₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,326,610 members, 8,427,254 topics. Date: Monday, 15 June 2026 at 03:47 PM

Toggle theme

Iykenson's Posts

Nairaland ForumIykenson's ProfileIykenson's Posts

1 2 (of 2 pages)

FamilyRe: 10 Choices You Will Regret In 10 Years by Iykenson(m): 3:16pm On Jul 22, 2014
well said
FamilyRe: Scary Moments As A Kid by Iykenson(m): 3:13pm On Jul 22, 2014
nothing scared me most than the thought of a dead friend or relative and injections.
FamilyRe: Why Do You Think Ladies Don't Reason Straight by Iykenson(m): 3:07pm On Jul 22, 2014
onegig: You started well but ended badly.

Women don't think differently because of either brain or rib or whatever. Where did you even get that sef?

As regards your question. I will give you the benefit of doubt and think you are TRULY seeking enlightenment. SOME of them are just more emotional than practical when faced with making a decision. Some research have attributed this to the chemical composition and hormones in their bodies while some have attributed it to societal and environmental conditions.

I will partly go with the second and would give you my reasons later.

I witnessed a woman on April 1 who was pranked on by her sister about this april fool thing. She was told her shop was burning and you can imagine what she did. She started rolling on the floor crying and wailing to the point of injuring herself and almost getting hit by a car. Guess what. It was just a prank and she later discovered this.

That's a reference point. Compare her reaction to that of a man who was told almost same thing. What did he do? He was visibly disturbed but picked a bike and headed straight to the shop to go access the damage and see if he could salvage anything. He got there and was relieved.

Compare both reactions and see which was practical and which was illogical.

SOME ladies have been brought up with that thought. The society is also ingrained with that stereotype. A female is weak and should cry and feel helpless while the male should never cry and should always be strong. I.e shield away from letting emotions over rule their thought processes.

Lets refer back to the 4 critical steps of good thinking. It states:

1: Knowledge
Identification and recall of information is key here. Answer the basic questions (Who,What,Why,Where, etc.)

2:Comprehension

Organize your thoughts, select
the facts, choose the ideas. Be able to interpret and paraphrase what you are experiencing.



Suffice to say for SOME ladies things would have gone out of the window here. Once you panic and let emotions overrule you then you can't comprehend neither can you move on to the next step. So critical thinking stops here for them.

3: Application
Be able to use facts, rules, and
apply the principles.


4: Analysis
This is where the true learning really shines. Separate the whole topic or story into components/parts and pick each of these apart. Examine and then infer.


Why did i go partly with societal conditions? Because we have women who have risen above this stereotype that women are weak and ruled by emotions.

Example; Most Nurses daily see and recieve gory patients who are involved in accidents or have a disease which even the strongest man would cringe at when he sees it but what do we have? These set of females have learnt to hold their emotions in check and let critical thinking over rule them. They respond to emergencies and give those victims the needed health services without panicking. That's just an example. We have lots of females out there who have learnt to overcome this societal classification which impedes thought processes. If these females can overcome their emotions they would be better thinkers and make better decisions. There's no bodily or mental deficiency in them. It's that simple.
on point
FamilyRe: Husband's Or Boyfriend's Reaction When You Told Him You Were Pregnant by Iykenson(m): 2:56pm On Jul 22, 2014
maysimsimple: Cant wait for the good news. Been praying for the past 2 years for the news. My wife also been praying fervently. I know God will answer our prayer before the end of the year. Cant wait, I will be over the moon......
it must surely happen. just remember your parachute when you go over the moon; for safe landing.
FamilyRe: Show Of Shame: Mother Fights Daughter Over Boyfriend In Delta State by Iykenson(m): 2:50pm On Jul 22, 2014
no be small thing. *END TIME THINGS*
FamilyRe: Your Opinion On Inter-religious And Inter-tribal Marriages by Iykenson(m): 9:05am On Jul 22, 2014
i think religion and tribe should have nothing atall to do with marriage, it's between the two adults that are involved.
FamilyRe: Why You Should Not Live With Him Before You Marry Him by Iykenson(m): 8:49am On Jul 22, 2014
"why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free." i like that. Tell them!
FamilyRe: Why You Should Not Live With Him Before You Marry Him by Iykenson(m): 8:49am On Jul 22, 2014
"why buy the cow when you can get the mlk for free." i like that. Tell them!
FamilyRe: Ungrateful Son Tells Mother Not To Visit Him Anymore Because She Is Too Ugly by Iykenson(m): 8:43am On Jul 22, 2014
i guess the man doesn't know how precious mothers are. they are very unique because we've got one each, whether ugly or pretty.
FamilyRe: Ladies Beware (picture) by Iykenson(m): 8:36am On Jul 22, 2014
funny
FamilyRe: Dating/marrying A Younger Man by Iykenson(m): 8:34am On Jul 22, 2014
i do not see age difference as an issue in a relationship. what matters to me is understanding. the problems we have in africa and nigeria in particular are peer and family pressure.
SportsRe: FG Responds To FIFA Ban By Stopping N253 Million NFF Monthly Pay! by Iykenson(m): 8:20am On Jul 16, 2014
kokoA: Do coporate bodies sponsoring other FAs around the world interfer with their activities?

Meanwhile, I am insupport of the government's move. It is high time NFF get up and start sourcing funds for themselves.
yes, the current investigation into the 2018 and 2022 world cup bidding process was forced by FIFA sponsors.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Final Free Dragnet GSE Past Questions And Answers ( Old And New Package) by Iykenson(m): 9:10pm On Jan 06, 2014
plz help a brother and send a copy to akasiugwuiyke@gmail.com . God will bless u as u do so.
PhonesRe: Airtel Bb Plan On Android by Iykenson(m): 4:33pm On Dec 16, 2013
plz, did anyone receive a message from airtel that BBComplete is now #1000. Also u can get one month free when u subscribe for two month.
PhonesThe Network With The Best Data Plan For Android Phones. by Iykenson(op): 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2013
Plz, which network has the best data plan for android phones in nigeria. Plz, try to state the rates and amount when you post your comments. thanks.
Christianity EtcRe: Imo Youths Lock Out Bishop-elect by Iykenson(m):
For their info,any serving bishop writes the names of his likely replacement incase he dies before his retirement. The people the bishop happens to have chosen are scrutinized by the priests in the diocese for any impediment. Mbise people cannot tell me that late bishop chikwe did not suggest his possible replacement. I will like to tell them that okpalaeke was appointed because of the over vaulting ambition of the mbise priests in the diocese to become bishop and as a result have destroyed their respective credibilities of becoming the next bishop of ahiara. Chikwe, an imo bishop must have nominated his brothers as possible replacement, so mbise people should leave arinze out of the matter, put their house together and ask their priests what happened. It's only when the late bishop's nominations couldn't sail through that the papacy had to through the advice of the church leaders in Nigeria appoint okpalaeke. The should ask what happens to any church that protests against the papacy. They might end up not having any of their own as a bishop maybe till the dawn of a new century (100yrs).
NYSCRe: A thread for corpers posted to Rivers by Iykenson(m): 12:49pm On Mar 02, 2013
Ok, thanks alot. Plz throw more light on what u mean by terrible.
NYSCRe: A thread for corpers posted to Rivers by Iykenson(m): 5:17am On Mar 02, 2013
Hello people, just got my call up letter yesterday and it says rivers. Can someone plz tell me how the camp and life after camp is like over there.
NYSCRe: Which State Has The Best Nysc Camp? by Iykenson(m): 10:06am On Feb 23, 2013
Please, can anyone tell me something about akwa ibom state camp.
NYSCRe: Nysc 2013 Batch A And Jamb Reg. Number. How True? by Iykenson(m): 2:34pm On Feb 03, 2013
Thank God i passed through the University of Nigeria. We don't talk about things like that, infact it sounds strange. In my school, graduates are mobilised automatically once you're within the age limit.
But come to think of it, are students being asked to produce their jamb whatever b4 mobilisation didn't they do so b4 gaining admission? I think it's the school that should be doing this not the intending corpers. Unless the person came in through the back door,if you know what i mean. IT FEELS GOOD TO BE A LION.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Top 5 Government Agencies To Work For by Iykenson(m): 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2012
Pals, do u ppl just mention agency or what. What's ur yardstick for grading them?

1 2 (of 2 pages)