₦airaland Forum

vanitty: ^ please do tell why he only bath with the daughter and never the son?

How am I supposed to know I don`t know them. Like I said; some people put an age-limit to 1year, 2year, 4years..maybe they feel the 5 year-old is too old, but not the toddler?

dayokanu: If it was the mother bathing with her daughter would it have been abuse?

or if it was the woman bathing with the son?

People seem to imagine that it is only men who can be abusers..

madan: I am a witness to that. Its nt a cooked up story, its true okay. I have seen him do this many times. What baffles me most is that he still bathes with her when the weather is cold. Thats fishy u know.

In my country, in the winter, it gets up to -25 degrees, up to 6months every year. What are we supposed to do, then, not shower?

I do not find this disturbing. If the OP can see him closing the door, it means more people than only the wife/other kids can look inside the bathroom, and that is reason enough to close it. I don`t close my door to shower when it is only my husband and kid here, but if a friend is over? Of course!

My daughter, two and a half, would rather shower with her father than me. Why? Cause he makes it more fun, according to her, with the toys and playing, while I just soap, shower and get out.

Some people have a limit at 1 year with kids of the opposite s*x, others two years, others ten years, etc, etc. Just because your are comfortable being naked in front of your kids, does not mean you are abusing them.