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FamilyRe: Could I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4(op): 2:20am On Feb 21, 2023
GOFRONT:
The tumbu wey dey chop your yam dey reside in your yam.
If I can deduce, you mean sey na person wey dey stay for that same compound dey inside that house? I could be wrong oo, but there are incidences like this where turning your thoughts towards: i dont mind or it might not be what am thinking could just be what is happening, its a funny world.
FamilyCould I Be Dating A Secretive Cheater? by interim4(op): 9:20pm On Feb 20, 2023
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.
RomanceCould I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 6:56pm On Feb 20, 2023
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.

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