₦airaland Forum

Bro, that's women for you.

My advice for all men is "Prioritize yourself in all you do". Very important.
Refuse to be blinded by love, belief or religion. Be intentional about being selfish.

And above all, never be afraid to walk away at anytime.

My cent!!!

Liazz:
Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.
We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.
Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.
I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.
This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.

I am of the opinion that, Nigerian government can also build a standard refinery like Dangote's.

A country should do better that individual.

Enough on this back and forth now. Ah

Someone once told us that, to produce electricity is not rocket science.

Corruption will not let any tangible development flourish in this country.

We'll continue deceiving ourselves

Many people experienced this, but they later surmount the emotional impact.

You will be fine, with time.

Brazino:
I hate topics like this cos I didn't enjoy my childhood because I didn't live with my parents. I was suffering in the hands of my uncle and his terrible wife. I wasn't even allowed to go to sch. Was always abused, insulted, emotionally and physically assaulted. Till date, I don't know what love is. I can't love, and I don't want anybody to show me love. Loving me seems like you're about to hurt me.

May God judge all those who suppressed my childhood and denied me love. Thank you for making me timid even as an adult. But no worries, I'm trying to overcome it

Your wish is granted by God's grace.

I strongly believe it will happen this year.

Gentlestudent95:
One day, I will fly from Nigeria to London then from London to Paris. My wish

Peace is golden.

Peace is beautiful

Peace is life

I choose peace

Exactly the problem.

How can a ruthless criminal claims repentance and then reintegrate into the society?

We know what to do when ready.

mecuries:
and after a few more killings, the bandits would be given "presidential pardon"... How pitiful

Vigilante, not police or soldiers?

The government needs to include a new approach to this insecurity.

Nigeria, my country

You're very correct, but unfortunately we Nigerians will still criticise them and even turn it to tribal rants.

We have a very loonnnggggg way to go. Very looong

thesicilian:
Until security agents start arresting all these twitter influencers to come and confirm their stories, they will not have sense.

Good news at last.

I am very happy today.

Peace to the world

Maybe the guy is a spirit and not human or he is not in this country.

Nigeria my country

fuckingAyaya:
So DSS don't know where this guy is but they are always swift to root out content creators that criticize government.

Arrest the Benue killers already.

Where is DSS, NIA, NPF and others.

I'm beginning to believe that Nigerian Armed forces is just formalities

This is not the important news we are expecting from Benue state

War is never a good experience.
I pray for peace all over the world.

Anything negatively affecting helpless children is saddening.

God, please let there be peace.

Man, with no name?
Social media. Hmmmm

It's alright

You've got a great heart.
Science is wonderful

lebienconnu:
I thought of this concept long ago. I am happy it's materializing in my lifetime. Kudos to you, Elon.

#StopAllWars

Thank you.
Most importantly, where is DSS?

Very funny set of people

nedu666:
Believe this and you will believe anything. Since last year the attacks started, has any single person being arrested and prosecuted. Since last year has the military stopped any single attack. Does it mean that all the intelligence Since 2023 has resulted in nothing

It's true anyway. Afterall both incidents were caught on camera.
Police may also invite the bandits for questioning. Who knows?

What a funny country

joeyswift:
What has the police done about the bandits,kidnappers and terrorists brandishing automatic riffles?

Is it the same NYSC in Nigeria? Lol
Bro, face your business and remember this quote "MONEY STOPS NONSENSE"

Read it again

Agozskey:
Maybe I don't see it that way... But I'll kill dat inferiority complex... Thank you boss

I have said it before, and reiterate that, there is more to these killings. Not ordinary.

Anyways, some people left the country not because of money, but safety is paramount.

I can't imagine what the affected families are going through right now.

Nigeria is gone.

I WISH I HAVE SUPER POWERS

flokii:
No now Mr. President.. you can't take lands in Benue to build ranch for killers disguising themselves as herders.
Such a move will be perceived as victory for the killers of Benue people.

Anyone that wants to rear cattle should set up a ranch in Sokoto or Zamfara to graze cattle in their States. This is not a well thought-out solution coming from the President.

What we need is genuine solution.. order the Armed Forces to go after the killers and make them pay for the crimes they have committed.. this cosmetic kind of approach will only worsen the situation.

It's more than meet the eyes.
What a shame to the giant of Africa

Go to any immigration office close to you

Even the pope. Ah
It is finished. Completely finished

FactBoyz:
The pope had to make a video praying for the victims, a US Senator made a video, VDM visited, Sabinus spoke up before Nigerian government reacted two days later after the incident. And then they come here with canopies to fool around as if they dont know who's sponsoring the atrocities. KEEP FOOLING

Maybe I know you bro
I stayed at oke itunu, very close to mammy market

Racoon:
I play this ball die. Army children school Mokola Barracks Ibadan

Hmmmm
This is probably the longest sentence in the world.

helinues:
First be a man first before you can understand.

This man should be arrested already. What sort of ignorance is this?

The last time I checked, he is a criminal.

I still don't understand the motive behind this post

...and hunting people spraying naira notes in parties

destinychildolu:
They have infiltrated members of IRGC, simple. If not that we have stupid leaders, what the intelligence agencies should have done is to recruit top members of Boko Haram to give information or even plant in some of their members amongst them. Na to dey chase protesters up and down our intelligence agencies good for

The promise. In the 80s
Vickram and Sunita

April4th:
Yeh Vaada Raha

They should all go to court. lol

Nonsense and video

That means 'It is finished' and Jesus wept. lol

Welcome to wonders republic called Nigeria.

God, please save this country