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My wife has been tested positive few yrs after our marriage. She wasn't +ve before the marriage and our child then wasn't +ve and myself till today(infact just last week i tested myself again) is not positive, how and where she got the virus remains a mystery to me. I cried as I've never cried in my life during that period, (i wish i can erase those days from my memory) even till today, remembering her status saddens my heart but she is still my wife and I still love her and can't leave her. She have given birth to 2 kids after then and they are both negative and very healthy(that's my consolation). She takes her medication every single day since then and doesn't miss her appointment in hospital. Am still praying God that one day she will be okay. Since then I've not been enjoying se.x with her because i use protection+trauma/fear. We use a method her doctors advised us for conception.