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0luwatope:
Since 8pm, I've been angry, I get angry for hours, whenever I'm angry, all I would do is listen to music, press phone, meditate, stay alone, and all these would last for hours

As I am typing this, its 11:40pm already and I still feel angry and sad

One of the ways I overcame this type of anger is giving it back to the person immediately. You might call it retaliation but it takes loads of anger off my chest.
One day, I went to a restaurant to eat. The way the eba was served wasn't appealing, it looked like a leftover. I called the waiter's attention. One customer just chook mouth as if he paid for me and told me to manage the food like that. I told him immediately that I didn't beg for the food. Immediately he faced his own food, the owner of the restaurant took the eba and apologized, I got what I wanted and everyone was happy. Shikena

Happy new year my fellow introverts. I am more comfortable chatting online, dropping witty comments to strangers but I can't hold up a conversation for long. Unless we've been friends for long, or I am comfortable with you. Sometimes I wish I can do more.

5k would've gone a long way before this dwindling economic situation. You want to help the poor with a paltry sum. Is it for palm oil or for rice? You caused the hardship yourself. This is a case of killing someone you will mourn.

thank you all for your advice. I appreciate.

Berbierklaus:
Is it an every night thing? if its not,trust me she will outgrow it.
Just make sure it's not spiritual

It's almost an everyday thing. Sometimes, she can go on a week without bed wetting.

kilokeys:
and be vewi sure one bros has not destroyed the bladder with pweek

I don't think so

DarkRed:
Simple. She should regulate her water intake to the barest minimum...especially in the evenings and night before going to bed. Now that she is an adult, I think she can adjust to that until she stops bedwetting.

Sometimes she refuse to take sweet drinks or even water around that time.

The most important thing is a successful marriage not a glamorous wedding.

My niece who is 17yrs old is still bed wetting. She is the first child and most of her siblings are no longer doing such even the last child. Sometimes, she will be woken up as much as twice before day break. It's very embarrassing and she's about to gain admission to the university. Please fellow nairalanders, I need your advice on this. Are there any remedies/medications or anything to stop this habit?

Woman, you're not doing yourself any good. It's better to train few very well than have many with little resources. You will ending up investing only on their feeding and not on their future.

BTW, the boys are not smiling

Mosesbutez:
Because of it my mum went to so many prophets to know if the guy is really meant for her, the prophets saying the same thing that the guy is good but she will get pregnant immediately he marries her and for her education, its left for my dad to negotiate with him. .. So times I thought that these prophets are just using their common sense to advice her.

Mind you that some prophets prophesy for their pocket and will always tell you what you want to hear.

There's no stipulated age for a woman as long as she's no longer a minor. The most important thing is what your sister really want. in my opinion, your sister should focus on her education because with exposure, women tend to change their priorities especially concerning marriage. If there's no strong footing for her, she might end up being a housewife which will not favor her on the long run. some men don't fulfill their promise of sending their wives to school after wedding. One of my classmates in high school is yet to recover from that failed promise.

Above all, your parents should not force her if she doesn't really want to get married now. As for you, you can only advice her and not decide for her.

Do you have any savings from your job? if so, you can start a business with it till you find something better.

Adeoba10:
Just like this small kid at kuto market, whenever customers bought goods (kitchen utensils) from her mum, this kid will be crying profusely, saying that they taking her mum's properties away.... Funny kid....

I was told I did the same when I was a kid.