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Men in late 30s or early 40s are kind of typical when it comes to settling down (marriage), even though their partner seems to have all the criteria they needed. Why is that??

LOL!!!

U got a point there,

Guys, that for u to answer, If u were in his shoes

More than that. Now they lived in the same city. The biggest challenge is for him to tell the new momma that he can't be with her just because of the baby

Present: He has to be with his current girlfriend because of the baby (the pregnancy was unplanned). Their relationship is kind of rocky. Least to say, he is not in a comfortable position. Hard to say whether he's in love or not.

Past: He distanced himself from his ex girlfriend due to lacks of communication and understanding. They were in love. And she still loves him. He never said to her it was over, and desperately wants to work things out because they have a child together (it was planned).

Latest update: He and his ex are communicating on daily basis, again. He realized its going to be a hard due to the unresolved issues in the past and the confrontation that he has to deal with.

If you were in his shoes, what will you do?

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