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Literature › Re: The Official Literature/Writing Section Poster Of The Year Award 2012 by Izuone: 6:53pm On Dec 08, 2012

I nominate Efemena xy. oya continue the lola story.

Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by Izuone: 12:20pm On Dec 07, 2012

bennyraz: and if i try to make people reason beyond their limitations will that make me a bad Nairalander! I pay people what they pay me and i honor people that honor me.. Its a game though but i just want you guys to have that second thought #GOODWILL

Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by Izuone: 11:48am On Dec 07, 2012

I give my vote to achukwunet, the chick fine die. She must have been born on a sunday morning.

Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland - Semi Finals by Izuone: 2:10am On Dec 07, 2012

But why

Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland - Semi Finals by Izuone: 9:23pm On Dec 06, 2012

I vote for tashamania

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Romance › Re: Guys, Claiming That Women Are Materialistic Is Not An Excuse To Be Stingy!! by Izuone: 6:11pm On Sep 03, 2012

What's the definition of stingyness . How can we quantify it ? Does it have degrees ? Personally this issue has been constant in my r/ships cos i spend my money on percentages ,if i spend more than five thousand on my gf in a month ,you won't get any other thing till the next month ,if i eventually do ,i will shorten the next month own. What i don't understand is how a lady that does not spend any money on me will turn back and call me stingy. What actually is stingyness ? I want a working definition from the ladies. Is there not something like prudent spending ? Should i give what will affect my purse negatively to my gf because she gives me to.to and forget that there is a place called tomorrow. . . .. Forget my plans and projects ? Let's be reasonable here.

Romance › Re: Guys, Claiming That Women Are Materialistic Is Not An Excuse To Be Stingy!! by Izuone: 6:10pm On Sep 03, 2012

There are days that heart will cut me if a lady comes with her bills ,not now . I have bought enough phones ,done enough hairs that i choose the ones i will do,we will quarrel ,make up and the circle continues again.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 9:33pm On Aug 03, 2012

M M M: Fu ck 1 of d girls dat works 4 her

for what ? Unto what end ? I can't do that . Sorry

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 10:19am On Aug 03, 2012

M M M: Op
¥ not go for one of her sells girl in her shop & ask her 4 sex,

4 crying out sake u re d man here

so what would you do in my position . What course of action will you take.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 8:38am On Aug 03, 2012

qualified: U guys probably brought in sex too early into d r/ship thus it was built on sex n rewards.

I also think d lady MAY:
1. Not love u
2. Have someone else, since she is already threatening to collect d hair money from him
3. Be too difficult for u to control if u marry her
4. Never contribute to d home later in ur marriage

think, look, pray, leave s.ex til marriage, think, decide. Good luck

thank you but this r/ship for now is not geared towards marriage ,she has told me many times that she does not want to get married except to the father of her child ,she had a child when she was 14 ,13 years ago. So she does not want children from different fathers though the child stays with her married sister in another state. Yes we started sex early in the r/ship as early as the second date, when she agreed to date me. I felt she choosed to date me ,though we have known for over a year before we started going out ,on our first date she was the one that flashed me probably out of boredom or loneliness, before i called to take her out. Yeah she has many people pestering her, some even for marriage and she has told me so and turned them down for the above reasons and told me that why she agreed for me was because i wanted just friendship and not marriage . Also the ex is very much around and comes to disturb her sometimes and i know their story and we ve meet at her place many times ,she has told me she has no interested whatsoever of being with him again of which i believe her. He hurt her so much in the past. I never reward for sex though i have bought her creams,gave her money for hair several times and catered for one of her needs or the other and i have told her that i don't see my girlfriends as my responsibility and she tells me that "i am too wise" . To give her this one will be i feel setting it in stone ,that every time her cream finishes or she would do her hair that i would bear the expenses and i want to erase that from her mind plus the money is not on me unless i go to bank which i hate doing. She thinks that am just being stingy but for me and just making judicious use of my meagre resources . It doesn't make sense to me what she does with her money. She has told me many times that she love me even yesternight as i went to see her. Probably i should test that love. I don't think i should run away from the r/ship because of this ,just find a way of handling it and dealing with my girl . I think that is what maturity is all about. So i brought this her to tap from other peoples knowledge and experience. How do i go about this.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 8:40pm On Aug 02, 2012

Mbj,i would value your input,i see you viewing th thread.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 6:20pm On Aug 02, 2012

SAFO: Hold up hold up holup.

She has her own tailoring service and she's pestering you for curtains

Tell her this "b!tch make your own curtains". This should empower you enough to get your manhood back and move on.

you are talking see the sms she sent me this evening " i love you too but give me money to make my hair. Why are you doing this to me or do you want me to collect money from another person" because i sent her a love sms and she replied with this . Well i will wait and she her reaction but the hair won't come from me.

Romance › Re: A Romantic Date To Remember - Good Or Bad, Please Share Your Experiences Here by Izuone: 4:05pm On Aug 02, 2012

naijathings: i had a date fixed with a pretty girl living close to LASU. so she chose the place and time in the afternoon.
i finally located the place and got there very tired because that road is not child's play.
When I saw her, she had 2 other fine girls with her so we stood and spoke for a while and i was waiting for her to tell the other girls goodbye but she was making it clear that the girls would not go anywhere.
there is this kingstine JO around there so i got inside and they followed. we sat on the same table and I got up to buy a big bowl of ice-cream, relaxed my tired bones, after about 10 minutes, I stood up with the rest of the ice-cream and got into my car and drove off. She was in shock. She be fine girl, me na very fine guy especially as money come dey my pocket. No time for rubbish.

i hate it when ladies play ulc prank on me.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 9:57pm On Aug 01, 2012

Onegai: it's trade by barter. Pay her and have her body. Isn't that the agreement you made with her?

i made no such agreement with her and will not make so in the future though i tried something like that in the past and ended up hating the girl. It's not healthy.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 8:19pm On Aug 01, 2012

Skii:

OP, sounds to me like you may be the one with the issue here, as there are always two sides to a story.its possible you unconsciously reward for intimacy, so it may have become psychological for your current gf as well as your previous one. She now wants the reward first

no , i don't do that either

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 7:49pm On Aug 01, 2012

slimyem: you started the relationship on wrong terms and its almost too late to salvage it.
If you truly want seriousness,then you have to be sure your girl wants the same with you! (i'm not certain she does though)
your best shot is to sit and have the serious talk with her..and if you guys are gon continue,you have to stop demanding for sex like it's your right since you pay her bills...and your giving her whatever should be out of affection/necessity not as payment for sex!
If you are sure you are both on the same page,start afresh!
If not,end the symbiosis and find a new girl for a real relationship!

this r/ship didn't start like this ,infact the one before this was exactly like that and i had to end it. The first time she manifested something like this was about two months into the r/ship then it was the issue of hair and cream ,that is my responsibility as her bf to do her hair and buy her cream . I had done that for her the previous month and i just didn't want to repeat it and there was quarrels and i later gave her the money and she was saying things like i can't date a man who won't buy my cream and do my hair for me. I thought she was just angry but now ,she thinks its her right.coupled with some other small small demands. Am thinking of discontinuing the r/ship but is this enough ground or can i still steer the boat around.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 2:46pm On Aug 01, 2012

slimyem: ...you are more interested in sex with her and she's more interested in the money you'd trade for it..
50-50-No cheating!

yes i want sex and i demand it from her but i don't like Paying for it and this r/ship didn't start like this but it is degenerating into that and i don't want it so. I would Rather be on my own that let it become so. The essense of this thread is , how can i salvage this relationship so that it doesn't become money for hand,back for ground.i am just managing ,but i can pay her bills but am not looking for a person that i would be paying her bills. I want somebody who will be there for me and allow me share her joys and pains and also share mine.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 2:23pm On Aug 01, 2012

omega25red: poster

you are being extorted. she is holding her vag as a hostage and you can't see it until you pay the ransom

Too bad, your relationship is based on money for hand yansh for ground

that is not what i want and it has been bothering my heart and i love this lady from my heart . Infact for the past three months we have been practically always together during our free times.

Romance › Re: Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 2:12pm On Aug 01, 2012

ThoniaSlim: Thank You! Your relationship is obviously a transaction so pay up!

i don't want that type of r/ship which is why am bothered . What do you advice me to do.she has done something similar before and i paid up and now she has started again. How do i curb this her habit

Romance › Help Me Out by Izuone(op): 12:30pm On Aug 01, 2012*

My girlfriend spend the night over at my house but she refused me bedmatics. why ? she is not happy. She has problems and i am not showing concern . She wants to do her hair and i should bring the money and i have told her that i don't have the money now that she should use her money but she said if she do the hair by herself that i would hear am. The second issue is that i should give her money to put curtain in her house to which i have not said anything . This issue of curtain has been on ground for over a month now . I expect her to put curtain in her own house. The issue of hair ,i gave her money to do her hair two weeks ago. The one that she just loosened . She has refused to allow me make love to her for over ten days now because of those issues or so i think. I have known the lady for 4 months now but i am no longer comfortable with her denying me sex if i don't met her need . How do i tackle this issue. She works . She has her own tailoring shop and people working under her.

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Romance › Re: Who Would U Choose? by Izuone: 10:12am On Jul 20, 2012

I will carry amyg

Health › Re: Combination 3 Pills by Izuone(op): 8:14pm On Jul 12, 2012

Idowuogbo: Kai! If I call u Sule na people would say am harsh

Guy, infact u b EPA! As in real groundnut head.

U just dey buy drug dey give am, u no read d contents ni? Abi na buy one get one free for idumota u go chatter?

Dude, if d drug u dey buy no get leaflet inside, na jackie chan product

Now take ur careless self to d health section.

Lastly, tell dem over dia how sulehistic u are

Cheers!

i read the leaflet ,the instructions was silent on that . I tried google and am not still clear which is why am trying nairaland.to know if any have an experiencial knowledge of the matter.but if you do not have an answer for my question , i could understand must insult me ? And call me names ? It is uncalled for.

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Health › Re: Combination 3 Pills by Izuone(op): 7:57pm On Jul 12, 2012

Idowuogbo: She buy d pill under bridge ni? My friend go ask whoeva prescribed d pill.

Hia resemble clinic?

actually i was the one who bought the pills 2 days ago, when told me that the old one is about to finish. I thought some people here would know.

Health › Combination 3 Pills by Izuone(op): 7:29pm On Jul 12, 2012

My girl has been using pills to avoid pregnancy . She started seeing her period today but the old pill card still remains 2 tabs. Should she finish the old pills or start a new pill card today as she just started seeing her menses.

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Says I Can't Take Care Of Her , by Izuone: 12:53pm On Jul 07, 2012

Gabriel_sylar: If I were u I will advise you to di what I did dose daes...when ma ass was still broke.....

which was ?

Romance › Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Izuone: 7:22am On Jul 06, 2012

sosoluv: And men that survive on another woman's salary (whether by romance scams or he jus simply sits at home and waits upon her) and gives her sex is called a sharp guy
If u expect a woman to jus give u sex without anything u show her appreciation with in return, then don't complain wen she never cooks for u or cleans up after u. U are jus a shagmate at the end of the day she will go look for someone she will commit to

in a lay man's word there is no romance without finance. So i should go for what i can afford. And expect to lose mylove when i couldn't pay up the love maintenance fee. I wonder what happenned to the love ? Was it even there in the first place?

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