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Literature / Re: The Devil has the money ( A Novel) by jacy67(f): 12:20pm On Jul 28, 2016
Dear Bibi,
I love what you're doing here. the story is not in any way predictable no matter how sentimentally attached I seem to be with some of the characters. Unlike some authors on this section, I must commend you on how timely you update.
Keep it up.

Your new fan,
jacy67

BTW, I am hooked to the other story, WHEN TEARS BRING YES.

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Fashion / Re: Oshewa Beauty Transforms Lady With Acne's Face (WOW Photos) by jacy67(f): 10:27am On Jul 25, 2016
EkeBarry:
i knw of a product that can redeem that face from all this spots and save the stress of wearing such heavy make up alwez
what's the name please?
Celebrities / Re: Uchenna Nnanna, Her Husband & Son In Matching Denim On Denim by jacy67(f): 10:20am On Jul 25, 2016
myfantasies:
Dis got me rolling on the floor
grin grin
hahahaha LMAO
Fashion / Re: Oshewa Beauty Transforms Lady With Acne's Face (WOW Photos) by jacy67(f): 10:18am On Jul 25, 2016
galaxybabe3:
pls whats the name of the product??hanks
what's the name please
Religion / Re: Korede Taiwo Who Was Chained In Ogun By His Pastor Father Speaks by jacy67(f): 9:46am On Jul 25, 2016
omohlexy:
whoever is rehabilitating this boy should watch him closely else he or she will.end up hanging the boy on a cross. apparently the father didnt want to raise a thief tho his approach was wrong. according to the boy in spite of being punished they were still feeding him twice. how many families still afford 2 meals a day ? there is stealing in the boy's blood . i feel for the fraustrated dad who is now on the run cos he has a thief as a son
Crime / Re: Robber Hit With His Own Charm, Slumps In Lagos (photo) by jacy67(f): 10:36am On Jul 18, 2016
I just came to 'watch' the e-war between NCAN members from different branches
Politics / Re: Presidency Blames Niger Delta Crisis For Slow 2016 Budget Implementation. by jacy67(f): 8:21am On Jul 18, 2016
Buhari, keep blaming everything and everyone but yourself.
Just admit that you're incompetent.

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Fashion / Re: Checkout This Trending Zip Hairstyle From Ibadan... by jacy67(f): 5:50am On Jul 18, 2016
7inches:


haha pain me?...diz funniest comment iv ever seen here.
seems u dnt kno me.. anyways i Can bash u and make you regret ur live but.. nop u are a gal. i wont break my personal rules.
ilove women a lot bcoz they hav my favourite food.
u kno wat i mean.
and dot make me develop interest in u bcoz i might track u down and bed u n destroy ur kitty bt not wit jazz.
so RESPECT ME

I guess that's the only thing you're good at and you're trying too hard to advertise your trade. Sorry, look elsewhere
Fashion / Re: Checkout This Trending Zip Hairstyle From Ibadan... by jacy67(f): 4:38pm On Jul 17, 2016
7inches:

just shut up. if u dnt kno wat to say.
hahaha!!! e pain you? mtchew!!!
Fashion / Re: Checkout This Trending Zip Hairstyle From Ibadan... by jacy67(f): 5:32am On Jul 17, 2016
7inches:


really?..so why would u insult me if i neva did to u.
if u do den u be callining ursrlf miss insanity baby...
or are u on ur m€ns€$..
coz i heard gals in dat situation gat no chill.
sorry to ask.....
*wink*

no disrespect but I guess you have a sister , mother or a girlfriend/wife (someday). Do you think it's funny to joke about menses? For a better understanding read Every Woman. oh I forgot, not everyone on nairaland is an adult!
Properties / Re: 3 Bedroom With Swimming Pool At Exclusive Estate (For Rent) by jacy67(f): 5:24am On Jul 17, 2016
for your mind! I know say na frog family get this estate.
Crime / Re: Checkout The Nicest Thief In Aba by jacy67(f): 5:24pm On Jul 16, 2016
hahahaha.....It's obvious he lost his phone. It wasn't stolen from OP. He get luck say the guy wan send am important numbers. The headline de misleading sha.
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 4:27pm On Jul 06, 2016
hello famz, I want to know, do introverts overcome their shyness and dance? I am so shy that I can't even dance. :0
Celebrities / Re: Crystal Okoye Shows Off Her Butt by jacy67(f): 1:47pm On Jul 06, 2016
elopee3000:
she fit borrow u one side of her yash if u beg well grin grin grin grin grin
with that kind 'rumple' wey full there?
Celebrities / Re: Crystal Okoye Shows Off Her Butt by jacy67(f): 9:17am On Jul 06, 2016
Is that the only asset she has? I hope the flat, upstairs is not vacant? sad

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy For Human Resources/admin Manager by jacy67(f): 6:12am On Jul 05, 2016
Op, no details about the said company?
Webmasters / Re: Who Introduced You To Nairaland? by jacy67(f): 9:19pm On Jul 04, 2016
I have been a guest in nairaland for as long as I can remember. But became a member because of mattkent story titled Behind Her Veil.
Meen!!! The suspense was too much that I had to register to commend the author.

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Webmasters / Re: Who Introduced You To Nairaland? by jacy67(f): 9:18pm On Jul 04, 2016
I have been a guest in nairaland for as long as I can remember. But became a member because of mattkent story titled Behind Her Veil.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Enugu Electricity Distribution Company Graduate Trainee Program by jacy67(f): 8:57pm On Jul 04, 2016
fellow joblanders, how was the test?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please I Need Your Advice On This EEDC Aptitude Test Invitation by jacy67(f): 7:48am On Jul 01, 2016
Emmaume:
If you applied for the position of Electrical Engineer, then read about power.

Voltage levels, transformers, switch gears,common faults experienced in 33/11kv lines.
Then safety tips.dress well and be composed.

Good luck.

what of management science?

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Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 9:24pm On Jun 30, 2016
I feel at a loss on what to write on my FB wall.

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Literature / Re: The Quirk Of Fate (Short Relationship Story) by jacy67(f): 2:40pm On Jun 30, 2016
present uncle!! I hope I still de for front row!!! smiley

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Mtn N60k Job:20 Persons Urgently Needed To Resume On Fri. July 1,2016 by jacy67(f): 5:56am On Jun 30, 2016
Candyrain:
Are u guys kidding me? OP dropped a contact number for u guys to reach him and you all are dropping ur emails address, what is he supposed to do with them? Lolzzzzzzz

You took the words out of my mouth! That is why people fail. that can't obey simple instruction. Keep waiting for mails: (
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Mtn N60k Job:20 Persons Urgently Needed To Resume On Fri. July 1,2016 by jacy67(f): 5:56am On Jun 30, 2016
Candyrain:
Are u guys kidding me? OP dropped a contact number for u guys to reach him and you all are dropping ur emails address, what is he supposed to do with them? Lolzzzzzzz

You took the words out of my mouth! That is why people fail. they can't obey simple instruction. Keep waiting for mails: (

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: EEDC Aptitude Test by jacy67(f): 2:50pm On Jun 28, 2016
I got the same invite. the text went thus,

EEDC CHQ

u're invited 2 aptitude test@ Oakland hall, Ebeano tunnel Enugu. by 10am, Monday 4th July, 2016. Bring 1passport & writing materials. Be der 1 hour earlier.

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Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 9:08am On Jun 24, 2016
Jrush:
surprising how I was able to read the whole 80 pages of this thread.. wish to in a special way thank the Op, you have done a great job.. those who have gone and does who are still here.. Jeffrey James, tranxo, Epreel, nobody but we know your somebody, whitecloth, agieberry, leadzeal, shegxi n others blessings!..
am not jobless to have gone through all these pages, but its an inquisitive mind in search of answers..
I am a born introvert, I have most of the traits mentioned here. Alot of people tend me rude and proud but am not, which just you here would understand.. I am a perfectionist that people call me slowpoke cause I tend to analysis everything before I endorse it.
my best friends are my phone, books and my laptop. every quite place is a haven including the loo.
can stay in a room for weeks just give me light and food.
dont have friends and cant keep them.
cant start a conversation, cant keep one going.
can speak in public, but came with a price (story for another day).
Alot have been said about us and am happy to be home.. You are my very own..
please for the continuity of this family.. a whatsapp group should be created to foster the comunication.. the thread needs it.. just my 2cents...
As I lay In my bed
I will sleep with a smile
cause this is home
where I truly belong. Ciao

You're not alone, welcome on board!smiley
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 9:05am On Jun 24, 2016
DonOms:

There is strength in this supposed weakness of yours, you just have to capitalize on it.
There is a chance the reason you 'shut down' during a confrontation might be an effect of dopamine rush in your brain. And I'm guessing in severe cases, you have mild panic attacks.
You can try these, when confronted, secretly take a couple of deep breaths (it will counter the 'shut down' effect and allow you think)and as fast as possible, think of a laconic response while listening. Then once the person has finished talking, tell them your short response and leave it at that.

Those who don't have this problem we have hide under their ability to just talk on and on and they make us feel guilty in the process hence the reason you try to avoid the situation/persons involved. You need to know that the onus is always on you to say your side of the story whether it is believed or not. So begin to learn to address issues with brief responses and then you will build up to having the perfect answers for people. You need to also accept some people are unreasonable (unlike you) and won't listen so teach yourself to let go with ease.

Many people make decisions based on public opinions. YOU HAVE TO STOP IT. And you can only do so by thinking for yourself and stand by your thought/decision unless there is a strong reason to shift ground. You have so much residual thinking power as an introvert so you need to tap into it.
People will ALWAYS have different opinions of you anyway. The sooner you accept that fact, the sooner you're not affected by it.

As for friends, smiley introverts always have few friends and hardly make new ones. And it's tougher as a female. Best thing is to let your guard down sometimes (based on instincts) and go with the flow of making friends with like-minded people when the opportunity knocks.

In summary, no one gets transformed overnight. Just little steps in the right direction is all.
"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better." - Samuel Beckett

Thanks so much for the insight! Especially on the decision part. For the confrontation, one of the contributing factors is that once I start responding, I tend to say things I might regret and hurtful to the person on the receiving end.

# modified. in addition, I find it difficult to say no

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Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 10:42pm On Jun 23, 2016
chuksp09:

I feel ur pain girl, i am kinda in d same boat here. I dont know if u would call this good advice but as to the public opinion problem, i slowly forced myself not to care what people think without giving any explanations whatsoever; except d person is interested and civilized enough to ask.
As to the verbal abuse thingy, am still battling with that, i tend to just ignore d person, but i really wish i could cultivate a better way.

Good to know that I am not alone. I'll adopt what you said on taking decisions because it makes me indecisive most of the time. Thanks for the tips
Literature / Re: The Photographer(complete) by jacy67(f): 10:37pm On Jun 23, 2016
ghen ghen!!! Nadie, you have bitten more than you can chew. Nike the iron Lady, just teach her a bitter lesson on loyalty.

Ud is just too vulnerable for my liking

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Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jacy67(f): 10:34pm On Jun 23, 2016
joceey:


Knowing your witness is the first step of freedom acknowledging your weakness is another.You can transform your weakness to strength take note please

Note taken but how do I do the transformation?
Literature / Re: Finding Love by jacy67(f): 5:05pm On Jun 23, 2016
Nice update. But I feel the story is a bit rushed. Don't be in a hurry to update your story. Just take your time so that it will worth the wait.

Kudos to your first story though

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Food / Re: 13 Most Amazing Nigerian Food Tranformations (photos) by jacy67(f): 3:20pm On Jun 23, 2016
The packaging no be here o! Which kind temptation be this for this afternoon la??

For lala soup, I nearly vomit sad

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