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PlayerMeji:
Quote the size in meter square it will be easy than telling people that it is 20 by 100.. Instead say, 200sqm or 2000sqm whatever the case may be.

I tried na the plot size by they want know.

Sapasenator:
How much be ashawo money na. He nor go reach to sell your property. Is your wife still adamant and staying with her family?

Yes she is. Which is one of the reason I'm letting this go so I can fight for the custody of my 2 kids. I nor wan marry again.
Already spoked with my lawyer and legal actions are in proceedings and you know all this needs fund for man heart to strong.

Sapasenator:
Your wife and kid held hostage and you wan sell land to carry Ashawo. Haba wetin dey worry you? Have some self control na.

Well you nor go understand chairman..

immortalcrown:
Suit yourself. Who go buy land costly to build only self-con?

Self-con or 2bed room go enter
Upstair
People de o bros, that needs something portable not too big.

The only thing I know say I de face I never meet them, and I need money like this, if not I intentionally bought it for personal use.

Foodqueen:
Don't be in a rush to sell your property, someone that needs it will buy it. It might even appreciate while you are searching for a buyer.

I de find money to carry arshawo na make..it don tey I knack and I can't hold it anymore.
Make them nor hear say I go rape person daughter.

Slan87 bros how you see am?

immortalcrown:
Where the person go park keke or car? In fact, where the person go keep water tank or generator?

Because of the 20 feet?

Do you know the length of 20 nor be as you de reason am.

If not I nor for put 1.5m to buy am 2021.. spend close to 2m for deed and signing.


Na wa.

You just de open mouth to talk puahh..



How many feet by width you think this house is .


So car nor fit park for the front..


You forget say na 100 normal length..
Tank nor go fit dey back? Abi the standing iron when them dey mount de wide.


Na wa

immortalcrown:
20 by 100 is very bad. Na drainage line?

How? So self-con nor go enter.

20 by 100.



Piece of land available in a prestine area in the south..buy and build.


Ekpan


Asking price 2.2M


Available for inspection and negotiation.

I have been trying to sell a piece of land I bought years back 20 by 100..this few months.

And everyone I tell including agent's always seem to loose interest when they hear the size.. despite it being in a prestine area with lots of buildings constructed (buy and build)


I bought this in a developed area with intend to build portable upstair, like self-con or 2bedroom...but now I changed my mind to sell.

But it's proving so difficult... over 2months now

Did I waste my money?
Does it mean a land with size 20 by 100 has no value?

Well only God knows the truth

Sapasenator:
Op give us an update, what's going on.

They still been held hostage. I took the advice of no communication so I haven't bothered to call for days now.

dododawa1:
Are you a

MAN


?

Yes unlike your father

immortalcrown:
You have money for legal actions but not to settle them?

Better be patient and peaceful to avoid stories that touch.

Meanwhile, you didn't answer my question of the legality of the marriage.

I payed for bride price and church wedding

immortalcrown:
Is the marriage legally-instituted? If not, forget about taking a legal action.

After all, how will you fund the legal step as you have no money to settle your in-laws?

Remain patient and peaceful in the matter.

Patient till when? What about my kids?
I don't know how they are faring over there. It's been close to 2 months now.

Foodqueen:
When you are marrying out of your tribe, pls ensure you know all the customs and traditions before you proceed.

Gra-gra won't solve anything.

If u can, travel back and negotiate.

I have tried to make them understand my situation. They don't even pick my calls anymore like I am the one responsible for their father death.

Good evening all. For anonymity's sake I had to be discreet. I am in distress as it is. My wife recently traveled last month for her late father's burial. I showed her all the support I could give as a husband according to my means, and due to the situation in the country, I could only convince one of my friends to accompany me to her town on the day of the burial to pay homage and I left that same day which her people also saw. I was expecting her to come back after some days of stay but to my surprise, I received a call the following day that there are some certain things I need to do as an in-law and one of her brother chatted me on whatsapp about it.. with pictures I can't post here. That the family is expecting my return that same week. At first I was surprised and felt he was joking. I even tried to make him understand my situation, that I am not financially strong and am hardly surviving and if it can be skipped. Because in my own town it's just that day alone I just need to come with my people and represent after that it's finish..From what was supposed to be a mature conversation resulted in insults because I can't just stand there and see him insult me... He bluntly told me my wife won't return to my house unless I come to do what was demanded of me by them the family. which costs quite alot. I have been depressed ever since about all this. I never bargained for any of this. I am not the one responsible for her father death.. I spoke to my wife about it and she knows our situation hoping she be able to talk to her people..first she was reasonable but now it seems she has joined them in it. For the sake of my kids I am thinking about taking legal action or human rights because this is another form of bully..I payed for her bride price and I can't be treated in such a manner.