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This is disheartening.
May God help the country at this trying time

Nigeria my country

Welcome to Nigeria, land of wonders.
My own concern is the non challant attitude of the security agents. You wonder how fast they arrest cyberbully suspects, but very hard to track Kidnappers.

RIP man and again, "Welcome to Nigeria"

Very correct.

SoNature:
They must have skipped several classes for her to be able to achieve that feat. Whenever I see people like this, I always say that book knowledge and in-depth reasoning are not the same thing. Nobody should have a PhD if they aren't up to 25 and above. Congratulations to her!

Fake life everywhere.

I always advise people to live within their means. Social media pressure have sent people to their early graves.

I must belong by force

The truth is the security agents are overwhelmed.

Until the government creates a livable environment where the citizens think less of crime, the same story will always happen.

Remember, Netherlands recently shut down 10 maximum prisons due to declining crime rate.

Nigeria is in big mess right now. It's so unfortunate

libertyfather:
all this still happens because our police/government will do nothing

Oh Superted and Sporty.
Memories

Beremx:
One of my best cartoons

Voltron
Super Ted
Fraggle Rock
Jimbo
Terrahawk
Scooby Doo
Pinky and the Brain
Ovide

So many I can't remember

You're funny man

Bluezy13:
How person go carry clear eye give portable moto for credit?

I understand how you feel bro.
My advice for you is to work on yourself. I mean you should strive hard for success.

If you're a Christian, then join the choir in a big church, learn how to play instrument.

You will be alright.

Lastly, always prioritize yourself, be selfish, strong willed and hungry for greater heights.

The truth is no woman will respect you if you display weakness. Read that again.

I wish you the best

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

...abi.
Let her go out.

Someone said women are their own problems. I think I'm starting to believe this.

Tokskob2008:
We have a whole lot of better men out there, just leave the the poor man alone and go satisfy your curiosity....


Na when you enter street finish your eyes go clear and it would be too late to make a reverse then.....

Could you please stop advising her.
To her, the man is not up to her demands.

A man who pays rent, power and water bills in this present economy is a mini god. Ko easy

That's women for you anyway. Even God can not satisfy them.

We don't value what we have until we lose it.

Brandiebird:
Do you not think him paying for everything and taking the burden of your shoulders is him supporting you?

Sometimes we get so caught up with the things that we don’t have that we take for granted the things we do have.

There are single mothers out there, even married women, who are the sole breadwinners in their homes. The things you are worried about are luxuries they can’t afford.

I honestly think you need to be kinder, appreciative and supportive of your husband for holding the family down.

As a woman you can get more by just being nice to your husband. I don’t think your husband is some rich man who is being stingy, I think he is a responsible man who is trying to keep his families head above water. He isn’t out there spending his money on small girls and neglecting his family.

My sister cherish what you have before it’s too late. Treat him well, let him know how valuable he is to your life and family, and stop being resentful towards him because it’s the right thing to do and then you might actually get the same treatment back from him.

In all honesty if you took some accountability for your actions then you’d realise that he set you up with a business and you made some poor decisions which ran the business into trouble.

Don’t be the kind of person who blames external factors instead of reflecting and recognising where you went wrong.

I’m sorry if you feel that I am putting you down or putting all the blame on you. I could just as easily tell you to leave your husband but you know that would not help your situation because you can’t take care of your kids and yourself since your husband is the one footing all your bills.

Peace is golden. Lol

Cotonou12:
My wife don carry remote since 4pm because of this program .

I no even watch Chelsea match today

What if both of you agree to place your child(ren) names

JB0707:
My husband and I both live in the uk and we join all our money and investments together, all the properties my husband acquired in Nigeria doesn’t have my name on it, at first I wasn’t bothered but now i am bothered because his family is chaotic. I started asking for my name to be included and i am not ok with the response am getting. I feel i am just working and I have nothing in my name. I love him but I don’t trust his family. Should i keep insisting or start my investment separately. I am just confused

For more Tax and hardship, text FG to 419.
Insensitive and heartless leaders .

What a joke

Before nko
We import almost everything coupled with government propaganda.

1 Naira to 1 Dollar. Lol

Hmm
Our dear 1st class citizens have done it again.

You won't see the DSS when you need them. Rubbish security agents.

Fake news.
This can't be Seyi Law now

Kingsmeal:
Credit: Seyi Law|X

Maybe he used Chatgpt.
Anything you can ever think of, or imagine is possible in Nigeria

The peesident must be fine o.
He should come and finish what he started.

Zulu11zulu:
Why suddenly cancel his trip to US someone should check out to our president I hope he is fine .

Lol
At least, it's moving.

Welcome to Nigeria.

Intact we should start paying "Breathing Tax".
Heartless leaders

campbelljosh:
Soon they will be charging us for using phones

Another one.
Yet a shameless president still consider himself fit to run the country's affairs.

Bullion Van president

How do you mean by nothing is working under this government. What about CRIME?

Bunch of heartless leaders. Despite all these suffering, how can a sane person add to people's burden.

Only God knows how these people sleep at night, maybe their conscience is dead

Watinhapen:
Thieves in corporate attire. This Tinubu illegitimate government is a disaster. Nothing is working in the country. The only thing they know is how to impoverished the masses.

Hmm
Crime everywhere, from the top to bottom.

Tale of a country where hardwork does not pay.

Bandits, the untouchable 1st class citizens

Due to nonchallant attitude of some heartless leaders.

How much is the minimum wage again?

Garri of all foods?
SMH

"Priority"
Thank you

SoNature:
I criticised the project when it was awarded because I thought that the trillions of naira it should engulf should go into more important industries, chiefly agriculture and power.

But then, I have come to understand that this country doesn't understand what is called a priority and that has made it a big mess!

.....and you wonder why this country is not progressing?

5 people like the guy in a country and the country is doomed.

doffman:
It is glaring . This guy is not normal . Posting trash to get likes from his fellow people .

The bible says "Love your neighbour as yourself "

Sudan is what?

Righteousness2:
..

Heart breaking but nobody cares. Millions are dead and displaced but no one cares.
No UN emergency meeting is called
Nobody is on the streets of London
Nobody is on the streets of melbourne
Nobody is on the streets of South Africa
Nobody is on the streets of Berlin
Nobody is rioting and protesting in the universities in US, UK, Europe or wherever.
Nobody is shouting innocent civilians.

Because it has nothing with GOD ALMIGHTY Chosen nation and people, the Jews..
NO JEWS! NO NEWS!
This is Satanic Hypocrisy From the pit of Hell that your likes have donated yourselves to the devil to use. Emergency humanitarians

ONE Sure thing is ISRAEL is GOD'S Signet on the Face of the Earth.
IT is through ISRAEL that GOD deals with the Earth.
You Bless ISRAEL, You are Blessed.
You Curse ISRAEL, You are Cursed.
Choose wisely were you stand.

Who certified her dead?
They should instead call the ambulance

Free education and flight?

Some prisons are better than some countries anyway.

Life is truly a mirage

Rexymania:
These were once handsome men and women