₦airaland Forum

Preshy561:
funny,how stupid one looks when generalizing.

He may be pretty close to the truth but, like you, I think it's not right to generalize.

Tozara:
I wouldn't have "unreasonably slurred" if you had condemned the barbarism and jungle justice meted out by jungle animals to those guys in the OP, before declaring the illegitimate extension of your legitimate preferences to people whose preferences legitimately differ from yours.

It came off as though you believed they actually deserved such treatment for being homosexual. That being the case, I have no regard for animals like you. And I make no apologies for however offensive I might have sounded.

I quite understand your pain. It will be unfair to pretend otherwise. My advice is still the same bro. This land is too dangerous for men with dripping asshole. For the time being, you can keep enjoying your stay if you can always creep away from men who still have regard for humanity. Otherwise, they will skin your disgusting manhood and feed it to the dog. And you know what? I'll cheer them so heartily! Those of you who are sold to weird, alien lifestyle can seek solace in some US or UK comfort zones. You can always be sure of finding you type there because we'll never consort with weird things like you. Here in Nigeria, we see you as tiny dot of cancerous cell that must be terminated early before it festers. Good day!

Tozara:
There's just one thing I don't understand. You have the right to cling onto your so-called "African" values. You have the right not to "copy the whites". But what's your business with what choice another adult makes? How does it affect you?

I just wish some influenza epidemic will wipe out all the morons and subhumans in this country. That's right. No respect or sympathy for baboons and barbarians.

I know you aren't expecting me to respond to you when you unreasonably slur. I like people who reason because they always try to make sense.

SOFTENGR:
Then charge them to court and present evidence. That's what civilized people do.
You don't counter a crime by committing more serious crime. Jungle justice is a crime.

You don't get. There is no functional law in Nigeria yet. Judiciary passes a verdict, the executive violates it.

However, the legislature has actually thrashed the so-called Gay bill because it sounds as disgusting to them as it does to the rest of us.

To put it short, the majority of Nigerians have unanimously rejected this thing called homosexuality because that name alone makes us want to puke. People should respect this in lieu of trying to force it down our throat.

SOFTENGR:
Barbaric and uncivilized people.


If I say zoo now, they will attack me

Do you know that all over the world, suicide is a crime. Maybe someday, someone will challenge that law. After all it's your life. Why would someone decide for you when to die and when not to?

In Nigeria, we forbid homosexuality. Let's respect this decision.

We are Africans.

We hate violating our ethics.

On this homo thing, we have refused to copy the white.

To all those into this evil, you better change now or move to the places where you can be accommodated because here in Nigeria, we forbid homo things.

I have spoken!

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silasweb:
Be determined

Well said..

clevvermind:
Learn to be taking your drugs on time ok.

Is he still on drugs? I thought the native agbo he took last time has cured him....

Exceedingly disgusting!!!

And what was your answer?

fineboynl:
will the amount sent enters a dormant account. ?

Yes. But you can't withdraw it until you reactivate the account.

Still @ your service...

CaptainStephen:
memories, truly postiskum was hot but we in northern borno saw more hell.

I remember one notorious BH we caught and the mofo urinated on his body.

I thank God for everything and will still go back if o asked to.

People say, BH is a political game. The same people that created this game are those sending you to die. Those without the opportunity to read the script willingly accepted roles in the game. Most of them have died. The question is: does that make them heroes?

LoreDnz:
His name is John. Let’s call him John. We didn’t start out as lovers. I don’t remember him proposing to me and I don’t remember myself saying yes to his love proposal. Sometimes I tell my friends; “We woke up one day and we were lovers.” That seems the only logical explanation I could give to our situation.

But that took nothing away from us. We loved each other deeply. Well, that’s how I thought until it all came down. These days, one could hardly know the difference between when a man loves you and when he does not truly love you. Both behave the same way until a lot of times are wasted before the truth finally comes out.

I thought John was loving me because I loved him so much. The day I introduced him to my parent as my love object, my mom said; “My daughter, you truly know how to choose a man. He’s a hunk!” My dad liked him too. He saw him as well behaved and had a career that could support a family.



After introducing him to my family, he came to my house every now and then and sometimes spent the night with me. My parent had no issue with that though they asked me occasionally to be careful. Who didn’t know me and John? We were always together and our feelings towards each other were very obvious. You meet us for a second and you know who the two of us are.

One thing was missing. After two years of being together, John never introduced me to his parent. Yeah, I knew his other two siblings, a boy, and a girl. But beyond that, I didn’t know anything of note of his family. At first, I didn’t ask him about that. I thought time would make him do the right thing. Also, I knew guys usually see women as pushy if you ask them to introduce you to their parent. I didn’t want to push our story. I wanted everything to play out naturally.

After two years, I thought I deserve to know more than just two siblings. Even that, I got to know them just because they came around a lot of times. Two years is enough time to know each other better. Two years is enough to make a decision about the future of a relationship.

So, one night I asked him; “When are we going to see your parent? I don’t want them to feel I’ve kidnapped you.” We both laughed and he told me; “I’ve been thinking about that lately. I didn’t know how to tell you to travel over 700 kilometers with me to the North to see my parent.” I told him; “Distance isn’t the problem. It’s important that we do it so let’s do it.”

He kept postponing the dates of the travel. I got restless. I started thinking he was developing cold feet towards the relationship. “Maybe he doesn’t take us seriously like I do,” I thought to myself. Then one Wednesday night he called to tell me, “Get ready we are going on Friday.” I didn’t need to get ready. I was already ready.

On the said Friday, we set off to meet the parent. I didn’t know what to expect. So many questions kept flooding my thoughts; “What if they say no?” “What if they don’t like me?” What if they tell him they’ve already found him a wife?” A lot of these thoughts kept me company until we got there.

I can’t understand their native language. They could speak next to nothing of mine but their demeanor was a happy one. The mum was all laugh and grin when she shook my hands. The dad was also very enthused about me. My heart finally rested from all the negative thoughts. We spent two days with the parent and traveled back to Accra.

It’s been four years into our relationship. Two years after we met his parent and three years after we had met my parent, still no decision on what to do next with our relationship. I knew what next we should do and I tried to remind him of it. He always found a way of sidelining the marriage topic. It’s either “we don’t have to rush into marriage,” or “The time is not right,” or “I’m trying to put things in order so we don’t suffer in marriage.”

I was getting tired of the excuses and the frustrating part of the whole thing was, he was the right man. He did everything right in the relationship. Well, except the excuses. He was there when I needed him. He showed I was his priority and would leave everything else just to be with me. That kept me going and hoping that maybe, just maybe he was trying to pull a surprise on me. A girl can only dream but can’t dream forever. I had hopes but for how long was I supposed to live on hope?

I had a hearty chat with him one night. I told him; “John, I’ve loved you from day one and I believe you do too. It’s almost five years since we’ve been together. Nothing is wrong with us. We hardly fight or do anything wrong against each other so I’m surprised you refuse to let us get married. We don’t have forever. Especially me, I don’t have forever so let’s do this thing once and for all. We have one year to get married. A year from today, if nothing happens, I’ll walk out, and I ...Continue reading..

With no intent towards pun, I've this wafting whisper that this is deliberately fictitious.

So true! Unfortunately, Nigerians hate it when served raw.

DabLord:
They also killed Nigerians too,they dont deserve any apology nor pity

It's not about who killed who, after all siblings of the same mother fight at times.

It's not even about what led to the war. Believe me, if this was the only factor, very few Nigerians would still remember Nigeria once fought a war.

It's about the aftermath of the war — the perpetual suppression, aimed at holding the Igbo man down. For this, The Nigerian State need to apologise and turn a new leaf.

While it's good to mingle with people and make new friends, you must bear in mind that not every friend is worth it. Be careful not to hop into those that will land you into trouble.

That said, try not to overdo anything, lest it becomes encroachment.

You are in a new environment and perhaps, need to learn one or two things.

Now that making new friends seems urgent, I would like to build my advice around your purpose of being there, if you don't mind, that is.

SalamRushdie:
How can the same people coordinate attacks on both Fulani and locals? What's the motive? This is shallow attempt to absolve Fulanis from the killings

Are you seeing what I'm seeing? And someone still say Danjuma was wrong.

Truly, The Nigerian State owe Igbo a-heart-felt apology. The concept of winner gets all is obsolete already.

patchsk:
APC is a disaster.
It's unfortunate they came to power and even more trouble that Buhari was given it's leadership.

May mankind never witness this cataclysmic error in its history again!

God forbid Buhari!

You know what? They aren't planning to let go of power any soon.