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EducationRe: Who Is That Teacher, Whenever He Stands Like This, You Start Running? (Picture) by INTROVERT(f): 9:54pm On Sep 24, 2022
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SportsRe: NFF Sacks Entire Technical Crew Of Super Eagles by INTROVERT(f): 12:25pm On Mar 31, 2022
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CelebritiesRe: See The List Of Davido’s Friends Who Have Died Mysteriously Between 2017- 2021 by INTROVERT(f): 2:00pm On Sep 22, 2021
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Foreign AffairsRe: UK Weather: London Flooding Engulfs Homes After A Month’s Rain Falls In 1hr(pix) by INTROVERT(f): 5:15pm On Jul 13, 2021
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CrimeRe: Man Blames Beautiful Girlfriend For Plantain Theft by INTROVERT(f): 8:57pm On May 24, 2021
The mic got me.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians In UAE Are Financing Boko Haram Terrorists – Garba Shehu by INTROVERT(f): 6:52pm On Mar 31, 2021
Just say Atiku.
FashionRe: Latest Ankara Short Gown Styles by INTROVERT(f): 9:10am On Jan 16, 2021
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HealthRe: Dr Kingsley Onwuzuruigbo Is Dead by INTROVERT(f): 7:52pm On Jan 14, 2021
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BusinessRe: NDIC Shuts Down 42 Microfinance Banks by INTROVERT(f): 3:04pm On Dec 21, 2020
vibbb:
Ok, but how will they repay/refund customers who has savings with them ?
As the deposit insures of Nigeria, NDIC operates a DIF (Deposit Insurance fund) to which banks contribute about 0.1% of their earnings every year. This money is debited at source by the Central Bank and NDIC invests the money in government tbills etc. When a bank closes NDIC pays depositors of MFBs 200k and DMBs 500K. Therefore every depositor of these closed MFB will be paid up to the sum to 200k. I pity you if you owe any of these MFBs because NDIC, Amcon Is coming for your behind.
RomanceRe: What Nairaland Moniker Do You Miss? by INTROVERT(f): 8:06pm On Oct 31, 2020
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Her you mean?
CrimeAn Opinion On Rape: Obsession And Masculinity by INTROVERT(op): 5:32pm On Jun 06, 2020
Quite a lot have been said on the causes of rape; porn addiction, provocative dressings, sexualization of the media etc. Well, I'm glad to inform you that none of these is a cause of rape. You shouldn't be surprised, are you? OK! Get a cup of juice and let's unravel this together.

In my years of researching on rape culture and gender politics, I have come to the understanding that there exists a uniform and underlying trend in the different cases of rape examined. This underlying motif is the obsession about masculinism fuelled by the asymmetrical power dynamics between both genders. Confused? Now, let's unpack this.

More often than not, the urge to a rape a lady/girl stems from the perpetrator's conviction and certitude to overpower the victim. The rapist's conviction of his ability to subdue his victim exacerbates the urge to exercise this supposed supremacy. The impulse to rape a lady is a sexualized form of expressing male dominance over women.



You may want to argue that provocative dressings induce sexual arousal. Undauntedly, yes! But no, it does not incite sexual violation! A conversation with convicted rapists revealed that less and less of these rape cases were stimulated by provocative dressings. Let us take a look at some scenarios.

Scenario A: Guy asks lady out. Lady refused. Guy raped lady.

Scenario B: Guy and Lady live in the same neighborhood. Lady is the classy type. Guy despised lady's poshness. Guy raped lady.

Scenario C: Lady's house was robbed and Lady was raped.

Scenario D: Girl lives with distant relatives. Man of the house preys on girl's innocence and girl was serially abused.

Scenario E: Guy and Lady were going out. Guy lavishes money on Lady. Guy believes Lady should reciprocate this gesture with mind blowing coitus. Lady refused. Guy rapes Lady.



In all these scenarios, one thing is common which is the tendency one gender has to exert its will regardless of the other gender's willingness or reluctance. This is the basic idea behind the rape culture - the desire to get hold of a woman irrespective of her stance. This obsessive desire is premised on the certainty of getting some cunts from a woman with the use of male physical supremacy.

Come to think of it, do males not dress provocatively too? With the upsurge of penis revealing pants, do girls not get sexually provoked too? Will it be justifiable if girls begin to rape boys indiscriminately on the basis of provocative dressing? Did your mind just tell you that is impossible? Oh yea, it did! Wonder why? Your mind just told you it is impossible because it is an extremely rare case for a lady to overpower a man. Now, the key word is OVERPOWERING. Are you still in doubt that rape is essentially an expression of power and dominance? Perhaps, the seemingly minimization of male rape is born out of the rarity of female dominance and not because girls ain't sexually provoked too!

Porn addiction? Did I hear you say porn addiction is a cause of rape? Oh no, But girls watch porn too! There are girls who are addicted to pornography. Why don't these female porn addicts rape boys too? Oh, I remember! Only a few girls can overpower a man.



Rape, no doubt, is an expression of obsessive masculinism reinforced by the asymmetrical power dynamics between both genders. Rape is the sexualization of male dominance and control over women. Oh, I didn't mention marital rape, right? More than power dynamics and domination, marital rape reeks of a sense of ownership and subjugation – the belief that the man owns his wife and she must be accessible to him any day, anytime according to his wish and desires. The trivialisation of the emotions and opinions of the female in a marital relation sustains the idea of the impossibility of marital rape. Rape, in whatever manner of manifestation, is a gruesome dehumanization of the woman person.


Saheedat ‘Tobi Adetayo is a doctoral student of Philosophy at the University of Ibadan, Nigeria. She teaches Logic and critical thinking at the Center for General Studies, University of Ibadan. Saheedat is keenly interested in gender issues and career development.


https://m.thenigerianvoice.com/news/288707/rape-why-are-thou-rampant.html


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BusinessRe: Things That Happen When You're Broke by INTROVERT(f): 1:40pm On Apr 17, 2020
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Has anyone watched 'event 201' on YouTube conducted by John Hopkins University.
HealthRe: Covid-19: Death Of Man In Self-Isolation Creates Panic Among Neighbours by INTROVERT(f): 3:55pm On Apr 10, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Lawmakers Repeatedly Tried To Manipulate NSIP Beneficiaries-presidential Aide by INTROVERT(f): 10:55am On Apr 09, 2020
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PoliticsRe: [VIDEO] Atiku Abubakar's Son Mohammed Speaks From Isolation by INTROVERT(f): 7:34pm On Apr 02, 2020
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CelebritiesRe: Atiku Abubakar's Son Speaks To Nigerians From His Isolation Center (video) by INTROVERT(f): 7:29pm On Apr 02, 2020
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RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Faints After Her Boyfriend Proposed To Her On Her Birthday (video) by INTROVERT(f): 7:28pm On Apr 02, 2020
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CrimeRe: 20yr Old Boy Beheads His 4-year-old Nephew With Axe In Anambra(photos) by INTROVERT(f): 7:18pm On Mar 27, 2020
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CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor Picks Up Award, Goes On A Cruise To Celebrate It (pics) by INTROVERT(f): 1:41pm On Mar 04, 2020
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FamilyRe: Wife Publicly Shames Her Cheating Husband In Spectacular Fashion by INTROVERT(f): 2:08pm On Feb 21, 2020
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PoliticsRe: No Leader In Northern Nigeria Can Afford To Be Happy - Emir Sanusi by INTROVERT(f): 2:54pm On Feb 19, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Fani-kayode Replied EFCC Boss Over His Comment On Coronavirus by INTROVERT(f): 2:35pm On Feb 19, 2020
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CrimeRe: I Stabbed My Customer To Death Out Of Anger- Bar Owner Arrested In Lagos Says by INTROVERT(f): 2:32pm On Feb 19, 2020
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Nairaland GeneralRe: Man Gets Electrocuted While Plucking Mango With An Iron Rod (photos) by INTROVERT(f): 2:25pm On Feb 19, 2020
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PoliticsRe: VIDEO: Asari Dokubo React To Supreme Court Judgement That Sacked Lyon by INTROVERT(f): 2:20pm On Feb 19, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Slain Aso Rock Director Laetitia: Police Make Two Arrests by INTROVERT(f): 2:17pm On Feb 19, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Monday Bubou-Obolo Steps Down, Abraham Ngobere Elected Speaker Bayelsa Assembly by INTROVERT(f): 2:14pm On Feb 19, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Buhari Replaces Joy Nunieh With Kemebradikumo Pondei As NDDC Acting MD by INTROVERT(f): 2:10pm On Feb 19, 2020
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Music/RadioRe: Loseguard By Cjthegamer by INTROVERT(f): 8:47pm On Feb 14, 2020
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