trust me, handle situations this way and u won't regret it.