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Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:39pm On Jun 23, 2015

Teeneyo:
She still loves me,and I do also.

If you love her, and she loves you too. And she chose you. I think that answers the question.
First off she was honest enough to have told you, and then she chose you. Things like this happen sometimes. I think what she feels for the other guy is infatuation. And infatuation can never compete with genuine love. You probably weren't giving her enough attention, so she sought it some place else. Remedy that, and you're good to go

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 4:12pm On Jun 23, 2015

Teeneyo:
Good evening bro,my babe of 3 years just confessed to me that she has feelings for anoda guy,i was nt really shocked cus I kinda of saw it comin,bt tot I cud trust her,I told her to make a choice n she said she choose me cus it is I she know very well,and she can't explained ow it all happened...I am just confused...advice pls

she had feelings for another guy.. does she still have feelings for you too?? do u still have feelings for her also??

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 2:40pm On Jun 23, 2015

CallMeBIRA:
I need your advice,I love this guy and he loves me too but the problem is he has a fiancee whom he doesn't how to break up with,there has been a lot of pressure on him to settle down with her,he doesn't want to and at the same time he doesn't want to break up with her out of pity because they have been dating for 5yrs,what do I do?I really love this guy

Give him an ultimatum, tell him to stand up to all those pressuring him, and break it off with her. Cos if he really loves you like you claim he does, then he will. Anything short of that, then he's just leading you on. And eventually you'd go from side chick(no offense) to official mistress.

If at this point he can't stand up to his family and fiancee, how then will he stand up for you, and defend you in the future??......... every woman needs a man who's got her back.

Now, if by any chance he still does not break it off with her, and soon too, then I advise you forget about him and explore other options. It's not gonna be easy, but you'll just have to.

I do hope this helps

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 1:41pm On Jun 21, 2015

presh247:
thanks alot...i appreciate ur advice

sure.... and thank you too

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:38pm On Jun 19, 2015

presh247:
hi, I met a girl online and we have been friends and even chatting on whatsapp. First few days I was madly in love with her, did some funny things to prove to her that I love her but she said she just want us to be friends for now. After much questions I found out she has a guy in U.S and she is falling out of love for him according to her.
My question is should I still be patient enough to wait or move on with my life.
I really love her beauty, the way she talks, her dreams, attitude and just everything for now. Hope to see her soonest. I hardly fall in love for ladies but when I do I give it my best shot. What do you advice I do?

I advice, u remain friends... But don't get too invested that you lose out on seeing other people, and ultimately end up losing at both ends

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 9:58pm On Jun 19, 2015

leeman009:
A friend of mine needs advice, he has being with his wife for over 8 years and they have 2 kids together.
but about 2 years ago he caught her cheating (from her messages to the next man) when he confronted her she denial it, not knowing he has evidence to back up his claim.
As soon as she realised she has been caught out, she called off the relationship with her husband. He tried to give her a second chance but she wont accept it.
She moved out of the house and in less than 2 days he caught her with a different man again, few days later in the process of them trying to rebuild their marriage, he had sex with her.
Few days after having sex with the wife, he caught her in a hotel with the same man.
Since then she has been crying and begging that she has realised her mistake and she want him back.
it's been over 2 years since the whole incident happened and he doesnt have any new evidence of her cheating.
Please note she moved back in with him after 6 months or so from them being apart(when she moved out but they still kept seeing each other) the question now is my friend is confused wether to commit himself into the marriage or get a divorce since they have kids together.

It's been over 2 years, and in that time, she's not shown any signs of going back to her old ways.

It appears you have forgiven, but haven't forgotten. Forgotten here doesn't mean u don't have any memories of the incident. rather, it means that despite all you've decided to let it go, you've refused to let it stop you from committing to ur marriage, it means you don't judge based on what she did, what happened, but what's happening. Cos when u say u forgive her, (why else will u take her bk) but dont forget, then you Haven't really forgiven.
Now in the last 2 years, she's been the model wife, hasn't given any reasons to doubt her..... As I said b4 don't judge based on the past, but on the present. If u truly believe she's changed, then of course commit. (Cos let's face it if in the last 2 years you haven't been committed to ur marriage, then u too have cheated, must not be literally....... And like Jesus said, he who is without sin, cast the first stone) and then you must remember that's its for better, for worse. And If you can make worse better, then y not??
Finally there are children involved, a dysfunctional home never bodes well for children.

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:19pm On Jun 18, 2015

focusM:
I have a very troubling issue. I have a boyfriend I love so much and was thinking we'll get married soon. Well,he has decided to go back to school to study medicine because it has been his dream. When he told me,I supported him but am scared for us. Will this his dream not spoil things? I am 27 and he is 28. When will he finish the medicine and also considering the fact that he has no job but will be depending on support from his family,marriage will be the last thing on his mind till when he's through 6 years from now. Am so confuse right now, though he says we can still get married when he is in school,but I can't seem to bliv this because school is challenging and medicine for that matter. Is it wise for me to keep the relationship? I even find it hard loving any other person apart from him.

Ask your self these questions.
1.do u love him enough to wait for 6 years..
2.is he worth waiting for 6 years?
3. How much does he love you? Do u think he'll still love u in the next 6 years
4. If the tables were turned, will he wait?

If you answer any of them in the negative, then I don't think u should keep the relationship

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 10:46pm On Jun 18, 2015

tensazangetsu:
Ok I met this girl sometime last year she's a ghanian and one of those pretender church girls we became really close friends and I went to see her in school this semester. Waited for her and she stood me up. After that time I told her she should consider our friendship dead cause I asked her what she was doing then and she said she was preparing for church. Who uses 5 hours to prepare for church. Didn't care anyway but ever since then she will call and whatsapp. She would try talking to me and all. I mean what does she really want.

Answer her calls and messages... Then you'll know for sure what she wants

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:36pm On Jun 16, 2015

kingteeee:
thank you so much, but she's a type girl that she'll never answer my call and I didn't know her house,so there's no way for me to show her love and to express myself, I even called her this evening with another line but immediately she heard that it was me she droped the call... So I text her that I'll never bother her again cause I think it's time I let her be cause it seems she don't want me or so

Yh.... I think so too

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 6:34pm On Jun 16, 2015

@ Etetejake

As I said b4, A big d*ck doesn't necessarily connote great sex. There are tons of Materials out there he could read to improve his game.
Now if she indeed loves him, fine. Communication. Let him know what's up. It'll probably bruise his ego,(but tough love) so try not to let it sting too much. But at the same time make sure the message is loud and clear

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 6:04pm On Jun 16, 2015

@ kingteeee

Am assuming, that was the first time u invited her, I think that friend she brought along was a fail safe. She didn't trust you not to try anything. And then u go ahead to complain.. Furthermore confirming her fears, u kept pressuring her to come visit(alone) and then u go another step further by not calling someone u supposedly love for 2 months. It paints this picture that u just wanted access to her pants and nothing else,(and let's face it why else would a guy. wanna be alone with a girl. I may b wrong tho)
And then again, u call back, out of the blues after 2 months. And u still complain about her not coming alone... Still sends the message that all u want is sex. And no one wants to be treated like a sex object.. Hence y she's been ignoring ur calls ( I think)
If u really love her, like u claim u do, then u keep trying, preferably meet her up one on one. Make her understand how u feel, let her know u're here to say (not hit and go) Gain her trust, don't invite her to ur house. Eventually, if u play ur cards right, she'll be the one to invite herself.

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 4:32pm On Jun 16, 2015

Etetejake:
My female friend went to her boyfriend place. while they were making love, she discovered the guys dick was too small and she didn't feel a thing down there. Secondly, the guy doesn't know how to satisfy a woman. She left sad and unsatisfied. to her, she said if it was only to teach him how to satisfy a woman that she would have not been worried. But the dick was small. And there is nothing she can do about that one.
She don't want to hurt the guy bkx he loves her so much. But she can't do without a quality sex. Now she is thinking of quitting but first want my advice.

Trust me the biggest d*cks don't always guarantee mind blowing, toe curling, sex. (ever heard of the phrase "big for nothing" ).... Communication is key in every relationship. If she's invested in the relationship, She should sit him down and let him know... So he finds ways to deal with it ASAP.
If On the other hand she's not feeling the relationship( u didn't say if she loved him). Then... She should let him down easy. And yeah... He's gonna be heart broken, but he'll be even much so, If she gives into her unsatisfied urges, and cheats or something(how else is she gonna get the quality sex she apparently can't do without??)

Hope this helps...

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 10:16pm On Jun 13, 2015

IfyChuky:
U're doing greatli j0rdannkyle. I musn't fail to commend ur invaluable effort, 'tho with little wonder where the Mother Bee had gone.
I think u're fitting in just as perfect as she could have,... Just keep keeping it real, bro..

thanks bro.... and yeah, keeping it real

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:37pm On Jun 11, 2015

@ Corinthians

from what U've said so far... she appears to be someone with her head at home, someone with prospects...
now, if I were to give an interpretation, I'd say she was talking to the both of you(herself, and you) and she's quite right too.. a relationship at this point ( age wise and stuff) will indeed be all of what she said, may make u lose focus. I don't think she's not interested, on the contrary, she's protecting her interests....in the sense that she's obviously( I may be speculating here) interested in you. but she not looking at just the present... but long term. she probably envisages a future with you... and for that to happen, u must indeed be focused. to me the underlying message isn't that she's not interested, it is that she is, but its not yet time( notice how she said, not just herself, but any other girl) am guessing she has dreams she needs to work towards, and so do u
if my I'm right (and I think I am) then she's definitely a keeper.
the question now is what do u want? a relationship with someone else?? whatever is ur answer will determine if you should or shouldn't revert to the status quo

I hope this helps... and sorry it's coming late

Sports › Re: The Best Over And Under 2.5 Goals Tips by j0rdannkyle: 8:35pm On Jun 03, 2015

wow.... nice one

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 10:39pm On May 31, 2015

doxiler:
pls advice me,am a graduate, lookin4beta job. i saw a lady&we exchange no&I luv her so much& my intention is2settle down wit her.d problem am havin how is dat she wants us 2b friends bt i want2marry her.she only call me wen hvin problem, but am d one always calin sometime she seems my calls as disturbance thou I call she always.she doesnt gv attention bt want my attention.she gv me some moni to help her on trust.She told me of her boyfriend but tellin me what she wants in life.shld i leave her&go

she told u about her boyfriend? only calls u when she has problems.... considers ur calls as disturbances?? dude leave her and go, this isn't even friend zoning. she's just toying with you, and taking advantage of the feelings you have for her, as illustrated by her only calling when she needs ur assistance. to be honest, I doubt she even wants to be friends... she's just giving false hope.
my advice, is as u put it "leave her and go" she's not the one.
you'll find someone else... someone you'll love even more than now, someone who'll love u in return....

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 12:36am On May 31, 2015

1Cor10vs26:
Wow, Tanx a lot.

One more thing, after the DTR questions nothing changed between us, we actually got closer. Someone told me that there's no need to ask her out and that I should just start acting as her boyfriend since she has shown such interest in me. Is this okay?

yeah, .....if thats the case, yeah you shouldn't.
but don't just act, become her boyfriend. and as much as possible make it known to her( just so no one is left behind). you could for example throw in a phrase like, "wow my girlfriend is looking real great today". it will have an even greater effect if u say it in the presence of other ppl.(like the one who advised u not to ask her out). cos now there are no more assumptions. you've made it known to not just her, but ur friends and colleagues. and at this point, I believe you have Defined the relationship

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:53pm On May 30, 2015

Donabydeco:
Thks for this thread tho..

1)Here is one pretty girl in d hall..actually this isnt the first time will hav been seen each other face b4...the girl is so carinq to me ehnn,she picked up mai tab,Charge it wit her system,come to mai seat and Returned mai charger..Carinq in short...I wanna try to approach that girl and have her num..I need some tips,Discussion dat she will av an interest in nd code to make it work out perfectly n av her num cuz diz girl in an eminence girl and I don't wanna mess up wit her at all or less myself... HELP!!!

2)I really like this girl so much,will talked for the
first time,xchange contact,Anytime will are together
in hall..She try to be fun, will talked
together,touched me,Share our feeling and
thought,Talked abt wat going in Hall,She do call me
where necessarry,She came to my Hostel to visit
me just for a once and left Immediately.. buh the
prbs is anytime I called her on phone,she is boring
during Conversation wit short short replied..
"fine" good" am
coming"no"yes"ok"when"why"Nothing much"I will"
bye"Evening'
In fact am tired of all this ,I don't no how to woo
her self and catch her feeling wit all this..
Nairalander shld give me tip to stop all this and
win her heart...

sorry, am confused here. these aren't the same person....., so, which one exactly do you like??

Romance › Re: Certified Relationship Expert! Ask Your Questions by j0rdannkyle: 11:47pm On May 30, 2015

1Cor10vs26:
Hi, am a guy still schooling, 200lvl precisely. And I met this girl who I love very much; she once asked me to define the relationship and I told her I plan to take things to the next level but I want to know her better first. But now am thinking what would be the point of a relationship, we're the Godly type THERE WOULD BE NO SEXand also I don't have a job yet (still years before I graduate) and am the kind of person wouldn't date for fun, I'd rather it end in marriage.
Is it reasonable that I ask her out cos I don't want to lose her

you see, that is one of the biggest misconceptions ever. relationships btwn a guy and girl isn't for sex. rather, it's to get to know each other well, and see if your compatible. case in point, yours...... you want one that will end in marriage. u don't just meet a person today, and get married the following Saturday. no, that's what relationships are for...to familiarize yourself with her, and vice versa. now, if the decision for no sex is mutual, and you indeed love her as u claim... then I say go for it. cos trust me...U're not the only guy with eyes on her. and she isn't gonna wait forever. there probably is someone else already. hence why she asked to DTR(define the relationship). so she knows where she stands with you.
in summary, yeah ask her out. and quick too

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Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by j0rdannkyle: 2:03pm On May 28, 2015

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Thanks,I have seen d Zenith Bank details,its kinda different from my former bookie,this EngArthur na sharp guy,he don quickly send me pm,as if I no dey see as people dey claim say he scam them here!

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Sports › Re: You Can Now Fund Ur MERRYBET Acct Using Airtime.@ Airtime2pay.com 09099849776 by j0rdannkyle: 12:26pm On May 27, 2015

Khaytunechi:
alrighty. I wanna hav a trial with the minimum fund. 5h. So I'll transfer 550naira worth of airtime, right??

yeah me too I want 1000, so that's 1100 yeah?

Romance › Re: group. by j0rdannkyle: 9:16am On May 22, 2015

StealthIdeals:
I hope I find the two qualities in a woman.

3, adding the strong accent. now to find the first 2 isn't so hard. but all 3... not impossible, but also not too probable

Romance › Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by j0rdannkyle: 9:02am On May 22, 2015*

Jollyjoy:
Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasized. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finally marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an elder broda nt omeone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited WHEN THE LOVE AND INFATUATION FINALLY FADES AWAY, AND THE HARSH REALITY OF MARRIED LIFE SURFACES.that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION.

sorry, finally fades?? harsh reality?? why get married in the first place then? when u know it is as u claim inevitable.

@op, age is still just a number....and 3 is an even smaller number. if the love is there, y not. and that whole crap of the lady looking like ur mother eventually.... is well, crap. that's what healthy eating and exercise is for.

Romance › Re: group. by j0rdannkyle: 8:34am On May 22, 2015

I think its quiet simple. do you need a wife or an editor??
we can't all eat our cake and have it. an editor u can employ... but same can't be said about a loving wife!.

just my 2 cents

Romance › Re: I Met My Wife A Virgin – Gov Oshiomhole by j0rdannkyle: 3:00pm On May 19, 2015

seriously?? has this nigga heard of the term "too much info" yeeshh!!!!

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Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by j0rdannkyle: 7:06pm On Apr 23, 2015

guys pls can anyone tell me what this means?? @ the encircled. cos just 1 game cut this slip

thanks

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by j0rdannkyle: 7:52pm On Apr 08, 2015

tonyx4x44:
I thought 1 straight red = 2 cards

Yeah, sorry, twas a mistake. Just seeing.
1 red= 2 cards

Business › Re: Football(+ Other Sports) Betting Season 9 by j0rdannkyle: 10:10am On Apr 08, 2015

haykayneyo:
It's under
1. 07.04.15 21:00
Levante UD - Sevilla FC (Under/Over 7.5 cards)
Primera Division / Spain / Soccer
Customer type: Under 7.5 cards @ 1.90
Result: Over 7.5 cards
2. 07.04.15 21:00
SD Eibar - Malaga CF (1 - 10 min result)
Primera Division / Spain / Soccer
Customer type: X @ 1.12
Result: X

5 yellow for Sevilla and 2 yellow for Levante

Sorry, you lost. 2 reds= 2 cards
So, for that match, sevilla had 5 cards and levante had 4 cards
Which is 9.

Romance › Re: When Last Did You Bleep Ur Gf/bf Or Spouse by j0rdannkyle: 8:45pm On Apr 07, 2015

Wait, is this for real??

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