Chai the Jaks himself. Didn't realise that you are still active.

Sisisioge see your old time customer.

hmm

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Understanding what women want isn't really hard. In fact, if men pay enough attention, they can really know what women's actions indicate, especially in bed. Yes, you read that right. Women's actions reveal a lot about what they want in relationships and their sex life. Sex can be all the more exciting when men figure out the best way to lead a lusty and steam session in between the sheets. While it is no mystery, there are certainly some secrets that women wish men would know to score brownie points in bed!

Read on to grab onto these golden sex secrets!
A good talk is a great aphrodisiac

Many women find a good conversation to be a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple is relaxing can be prove to be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her mentally during those intimate moments.
Women want to be praised
For a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because of this some women UnCloth only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she’s gorgeous if she isn’t, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive.
For a woman sex isn’t separate from rest of her life

On the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during sex.
An orgasm is not a necessity

Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to climactic sexual culmination. It is great to have such moments, but aren’t always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reach an orgasm. Sometimes instead of having orgasms, women prefer to engage in just pre-intimacy.
Sex need not be a serious act

Playfulness is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about sex. They forget to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This takes performance pressure off from both partners.
Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness
Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women complain that their men never do this except during pre-intimacy. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved and wanted.
Warm attention after sex is important
A woman’s need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is true that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. Almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this phase happens gradually. However, if you don’t like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and gently wake him up afterwards.

Money dey talk

If I be u I go chop de girl clean mouth hahaha

Prettiepearlz:

Barking dog identifying himself as one. Raving lunatic! Wife beater. Idiot, what pain can you possibly feel? Werey dey disguise. Woman beater oshi. Even Nairaland men condemned your act, can you beat that? She will divorce you and I pray she does before you turn her into a deaf/blind person because at the rate at which mad man like you keep beating her up, she will either end up with a serious medical issue or 6 ft under. God forbid she dies in your hands not because I care about you as you deserve to be behind bars and trust me you will meet your waterloo one day but because your beautiful wife deserves to live her life freely without a monstrous husband and a MIL like your mum who keeps manipulating her immature son with crocodile tears on how she is treated and I pray she comes to her senses and divorces you. Don't worry about my love life, it's sorted out. And insults to women about not finding men is stale and old school, we really don't care, maybe that's why assholes like you think you should still be worshipped for being a monster!

did u not got a guy to marry u

prettysassygirl:
Congratulations ��. It's hard to see a good marriage these days.

u Neva still see a guy to married u

Prettiepearlz:

Oga shut the F up! Animal! How did you know her mother insulted your mum? Were you there or is it just something you and your mum made up to make your weak selves feel better? You think I am scared of you, ode say he wan attack me, dem give my own mouth to washer man? Between you and I, who is the one with the empty brain? A woman beater who couldn't even take to corrections of everyone who condemned his act. He keeps saying "I know I am wrong but...... " go and google the narcissist prayer. All your post reeks of that. You can't even put your thoughts in words properly. Illiterate wife beater. I swear to God, I don't do Nairaland wars but if I come for you, you will fall into depression. Wife beater oshi, shameless man! Ai lai ni itiju ara Galatia. Keep beating her, two things will happen, you will either go to jail for murder or she would wise up and dump your sorry ass. Mtchewwww. Very disgusting human being.

look at dis frustrated dog. Did I know u b4 who come on my blog to attack me. U are praying we divorce is to u and ur genaratiin. I kip asking wat ur business why did u judge me wen u Neva know my pains as u come shouting and jumping as a dog is like man don do u strong tin dis new year. U cant find love at ur age

Prettiepearlz:

You disgust me! What an arrogant and toxic individual you are! Jeez, reading your response on this thread and it reeks of the narcissism. You are a ducking narcissist. Damn! Grow up! Or better still, stay put in your manipulative mother's house since you're a proud mummy's boy. Talking about slapping an adult as if he is talking about a toddler. I hope she realizes her worth and dumps your sorry ass. She is worth more than being the wife of an unrepentant ahole like you. And trust me, if you continue like this, your old age will be filled with regrets because you are setting yourself up for failure. Mumu say he is a disciplined man, Lmao, you are not disciplined instead you're a weak sadistic man. I wish I didn't bump into this thread again. Mtcheewwww!

PS: all this useless and toxic masculinity starts and end here on Nairaland. And it's easy to display all these BS posts because the forum allows it. You wouldn't dare post this on forums like Reddit, Quora etc and not be ripped a new one. I wonder what Nairaland as a forum would love to be remembered for. You know for a heavily moderated forum allowing a lot of gender based violent post and tribal insult comments to fly like its a normal thing beats my imagination. Is it for traffic? It is well.

if It ur prayer my marriage scatter back to sender

Prettiepearlz:

You disgust me! What an arrogant and toxic individual you are! Jeez, reading your response on this thread and it reeks of the narcissism. You are a ducking narcissist. Damn! Grow up! Or better still, stay put in your manipulative mother's house since you're a proud mummy's boy. Talking about slapping an adult as if he is talking about a toddler. I hope she realizes her worth and dumps your sorry ass. She is worth more than being the wife of an unrepentant ahole like you. And trust me, if you continue like this, your old age will be filled with regrets because you are setting yourself up for failure. Mumu say he is a disciplined man, Lmao, you are not disciplined instead you're a weak sadistic man. I wish I didn't bump into this thread again. Mtcheewwww!

PS: all this useless and toxic masculinity starts and end here on Nairaland. And it's easy to display all these BS posts because the forum allows it. You wouldn't dare post this on forums like Reddit, Quora etc and not be ripped a new one. I wonder what Nairaland as a forum would love to be remembered for. You know for a heavily moderated forum allowing a lot of gender based violent post and tribal insult comments to fly like its a normal thing beats my imagination. Is it for traffic? It is well.

it like ur an animal why insult me bloody empty brianlike u. Are u d one day is married. Are u d one feeling d pains. Are u d one dat face pains cos my mum was insulted by her mum. U beta think b4 u talk and dont put mouth were it none of ur business.respect urself cos if I attack u u will hate urself

UyaiIncomparabl:

hmm

cococandy:

Happy new year too
I’m Doing awesome

Stay blessed

happy new year cocobeauty I miss u a lot

Dat ibo life for u

It is well I wish some wife control how dey talk to thier hubby

chatinent:





You talk about beating her like you are talking about breathing!

About you mom, your mum should know her place and stop picking on minor things and controlling your family! Everybody knows that the wife’s mother will most likely want to come for the omugo unless it is mutually agreed on both mothers-in-law who should come first or last!

Mummy’s boy my arse!

You are also not doing your wife a favour marrying her! I will never mince words for rubbish!


Egbon, inasmuch as I don't support her not wanting you close to your mom, if na my sis you beat like this, I for don nack good grammar enter your body. That's not the main problem...the problem is you'll call the police for me and you will be asked to write statement, you go go copy another man murder case statement!

Nonsense and ingredients.

so guy wen ur sis get married u will be involving urself dere. dat why most marraige don't last. I will still reply u for u to understand some things about marraige

Kobojunkie:
Huh??

News flash Mr. Refrigerated-food-is-an-insult-bred, everybody is someone.

if a guy as buhari or governor come to ur house will u give him food in freezer or cook again don't lie pls.

I will reply odas. dat gave sensible quote. if u think I will have time for insult u are dreaming. I pass Una die. ahnie I see u

baby124:
Lmaooo. Get your mother a boyfriend or husband. Why is she crying and manipulating all the time. She’s there to take care of wife and baby, she should be helping to cook. Not looking to be taken care of.

I understand her crying about someone taking her place when baby was little. As Yoruba culture it’s the man’s mother that comes first. But see what she did when she went, she was expecting to be catered to. Is that what she would have done to your wife when she just gave birth?

Try to resist the urge to react to everything your mother says. You can’t be beating your wife for your mother, your children will grow to hate you and your mother if you don’t stop now!

You will learn to pretend for both of them to keep the peace. When they cry and complain, listen and offer solutions of peace between the both of them. Tell both of them to have patience and love/accommodate each other. You see beating your wife has not changed anything. And soon she may run away if you continue. How many women will you beat?

I like ur point witout insult am at work will reply later u know is wrong for my mum not to do omugo . Is hard b4 I beat my wife but I get angry quick dat how am created d problem is my wife mum.de number one problem is dat woman and I try to let my woman know dat u cant let ur mum control wat happen in marraige. u too said it dat its wrong for her mum to do omugo. my mum cant come and be fighting to stay.forget I do gragra on internet am very loyal to my wife as a baby some think we are still boyfriend and galfriend.but she know if she knew I will Neva taka rubbish from her or her family. am a dicipline guy.

Kobojunkie:
I have never heard a such ridiculous complaint in my entire life.... giving someone food from fridge is bad?

is ur own mother and unborn genaration dat is a someone and nobody pls am pass dat stage of insulting anybody on internet but mind wat u say

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TMKsouth:


Be more creative COWgerian. Change your identity to a cow and you'll live a more improved life in Nigeria.

hahahahaha is u dat is cow dat naked diaself on youtube to dance I watch it

hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

JaceBlaze:



Wow you got yourself a "hot SA lady"? I don't blame you for flaunting that because I know that's a gold standard compared to what you left in West Africa

As for imaginary frustrations,man I'm sure your problems are much bigger than mine considering where you come from.

did u still have aids south animal

TMKsouth:


He's even overlooking the fact that she works for the African Union and it's her duty to speak up for African nations.

Ramaphosa's speech blasting the travel bans is also trending globally - but we'll be told a Nigerian saved us.

south animal

sisisioge:
Doesnt she work? 150k is too small for a family in Nigeria now o.....hian, and shes the one appropriately your whole salary? It is well.


1. Leave the 5k matter alone biko.
2. Look into broadening your income as a family
3. Work out how she becomes financially able too
4. Agree on shared contributions

There is no way you can grow if shes the one appropriating your whole salary. You need to have savings, flex money and emergency money apart from the family recurring expense money. Maybe school fees drained this one but you really need to relook your income.

I wish you and yours financial growth o cos it's a major constraint for families.

have u marry dear

Biglittlelois:



I'm fine, how is married life treating you? Splendidly I hope, enjoy.

married life is fine is OK dear . no comment

Biglittlelois:
Kids should not be in that type of environment, it can damage their psych and normal development.

baby how are u

rosalieene:
Congratulations to you. I thought you were into logistics ooo From your posts here

ibo beauty I miss u a lot

makydebbie:
Anyways vote Angel and Cross o.

Ghana beauty I miss u a lot

UyaiIncomparabl:
They are queens.

One time I boarded a bus, a guy saw my waist beads and was instantly charmed. He paid my transport fare and gave me an extra 10K for the road.

He offered to want to be friends but I politely declined and told him I had a higher power. I cannot jeopardize my relationship with Alhaji over one boy that gave me a few sums.

hmmm

cococandy